Inombolo Eshaqisayo Yabantu Bacabanga Ukuziphindiselela Kwezithombe Zocansi kulungile

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Ukuhlukana kunzima ukwenza. (Leyo yingoma, akunjalo?) Izinto zingonakala ngokushesha, njengoba izingxoxo ziba izingxabano-futhi ezimbi, lapho. Futhi manje kuvela ukuthi abantu balungile ngokuziphindiselela i-porn (aka ukuthumela okuyimfihlo, izithombe zocansi ze-ex online ngaphandle kwemvume) kunokuba ubungacabanga. I-WTF, akunjalo?

Abaphenyi e-University of Kent bathola ukuthi amaphesenti angama-22 kuphela wabantu ababengathumela okuthile (phew), kepha amaphesenti angama-99 (99 PERCENT, YOU GUYS) angeke abe nenkinga uma abanye beziphindiselela kwenzeke nje ukuvuza. Abaphenyi baphinde bathola ukuthi amaphesenti angama-87 ababambiqhaza aveze okungenani uhlobo oluthile lokuzijabulisa ngomqondo wokuphindisela i-porn. Yebo yebo, kubukeka sengathi kunabantu abaningi abajabulela ubuhlungu be-ex.

Ukufakwa kuphela kwesiliva ukuthi okungenani kunezimpawu ezimbalwa zokuxwayisa. Abantu abakhombisa imikhuba ehambisana ne-narcissism, i-psychopathy, ne-Machiavellianism (eyaziwa njenge- "Dark Triad" complex complex) maningi amathuba okuthi basekele futhi bahlanganyele ekuphindiseleni i-porn. Ngakho-ke qaphela lezi zimpawu zokuthi uthandana ne-narcissist.

Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi, kepha, ukuthi lolu cwaningo lwenziwe kusampula yokuzikhethela yabantu abadala abayi-100 abaneminyaka eyi-18 kuya kwengama-54 eqoqwe online-hhayi ukumelwa okunembile kwabantu bonke. Kodwa kusekhona ezinye izifundo esingazifunda futhi okufanele sizisuse kulolu cwaningo, okusobala kakhulu ukuthi ukwabelana kuphela ngezithombe namavidiyo ahehayo nozakwethu omethemba ngempela. Owesibili? Abantu abaningi mhlawumbe badinga ukuthola izindlela ezingcono zokuhambisa intukuthelo yabo nentukuthelo ngemuva kokwehlukana. Kungani ungasebenzisi ubudlelwano be-DOA njengesikhuthazo sokuqeda izinhloso zakho, uchithe isikhathi nabangane bakho, noma uthathe isigaba sesibhakela? Sincoma futhi ukuthi ubheke lezi zinto ezinhlanu ongaze uzenze ngemuva kokwehlukana.

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