Isetshenziswa kanjani i-Butt Plug: Umhlahlandlela Wabaqalayo

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• Ngakho-ke, Yini i-Butt Plug?
• I-Butt Plugs vs. Amanye Amathoyizi e-Anal
• Kungani Ungase Ufune Ukusebenzisa I-Butt Plug
• Ngokuqondile Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani I-Butt Plug
• Ungayithenga Kanjani i-Butt Plug
• Ama-plugs Omqalo Ohamba Kakhulu
• Buyekeza kwe-

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Noma ngabe usuvele ungumthandi wezocansi wakudala noma ufuna ukwazi nje ukudlala nge-butt, kunento eyodwa eyiqiniso: ama-butt plugs asempilweni yakho. U-Alicia Sinclair, uthisha osemthethweni ofundisa ngocansi kanye ne-CEO ye-b-Vibe, inkampani yomkhiqizo wokudlala indunu ibiza ipulaki lezinqe ngokuthi "umkhiqizo wokuzijabulisa wanoma yimuphi umzimba nanoma ubani."

Lapha, ochwepheshe bezocansi bachaza ukuthi iyini ipulaki yezinqe (nokuthi ihluke kanjani kwamanye amathoyizi endunu), kungani ifanelwe indawo ekamelweni lakho, nokuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani ipulaki yezinqe ukuze uthole injabulo enkulu.

Ngakho-ke, Yini i-Butt Plug?

Kalula nje: Ipulaki yangemuva noma isinqe ithoyizi elingena endunu yakho futhi lihlale lapho ngenkathi udlala, kusho uSinclair. Yebo, kulula impela ukuthi ufunde ukusebenzisa ipulagi yezinqa; akukho ukusunduza noma ukunyakaza kokuphuma nokuphumayo okwenzekayo, kodwa kunalokho ipulaki ye-butt ihloselwe ukunikeza ukukhuthazwa ngokuhlala endaweni.

Ukuma okuqondile kwepulaki ye-butt yikho okuyenza ibe yi-butt plug, usho kanje. "Inomkhawulo ocijile ukuze ungene kalula, isibani esikhudlwana ukuze i-sphincter iphumule, bese kuba nentamo ezacile nesisekelo esivuthayo ukuze ikhishwe kalula," echaza. Leso sisekelo esivuthayo sibaluleke kakhulu ekubuyiseni ithoyizi. Ngokungafani nesitho sangasese sowesifazane, esiphelela emlonyeni wesibeletho, umsele wangemuva ulokhu uhamba futhi ukhuphuka uye phezulu emgudwini wokugaya ukudla kanye nekholoni. "Uma ithoyizi lingenaso isisekelo esivulekile, kunethuba lokuthi limunceke ngaphakathi emzimbeni bese linamathela kukholoni," kusho uSinclair. Kalula nje, uma kuziwa kuma-butt plugs, hamba nesisekelo esivuthayo noma uye ekhaya.

Kukhona ukuhluka okuhle kokubukeka kwalezi zisekelo. Amanye amathoyizi anezisekelo ezimise okwezindandatho (njengalawa Ama-plugs we-Satisfyer Anal; Thenga wona, $ 15 ngesethi yamathathu, amazon.com noma le NJoy Pfun Butt Plug; Thenga yona, $ 63, amazon.com), amanye anezibambo ezilula (njenge I-Doc Johnson Mood Plugs; Thenga It, $ 16, amazon.com), futhi kukhona ngisho neziplagi zomsila (njengale Levin Stainless Steel Anal Plug; Buy It, $ 19, amazon.com) ukuthi, yep, ifana nomsila wezilwane, uma ukulokho.

