Kungani Ingane Yami Inikina Amakhanda?

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• Ukubuka konke
• Ukuqonda amakhono emoto engane
• Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda lapho unesi
• Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda lapho kudlalwa
• Ukunyakaza kokuhlola
• Ukukhathazeka nini
• Ukuthatha

Ukubuka konke

Phakathi nonyaka wabo wokuqala wokuphila, ingane yakho izofinyelela izigaba ezibalulekile ezihlobene nokuzindla namakhono emoto.

Lapho ingane iqala ukunikina ikhanda, ungahle ukhathazeke ngokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ungaze uzibuze ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho isencane kakhulu ukuthi inganikina ikhanda.

Amanye amacala okunikina ikhanda ahlobene nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa noma kwentuthuko. Kodwa-ke, iningi lamacala ajwayelekile.

Funda ukuthi kungani ingane yakho inikina ikhanda nezinhlobo zezimo okufanele ukhathazeke ngazo.

Ukuqonda amakhono emoto engane

Njengomzali, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuzwa imizwa yokuzivikela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa intekenteke futhi ayikwazi ukuzivikela.

Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane yakho ayikwazi ukuzihambela yodwa. Ngokusho kukaMashi kaDimes, ekupheleni kwenyanga yokuqala yokuphila, izingane zinamandla okuhambisa amakhanda ngapha nangapha. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka lapho zilele ngezinhlangothi.

Ngemuva kwenyanga yokuqala, ukunikina ikhanda ezinganeni kuvame ukuhambisana nokudlala kanye nezinye izindlela zokuxhumana. Izingane ezikhula "ngokujwayelekile" zizokwazi ukunikina amakhanda azo "yebo" noma "cha" ngonyaka wazo wokuqala.

Phakathi namasonto ambalwa okuqala okuphila, ukunyakaza kwengane yakho kungahle kube "yigwala" njengoba kukhula ukulawula imisipha.

Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda lapho unesi

Esinye sezikhathi zokuqala lapho abantwana benikina amakhanda kulapho bencelisa komama babo. Lokhu kungahle kwenzeke okokuqala emzamweni wengane yakho wokuzama ukuqeda. Njengoba ingane yakho ithola i-hang of latching on, ukuzamazama kungahle kube umphumela wenjabulo.

Ngenkathi ingane yakho ingahle ithole imisipha yentamo futhi ikwazi ukuthintitha eceleni lapho unakekela, kusamele uxhase ikhanda labo okungenani izinyanga ezintathu zokuqala.

Ungase futhi uthole izikhathi zokondla ziphumelele ngokwengeziwe ngokuthulisa ukucabanga kwengane yakho esanda kuzalwa ukuze ikwazi ukubambelela kalula.

Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda lapho kudlalwa

Ngaphandle kwenyanga yokuqala, izingane zingaqala ukunikina amakhanda ngenkathi zidlala. Kwezinye izimo, banganyakazisa amakhanda abo lapho bephumule esiswini noma emhlane. Ungaqaphela ukuthi ukunikina ikhanda kuyanda lapho ingane yakho ijabula.

Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, bazoqala ukuqaphela ukuziphatha kwabanye bese bezama ukusebenzisana nabo. Uma unezinye izingane ekhaya, ingane yakho ingaqala ukulingisa indlela eziziphatha ngayo ngokuthinta ikhanda nezandla.

Ukunyakaza kokuhlola

Izingane zinesibindi esikhulu, futhi zizoqala ukuhlola ukuthi zingahamba kangakanani. Cishe esikhathini sezinyanga ezi-4 noma ezi-5, ezinye izingane zizoqala ukuzamazamisa amakhanda. Lokhu kungadlulela ekuzamazamiseni umzimba wonke.

Ngenkathi ukunyakaza kokuzamazama kungabukeka kusabeka, kubhekwa njengokuziphatha okujwayelekile ezinganeni eziningi. Eqinisweni, imvamisa iyisandulela sengane yakho ukuthola ukuthi ingahlala kanjani yodwa. Ukuziphatha okunyakazisa nokuzamazama kuvame ukuhlala isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-15 kuleli qembu leminyaka.

Enye imbangela yokukhathazeka kubazali abaningi ukushaya ikhanda.

Ngokwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, lo mkhuba uvame kakhulu kubafana. Iqala futhi cishe ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala. Uma nje ukushaya kungabi nzima futhi ingane yakho ibonakala ijabule, iningi lodokotela bezingane alikhathazeki ngalokhu kuziphatha.

Ukushaya ikhanda ngokuvamile kuyeka ngomaka weminyaka emibili.

Ukukhathazeka nini

Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda nokunye ukuziphatha okuhlobene nakho kuvame ukubhekwa njengengxenye ejwayelekile yokukhula kwengane. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo lapho izindlela zokuziphatha zinganweba ngaphezu kokuthuthumela okulula. Shayela udokotela wezingane uma ingane yakho:

• akahlanganyeli nawe noma izingane zakwabo
• awahambisi amehlo abo ngokujwayelekile
• eba amafindo noma amabala anempandla kusuka ekushayeni ekhanda
• Ukunyakazisa kuyanda ngezikhathi zokukhathazeka
• kubukeka sengathi bafuna ukuzilimaza
• yehluleka ukufinyelela kwezinye izigaba zentuthuko ezichazwe udokotela wakho
• ayiphenduli izwi lakho, kanye neminye imisindo
• iyaqhubeka nalokhu kuziphatha okungaphezu kweminyaka emibili

Ukuthatha

Ngenkathi ukunikina ikhanda kungeyona imbangela yokukhathazeka, kunezimo ezithile lapho kufanele ucabange ukukhuluma nodokotela wezingane.

Imvamisa imvamisa iyisibonakaliso sokutshela ukuthi lokhu kuzamazama kuyinto evamile noma cha. Uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho inikina ikhanda kancane ngesikhathi sokuphakelwa noma sokudlala, lokhu kungenzeka ukuthi akusona isimo esiphuthumayo sezokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ikhanda liduma kaningi futhi lihlala isikhathi eside, kufanele ubone udokotela ngokushesha.