Asebenza Kanjani Ama-akhawunti Wokulungiselela Induna Abasiza Abantu Babone Ukuphuka Kwabo Ngokuhlukile

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U-Christina Yannello angakhumbula ukuhlukana kwakhe kokuqala ngokucacile njengoba abantu abaningi bengakhumbula ukwanga kwabo kokuqala noma ukuya esikhathini. Lapho eneminyaka engu-12 ubudala, wavele wavele waba nepimp smack dab phakathi kwamashiya akhe, kwathi umfana ofunda ibanga lesihlanu wabuza obala ukuthi yini ebusweni bakhe.

U-Yannello uthi: “Lowo kwakuyisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu kimi. "Ngaleso sikhathi, bengingazi nokuthi yini ebhalwe ebusweni bami noma ukuthi ngizoyinakekela kanjani."

Futhi lokho kwakumane kuyisiqalo. Eminyakeni eyishumi eyalandela, induna yakhe yehla futhi yageleza isuka ekungafinyeleleki ngokuphelele ukusula nokulawula futhi ibuye futhi. Njengendawo, odokotela besikhumba bamfaka ekwelashweni kwamakhemikhali ahlukahlukene kanye nemithi elwa namagciwane ngaphandle kwenhlanhla yokuphatha isikhumba sakhe esinezici. Ukuvimbela inzalo ngomlomo kwenza induna yakhe yentsha yaphela iminyaka embalwa, kuphela ukubuya kancane ngonyaka wakhe omncane wasekolishi. Wasebenzisa ama-topical treatments nama-creams, waphuza ama-antibiotics, washintshela ku-IUD, futhi ekugcineni wayishintsha ngelinye iphilisi lokulawula inzalo. Akukho okukodwa okwenze umehluko.

“Isikhumba sami sasingalawuleki ngokuphelele - ngangingasakwazi ukulawula,” kusho uYannello. “Ingasaphathwa eyokuthi lokhu kwangicindezela kakhulu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Nganginamahloni kangangokuthi ngangingeke ngisakwazi ukuphuma noma ngisho nokuba phambi kwabantu engihlala nabo ngaphandle kwezimonyo.”

Noma kunjalo, wayemanqikanqika ukuya ku-Accutane, umuthi osetshenziselwa i-acne eqinile, i-cystic acne engazange iphendule kwezinye izindlela zokwelapha, futhi wayefuna ukumba umuthi kadokotela ngaphambi kokuwunikeza. Ocwaningweni lwakhe lwe-inthanethi, u-Yannello wavula isiko elifihlekile, elinezinduna ezinkundleni zokuxhumana elingashintsha indlela aphatha ngayo futhi acabange nangokuphuma kwakhe.

Okuthunyelwe okungaphezulu kuka-130,000 kufaka phakathi i-hashtag ethi #acnepositivity ku-Instagram, futhi ukuduma kuyiqiniso kakhulu. Ngeke ubone isikhumba esinomoya, izendlalelo eziwugqinsi zesisekelo esicashile, namagama-ncazo abonisa ukuphila okujabulisayo, okungenakucindezeleka, kodwa abantu abangenalutho bebonisa ngokuzethemba ukuqubuka kwabo kosuku, babelana ngemikhiqizo yabo yokunakekela isikhumba abayintandokazi, kanye nemininingwane izindaba ezisuka enhliziyweni zezilingo zokwelashwa, ukuguqulwa, kanye nolwazi olunokuhlazeka kwesikhumba. “Kuyakhathaza ukubona isithombe esifanayo, ubuso obufanayo, isikhumba esifanayo esicacile kaninginingi - ngiyazi ukuthi lokho kube nomthelela omubi enhlalakahleni yami engokomzwelo nengqondo,” kusho uYannello. "Kodwa lobu qiniso nobuqiniso yinto nje ongayiboni nsuku zonke."

Ukuhlangana komphakathi okuhle nokusebenzisa ubungozi emphakathini akugcinanga ngokugqugquzela uYannello ukuthi azame i-Accutane futhi aqalise i-akhawunti yakhe, i- @barefacedfemme, kodwa futhi kumsizile ukuthi aguquke ekubeni ngumuntu ongazethembi, ozenyezelayo abe ngumuntu ozethembayo futhi onethezekile ngesikhumba sakhe , uthi. “Ukubona abanye abantu bedlula [ezinkingeni zesikhumba] futhi ezihambisana nazo kwashintsha umqondo wami - kwaphinda kwabhala indaba ekhanda lami,” uyachaza. “Laba bantu bangisizile, ngakho ngangifuna ukusiza omunye umuntu.”

Elinye izwi ekunyakazeni kokuqina kwezinduna nguConstanza Concha, osebenzisa i- @skinnoshame futhi onika abalandeli bakhe abacishe babe ngu-50 000 impilo yakhe ebhekene ne-nodulocystic acne (induna ejulile esikhunjeni futhi engadala ama-cysts aqinile, abuhlungu). Inhloso ngemuva kokuthunyelwe kwakhe ngakunye ilula: ukuba yisimeli angakaze abe naso ngesikhathi sobuntwana bakhe. "Ngifuna ukuba yilokhu ebengifuna ukuba nakho," kusho uConcha. "Angifuni omunye umuntu adlule enesizungu futhi azizwe kabi ngaye njengoba ngenza. Uma unokumeleleka, uma unomunye umuntu obhekene nezinkinga ezifana nezakho futhi onesikhumba esifana nesakho, ngicabanga ukuthi indlela ocabanga ngayo izoshintsha futhi uzokhululeka kakhudlwana nawe.”