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I-Butt Plugs vs. Amanye Amathoyizi e-Anal

Yebo, amapulaki ezinqe ahlukile kubuhlalu bendunu. Uma ungakaze ububone ubuhlalu bendunu, zibukeka zifana nentambo enkulu yamaparele (Awukwazi ukubona ngeso lengqondo? Bheka i-Utimi Silicone Anal Plug; Ithenge, $ 17, amazon.com). "Ubuhlalu be-anal kuhloswe ukuthi bukhishwe buphume buphume, ngokungafani ne-butt plug, ehlala ihleli nje," kuchaza udokotela wezocansi waseMegan Stubbs, Ed.D. Ukuzwa kuhluke kakhulu, uyanezela. (Okuhlobene: Umhlahlandlela Wakho Kuzinhlobo Eziyishumi Nambili Eziyinhloko Zamathoyizi Ocansi)

Kulungile, futhi kuthiwani ngama-butt plugs ngokumelene nama-dildos? Okokuqala, ama-dildos awahlali enesisekelo esivuthayo. "Ubungeke uthande ukufaka iphrofayili elincanyana le-dildo ezinqeni zakho bese ulishiya lapho," kusho uStubbs, ngezizathu ezifanayo "ezilahlekile nezitholakele". Kodwa-ke, uthi usebenzisa ihhanisi elinebhande kanye ne-dildo yokudlala izinqe kuyinto ephephile. Yazi nje ukuthi umuzwa uzohluka kakhulu. (Okuhlobene: Ama-vibrator ama-14 ahamba phambili ongawasebenzisa nozakwethu)

Kungani Ungase Ufune Ukusebenzisa I-Butt Plug

Uma uqinisa izingqondo zakho ngomcabango nje wokugqoka ipulagi, cabanga ngalokhu: "Indunu ilayishwe izinzwa futhi inhle kakhulu, iyazwela kakhulu," kusho uSinclair. “Futhi ngenkathi lokho kusho ucansi lwendunucan kube buhlungu uma kungenziwanga kancane, ngokucophelela, nange-lube eningi, lokho kusho ukuthi inamandla amaningi okuzijabulisa," kusho uSinclair. Futhi kulelo nothi: Ngenxa yokuthi usebenzisa ipulaki lezinqe akusho ukuthi kufanele nenze ucansi lwendunu.

"Ungasebenzisa i-butt plug cishe kunoma yisiphi isenzo socansi - kungakhathalekile ubulili bakho noma owakwakho, izitho zangasese, noma ezocansi," kusho uSinclair. Yebo, ama-butt plugs angaba isengezo esihle ekugqumeni okomile, ucansi lomlomo, ucansi olwenziwa mathupha/izinto zezandla, ucansi olungenelayo ngepipi noma ingquza, nokunye.

Ama-plugs ama-Butt alungile ngesikhathi sokudlala okungena ngaphakathi uma ujabulela umuzwa wokuzizwa ugcwele noma ugcwele. "Umsele wangemuva nomsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane ungomakhelwane, ngakho uma ufaka i-butt plug, inciphisa ububanzi bomsele wesitho sangasese sowesifazane," kuchaza uSinclair. Lokhu kukhulisa amathuba okuthi umlingani wakho ashaye i-G-Spot yakho. Futhi uma umlingani wakho enepipi, kungadala ingcindezi eyengeziwe ezwakala kahle eduze kwe-shaft yabo, uyanezela.

USinclair uqhathanisa ukuthola ucansi lomlomo ngenkathi ugqoke ipulagi yokwamukela nokuthola ucansi lomlomo ngenkathi kudlalwa izingono zakho. "Kwenza umdlalo ube yinto egcwele umzimba wonke," esho. Futhi, uma i-butt butt yinde ngokwanele, ingahle ishaye i-A-spot yakho (eyaziwa nangokuthi i-anterior fornix erogenous zone), etholakala ngamasentimitha ambalwa ukujula kune-G-spot emgodini wesitho sangasese sowesifazane futhi ongafinyelelwa kuyo ngesikhathi ukungena kwendunu. Ungase uthole ukuzwa i-orgasm ehlanganisiwe efiselekayo. (Okuhlobene: Izinhlobo Ezi-7 Ezihlukile Zama-Orgasms Cishe Ubungazi Ukuthi Ungaba Nakho)

