Idlalwa Kanjani Nengane Yakho Esanda Kuzalwa: Imibono engu-7 Yesikhathi Sokudlala Kwezingane

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• Kufanele uqale nini ukudlala isikhathi nengane yakho esanda kuzalwa?
• Imibono yesikhathi sokudlala esisanda kuzalwa
• Isikhathi sobuso
• Ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi ugoqa
• Yelula, unyawo, futhi ukitaze
• Ukudansa nami
• Funda ngokuzwakalayo
• Cula iculo
• Phumula
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Umfanekiso ka-Alyssa Kiefer

Imvamisa, ngalezo zinsuku zokuqala zobuntwana, phakathi kokuphakelwa kanye nokushintshwa kanye nokulala, kulula ukuzibuza ukuthi "ngenzani ngalolu sana?"

Ikakhulukazi kubanakekeli abangajwayeleki noma abangakhululekile esigabeni esisanda kuzalwa, ukuthi ulugcina kanjani usana lubungazwa kungabonakala kuyinselele enkulu. Ngemuva kwakho konke - yini ongayenza ngempela nomuntu ongakwazi ukugxilisa amehlo akhe, azihlalele yedwa, noma akhulume ngemicabango yakhe?

Kulula ukungalinaki iqiniso lokuthi ukuvezwa kwabo okulinganiselwe emhlabeni empeleni kuyinzuzo. Konke kusha futhi kungahle kuthakazelise, ngakho-ke ukufaka ukudlala emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke kungaba lula. Futhi abafuni imidlalo eyinkimbinkimbi noma izindaba ezinengqondo - bamane balangazelela ubukhona bakho nokunaka kwakho.

Kufanele uqale nini ukudlala isikhathi nengane yakho esanda kuzalwa?

Kusukela ngomzuzu wokuqala ubambe usana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa uthinta izinzwa zalo. Babheka ebusweni bakho, bezwa izwi lakho, futhi bezwa ukufudumala kwesikhumba sakho. Lezi zixhumanisi ezilula ziyisiqalo salokho okungabalwa ngokuthi "ukudlala" ezinsukwini zokuqala ezisanda kuzalwa.

Ngenyanga yokuqala noma engaphezulu kungahle kubonakale sengathi izintshisekelo zengane yakho zikhawulelwe kakhulu ekudleni, ekulaleni, nasekungcupheni. Kepha ungabona futhi ukuthi bayaphenya futhi babhekise amakhanda abo kumazwi abawajwayele noma bazame ukugxilisa amehlo abo kuthoyizi lapho ulikikiza noma ulikikiza.

Kungaba nzima ukukucabanga, kepha ngenyanga yesibili bangase baphakamise amakhanda abo lapho bebekwe esiswini sabo ukuqalaza. Futhi ngenyanga yesithathu, kungenzeka ubone ukumamatheka okungaguquguquki futhi uzwe imisindo ebonakala njengomzamo wabo wokuxhumana nawe.

Ngenkathi bengakwazi ukukutshela ngamagama ukuthi banesikhathi esimnandi, ungahle ubone izimpawu zokuthi ingane yakho isilungele - futhi inentshisekelo - esikhathini sokudlala usuku ngalunye. Ngenkathi bechitha isikhathi esiningi belele (ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala ingane yakho cishe izobe ilele amahora ayi-14 kuye kwangama-16 usuku ngalunye) uzoqala ukubona izikhathi lapho ivukile futhi iphapheme, kodwa izolile.

Ngalezi zikhathi lapho bemukela ukuxhumana ungaqala ukuzibandakanya kweminye imidlalo elula nemisebenzi.

Imibono yesikhathi sokudlala esisanda kuzalwa

Isikhathi sobuso

Isikhathi sesimumu sinconywa kuzo zonke izinsana, kepha imvamisa asemukelwa kahle ngabahlanganyeli abasasebenza ekulawuleni imisipha nokuhlanganisa okudingekayo ukuphakamisa amakhanda abo.

Ngokunye okuhlukile, beka ingane esifubeni sakho bese ukhuluma nabo noma ucule izingoma. Lapho izwi lakho libakhuthaza ukuthi baphakamise ikhanda, bazoklonyeliswa ngokubheka ukumamatheka kwakho. Ukuthintana ngokomzimba nokusondelana kungenza isikhathi sesisu sibe yinto emnandi kuwo wonke umuntu.

Futhi ngenkathi isikhathi sesisu singase singesona isikhathi abasithandayo, kungumsebenzi obalulekile wansuku zonke wezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa, ezijwayele ukuchitha isikhathi sazo esiningi sehlisiwe. Omunye umcwaningi ocwaningayo wabona ukuthi isikhundla okuso usana luthinta ikhono laso lokuxhumana nezwe ngakho-ke, luthinta ukukhula kwalo.

Ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi ugoqa

Ukuwashwa. Amathuba ukuthi, uhlamba izingubo eziningi ngencane endlini. Isikhathi osichitha wenza lo msebenzi singaba nesikhathi osichitha nengane yakho. Letha ingubo noma i-bassinet eduzane ngenkathi usebenza ekubambeni inqwaba yezingubo.

Inqubo yokugoqa izingubo ingavuselela izinzwa - imibala yamahembe, umoya ovunguzayo njengoba unyakazisa ithawula, umdlalo odingekayo wepeekaboo njengoba uphakamisa bese ulahla ingubo. Futhi, ungakhuluma nengane lapho uhamba, ngemibala, ukwakheka, nokusebenzisela izinto ezahlukahlukene. (Yizwa le ngubo ethambile. Bheka, ihembe likababa elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka!)

Yelula, unyawo, futhi ukitaze

Beka ingane ngengubo ubasize bahambe. Bamba izandla zabo ngobumnene ngenkathi uhambisa izingalo zabo phezulu, ohlangothini, nxazonke. Nikeza lezozinzwane ezithandekayo ukuthi uzikhame kancane bese uhambisa imilenze yazo (lena nayo inhle ezinganeni ze-gassy!). Ukubhucungwa ngobumnene nokukitaza kusuka ezinyaweni zezinyawo zabo kuya phezulu kwekhanda kunganinika injabulo nobabili.

Lesi futhi yisikhathi esihle sokwethula amathoyizi athile alula. Ithoyizi elixokozelayo, eliphakeme kakhulu, noma isibuko esingenakuqhekeka konke kuyizindlela ezinhle. Babambele eduze ngokwanele ukuze ingane yakho ikwazi ukugxila, ikhulume ngalokho okwenzayo, futhi ibanikeze ithuba lokufinyelela futhi bathinte izinto ngenkathi udlala.

Ukudansa nami

Njengoba noma yimuphi umzali oke wazamazama futhi wagxuma futhi waqhutshwa kwimibuthano angakutshela, izingane zithanda ukunyakaza futhi zikuthola kuthobekile. Ungahlala ubeletha ingane ezandleni zakho, kepha lokhu kungumsebenzi lapho ukugqoka kwengane kusebenza kahle kakhulu.

Beka ezinye izingoma bese ugoqa noma ujikijele omncane wakho. Ungadansa futhi ugxume uzungeze igumbi lokuphumula, kepha futhi ungasebenza ngesikhathi esithile ukuqondisa indlu noma ukushaya izingcingo ngenkathi unyakaza futhi ukhomba nengane yakho encane.

Funda ngokuzwakalayo

Kuleli qophelo, usana lwakho alukwazi ukufuna ukuthi ufunde i- "Hop on Pop" okwesikhathi sama-34,985. Bathanda nje ukuzwa izwi lakho. Ngakho-ke uma ubungavuki sekwephuzile nesikhova sakho esincane sasebusuku futhi unesifiso sokufunda leyo ndatshana ebuthongweni obusanda kuzalwa, yithathe.

Kumayelana nokuklonyeliswa - ukusho kanjani - kunokuqukethwe - okushoyo. Ngakho-ke funda noma yini oyithandayo, vele uyifunde ngokuzwakalayo. Ukufunda kusenesikhathi futhi kuvame ukukhonjiswa ukukhuthaza ukukhula kwengqondo, ukwandisa isivinini sokucubungula, nokwandisa isilulumagama.

Cula iculo

Noma ngabe kuyisililo ngesikhathi sokulala noma i-rockin 'encane eya kuLizzo emotweni, qhubeka uyibhande. Ingane yakho ngeke yahlulele iphimbo lakho; bathanda nje umsindo ojwayelekile wezwi lakho.

Le ibuye isize uma ushibilika eshaweni nengane exakekile elinde ngokungabekezeli. Letha isihlalo sezinsana endlini yokugezela bese ufaka ikhonsathi ye-impromptu ngenkathi ushaya imoto.

Phumula

Akudingeki ukuthi ube "uvulekile" ngazo zonke izikhathi zokuvuka kosana lwakho. Njengoba abantu abadala bengazuza esikhathini esithile sokuphumula, izinsana zidinga ibhalansi yokukhuthaza nesikhathi sokuthula ukucubungula imvelo yazo.

Uma ingane yakho iphapheme futhi yanelisekile, kulungile ukuthi uyiyeke ihlale embhedeni wayo noma kwenye indawo ephephile ngenkathi uthola isikhathi esifanele wena.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ngenkathi bengakwazi ukwenza okuningi bebodwa, ingane yakho iyajabula ngomzuzu ngamunye abachitha nawe.Ngisho nezikhathi ezincane ezichithwe ukwenza ubuso obuhlekisayo noma ukucula imilolotelo kungasiza ukukhuthaza ukukhula nokubandakanya ingane yakho.

Ungakhathazeki ngamathoyizi amahle noma okokusebenza: Konke okudingayo ngempela ukudlala nengane yakho nguwe!