Yilokho kanye okwenzeka kuVanessa Sasada. Uqale ukubona ama-akhawunti wokugxila kwezinduna, wokuqina kwesikhumba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi wabona ukuthi amaningi awo aphethwe ngabantu abanesikhumba esifana nesakhe. Khona-ke, phakathi nokuqubuka okubi kakhulu, waqunga isibindi sokuqala i-akhawunti yakhe, @tomatofacebeauty. “Ngangicabanga ukuthi uma ngiqala ukufaka ubuso bami obungagqokile futhi ngibonise ukuthi isikhumba sami sangempela sinjani, ngizobe sengiqala nokuzethemba nokwamukela izinduna zami,” kusho uSasada. "Bengifuna ukuqala ukwamukela isikhumba sami noma ngabe sikusiphi isimo."

Ezinyangeni ezintathu nje kuphela emva kokufaka izibazi zakhe zezinduna, isikhumba esinezinkinga, nokubukeka kwezimonyo, uSasada uthi ukuzethemba kwakhe kwanda kakhulu. "Ngaphambi kokuthi ngiqale i-akhawunti yami, into yokuqala engayenza lapho ngiphaphama ukuhlala phambi kwesibuko sami, ngihlaziya isikhumba sami, ngibone ukuthi kukhona yini okusha okuphumayo lapho ngilele," esho. “Bekuzoba nezikhathi eziningi, futhi kumane nje kungonakalise usuku lwami lonke. Manje, uma ngithola induna entsha, akuyona into enkulu. Angisakhathazeki ngesikhumba sami noma ngigqolozele isibuko amahora amaningi ngizama ukufuna okuthile. ”

Futhi ukuba nalokhu kungabi nengcindezi kuthathe ukugqashuka nezisihla kungasiza ekuthuthukiseni izingqinamba zesikhumba, futhi, kusho uMatt Traube, uMFT, udokotela wezifo zengqondo ogxile ezingxenyeni ezingokwengqondo zezimo zesikhumba. "Siyazi ngandlela thile ukuthi ingcindezi ingaba nomthelela omubi enduneni," kuchaza yena. "Ngakho-ke uma ukhathazekile ngomqubuko, khona-ke konke lokhu ukuzethemba kwezinduna kunciphisa amahloni nokuphoxeka kwakho ngakho, ngokuzumayo lapho uphumela emhlabeni noma ukhombisa ubuso bakho kubantu, ubhekene nengcindezi encane .. . Futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kungaba nomthelela enduneni uqobo. "

Futhi, lapho ephuma, abakwaSasada abazizwa bephoqelekile ukuthi basebenzise izimonyo zokugcwala okugcwele kuzo zonke izikhathi njengoba ayejwayele ukwenza. “Babengazi ukuthi induna yami yayinzima kangakanani ngoba ngangikwazi kahle ukuyifihla isikhathi eside, futhi ngangihlala ngizizwa sengathi ngiphila amanga,” kuchaza yena. "Ngaphambi kokuthi ngibhale isithombe sami sokuqala, angikaze ngibonise ubuso bami obunqunu, kodwa manje akusabisi, futhi ngizizwa ngikhululeke ngokwengeziwe ukukhombisa induna yami kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo."

Leso senzo sokwamukela ngenhliziyo yonke ukuthi ungubani njengomuntu onezinduna - noma ngabe uzizwa usengozini noma unovalo ngokuzibeka lapho - kunokuzizwa unamahloni, ukuvala ukuphuma kwakho, noma ukugwema ukubona abanye ngokuphelele, kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile ekujwayeleni kusho uTraube. "Wenza okuhlangenwe nakho ngendlela engathinti wena kuphela, umuntu okwenzayo, kodwa futhi ngokukwenza endaweni efana nenkundla yezokuxhumana (noma ukuphumela obala ngendlela okungeyakho. it), bese uba nomthelela omuhle kwabanye abantu abaphethwe yiyo ngendlela yabo,” kuchaza yena.

Nakuba impendulo ingemihle ngaso sonke isikhathi - u-Concha uthole isabelo sakhe esifanele sama-DM ngokugxeka okunokhahlo neziphakamiso zokwelashwa ezingamukelekile - ngokuvamile, ubungozi bokuthumela izithombe eziluhlaza, ezingahleliwe zama-zits kanye nezinye izinkinga zesikhumba kuyazuzisa. Izigaba zokuphawula kuma-akhawunti amaningi we-acne positivity zigcwele imiyalezo yokubonga evela kubalandeli abazizwa beqinisekisiwe, bebonwa, futhi bemukelwa.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu abaningi babelana ngohambo lwabo, kwenza izinduna zingabi yinto yokudlala emphakathini," kusho uYannello. “Akudingeki uzizwe ungavikelekile ngokuphuma nenduna, futhi akudingeki uzizwe sengathi kuyadingeka ukuyimboza. Ngicabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kwabesifazane abasebasha abasakhula ukuthi baqaphele ukuthi induna akuyona into embi. ”

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