Futhi khumbula, "ngenkathi ama-plugs ama-butt akudingeki alingane nezocansi ezilinganayo, ayindlela enhle yokwenza ucansi lwendunu, uma lokho kuyinto ongathanda ukuyizama wena nomlingani wakho," kusho uSinclair. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa ezimpundu" futhi kuhilela ukufundisa i-anal sphincter ukuthi ungakhululeka kanjani ngokwengeza kancane usayizi we-butt plug yakho (phakathi kwamasonto noma izinyanga!) Uze ulungele ucansi lwendunu olungena ngaphakathi. Kukhona amakhithi afana ne-b-Vibe Beginners Anal Training Kit (Thenga It, $ 65, bvibe.com) kanye neBlush Novelties Anal Butt Plugs Training Kit (Buy It, $ 21, amazon.com) enzelwe lokhu kusetshenziswa ngqo.

Ngokuqondile Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani I-Butt Plug

Noma ufuna ukwehla ~ ungcole ~ awufuni empeleni ukungcola…. Ngakho-ke, masingashayi ngapha nangapha ehlathini bese sisusa lo mbuzo wobulongwe endleleni. Nansi isivumelwano: Imfucuza igcinwa emathunjini akho angenhla, hhayi emseleni wakho wendunu lapho kuzobe kulenga khona ipulaki, ngakho-ke noma yikuphi ukwesaba kwendle onakho akunasisekelo, ngokusho kukaSinclair. Ungenza uku- pre- noma ukuhlanza okuncane ngephunga elimanzi- namakhemikhali angenamakhemikhali noma ishawa, uma ufuna. (Bona okuningi: Ungayilungiselela Kanjani Ucansi Lwengungu, Ngokusho Kwezazi)

Ulungele ukungena ebhizinisini? Uma ukhumbula into eyodwa kulesi sihloko yokuthi uyisebenzisa kanjani i-butt plug, kwenze lokhu: Ungalokothi usebenzise ipulagi ngaphandle kwe-lube. “Indunu ayizigcobisi njengoba kwenza isitho sangasese sowesifazane, ngakho-ke ukuba nakho kufanele kube khona,” kusho uStubbs.

Gcina ukhumbula ukuthi ama-lubes asuselwa ku-silicone awahambelani namathoyizi asuselwa ku-silicone - abicah bayazikhanga, ngakho-ke ukusebenzisa lezi zinto zombili ndawonye kungavimba ipulaki yakho futhi kwakheke ukuthungwa okunamandla. Kungakho, uma usebenzisa ipulaki ye-silicone, kufanele usebenzise ilube esekelwe emanzini, kusho uSinclair.

Uma usebenzisa ingilazi noma ipulaki lensimbi engagqwali, nokho, okokugcoba kwe-silicone kuyinketho enhle ngoba kushubile futhi ngokuvamile kuhlala isikhathi eside, kusho uSinclair. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Ngikhathazekile Ngale Toy Engagqwali yeG-Spot Sex Toy)

ILube ayisona ukuphela kwesithako esibalulekile sendlela yokusebenzisa ipulaki le-butt kamnandi; udinga futhi i-foreplay ukusiza ukulungiselela umzimba ukufakwa. "Ubungeke usuke ekuqabuleni uye ekungeneni esithweni sangasese, akunjalo?" Kubuza uSinclair. Landela lowo mgomo ofanayo wokusebenzisa i-butt plug, bese uhamba kancane izikhathi ezintathu kuya kweziyishumi, usho kanjalo.

Lapho-ke, lapho sekuyisikhathi sokufaka, gcoba indunu nethoyizi, udonse umoya, bese ucindezela kancane ipulagi le-butt endunu yakho. Indawo engcono kakhulu yokufaka ipulaki ye-butt yehlela kulokho okuthandwa nguwe. UStubbs uthi uma umlingani wakho eyifaka, isitayela esiphakanyisiwe sezithunywa zevangeli noma isitayela sisebenza kahle. Uma uzifakela ipulaki lezinqe, ungase uzame ukulifaka njenge-tampon (ngokugoba bese ungena phakathi kwemilenze yakho). Manje sekungenile? Jabulela! (I-BTW: Cha, ucansi lwendunu alufanele lulimaze.)

Ungayithenga Kanjani i-Butt Plug

Noma kunini lapho uthenga ithoyizi locansi, ufuna okuthile okwenziwe ngento engeyona impophoma - okusho ukuthi ithoyizi alinazo izimbobo ezincane ezincanyana ezingatholwa amagciwane. ngebhaktheriya ngaphakathi/ eduze nedidi lakho lokho kubaluleke kakhulu.

"Amathoyizi adonsayo angamunca noma iluphi uwoyela owusebenzisayo, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi indawo yome ngokushesha okukhulu," kusho uSinclair. Futhi, izinto ezinomhlwenga zingadala ukuthi amathoyizi wezocansi kanye nama-butt plugs ahlehle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. "(Bona Okuningi: Ungalithenga Kanjani Ithoyizi Lezocansi Eliphephile, Elisezingeni Eliphezulu)

Khetha i-silicone, insimbi engagqwali, noma amapulaki ezinqeni zengilazi. "Abicah ihamba phambili kubaqalayo ngoba iyaguquguquka, ngakho-ke izohamba nomzimba wakho," esho. "Kodwa amathoyizi ensimbi nengilazi angangeza umuzwa omuhle wesisindo, kulula kakhulu ukucoceka, futhi azosebenza nganoma yisiphi isithambisi."

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Uma kuziwa ekusebenziseni ipulaki yezinqe okokuqala ngqa, qala kancane. Njengo, ngokuhlekisa encane (ikakhulukazi uma ungakaze ube nomunwe ongaka emuva lapho). Phakamisa isithupha sakho...lokho cishe usayizi ozowufuna wepulaki yezinqe yakho yokuqala. I-b-Vibe Snug Plug 1 (Yithenge, $45, amazon.com), Doc Johnson Naughty 1 (Buy It, $16, amazon.com) noma Naughty 2 (Buy It, $11, amazon.com) kanye ne-Tantus Little Flirt ( Buy It, $27, amazon.com) wonke angamapulaki amahle aqalayo.

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Uma usulungile, kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokuthuthukisa i-plug plug yakho. Okokuqala, ungakhuphula ububanzi noma ubude bepulaki. I-Tango igxile ekwenzeni ama-plugs amaningi we-girthy butt, ne-Doc Johnson Platinum Premium Silicone Plug (Buy It, $ 23, amazon.com) kanye ne-b-Vibe Snug Plug 4 (Buy It, $ 55, amazon.com) nazo ziyizinketho ezinhle, nazo .

Ungase uzame ngisho ne-plug eshukumisayo noma ipulagi ye-butt ejikelezayo njenge-Doc Johnson Platinum Premium Vibrating Plug (Ithenge, $ 34, amazon.com) noma i-b-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug M (Ithenge, $ 90, ellaparadis.com). "Lokhu kungase kwengeze izinga elisha lonke lokuzwa okukhangayo ekuxhumeni ukusetshenziswa," kusho uSinclair.

Ipulagi ye-Vibrating Butt engcono kakhulu ye-Vibrating Snug Plug (M) $90.00 ithenge i-Ella Paradis

Futhi uma uzizwa umuhle, ungahlala uzama ipulagi yensimbi, njenge-Iconic Brands Silver Starter Bejeweled Plug (Ithenge, $ 8 $13, ellaparadis.com) noma ipulaki likaLelo lika-24 Karat gold butt, Earl (Buy It, $2,590, elo.com). Ngenhlanhla, awudingi ipulagi yegolide ukuze ube nesikhathi esihle ngokunethezeka.

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