Amasu ama-5 Wokuqeda Umama (noma Ubaba) Ukuqaphela

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• Hlukanisa imisebenzi
• Shiya
• Yenza isikhathi esikhethekile size kuqala
• Khulisa isikhathi somndeni
• Bathande noma kunjalo

Indawo yesibili kuzwakala njengokuwina… ize ibhekise ekukhuliseni. Kuvamile impela ukuthi izingane zikhethe umzali oyedwa futhi zibalekele omunye. Kwesinye isikhathi, zimba ngisho izithende zazo futhi zenqabe ukuvumela omunye umzali ukuba ageze, acindezele isitiloli, noma asize ngomsebenzi wesikole.

Izingane zakha okunamathiselwe okuqinile kubanakekeli bazo abaphambili, futhi kaningi, lokho kusho ukuthi uMama uthola konke ukunakwa, kanti uDaddy uzizwa njengesondo lesithathu. Phumula kalula uma kunguwe ongaphandle obheke ngaphakathi - lezi zinanyathiselwa ziyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - futhi kunezinyathelo ongazithatha ukwakha okunamathiselwe.

Isexwayiso: Uthando olungenamibandela nokubekezela kuyadingeka.

Ungayiphula kanjani inkanuko kamama (noma kababa):

Hlukanisa imisebenzi

Umyeni wami uhamba kakhulu. Lapho engekho, ngenza yonke into ukugcina lezi zingane ziphilile futhi zijabule nokugcina indlu isebenza. Bacabanga ukuthi nginamandla amakhulu - ngikubiza ngokuthi ikhofi. Kunoma ikuphi, uMama uphethe i-24/7 izinyanga ngasikhathi.

Ukusho okuncane, ukunamathela kwabo kimi kunamandla. Kepha lapho umyeni wami efika ekhaya, sihlukanisa imisebenzi yobuzali ngangokunokwenzeka. Uthola isikhathi sokugeza lapho esekhaya, futhi ufundela ingane yethu eneminyaka engu-7 incwadi lapho ekwazi khona. Ubayisa epaki nakwezinye izindawo ezahlukahlukene.

Ngisho noma umthandi womama wakho omncane emelana ekuqaleni, kubalulekile ukudlulisela eminye yemisebenzi yobuzali kuDaddy lapho kungenzeka, ikakhulukazi leyo eduduzayo esiza ukwakha okunamathiselwe okuqinile. Kuhle ukuhlanganyela ekuyalweni nasekubekeni imikhawulo, futhi, ngakho-ke lapho leso sigaba sokuhlubuka sishaya, umzali oyedwa akayona indoda embi ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Kuyasiza ukwakha uhlelo. Ubaba wenza inqubo yokugeza neyokulala ngaphambi kobusuku obuthile, kanti uMama uyahola kobunye ubusuku. Imvamisa, izingane zimelana nomunye umzali ngoba zesaba ukuthi ngeke zibe nokuhlangenwe nakho okutholile okufisayo. Lapho omunye umzali ethatha izintambo futhi ethula imibono emisha, emnandi, inganciphisa impela lokho kwesaba futhi isize ingane yakho ukuthi izivumelanise.

"Izimbiza ezihlanyayo" zikababa zithandwa kakhulu kule ndlu, nakanjani.

Shiya

Kunzima ukuthi omunye umzali athathe izintambo futhi athole ukhiye wokwenza izinto zisebenze lapho umzali amthandayo ehlala emi lapho. Phuma endlini! Gijima! Kuyithuba lakho lokuthatha ikhefu elikufanele kakhulu ngenkathi ubaba (noma umama) ehlaziya izinto.

Impela, kuzoba khona izinyembezi ekuqaleni, futhi mhlawumbe nombhikisho onamandla, kepha lapho uDaddy the Silly Chef ethatha ikhishi futhi enza isidlo sasekuseni esidlweni sakusihlwa, izinyembezi kungenzeka ziphenduke ukuhleka. Makube nguye. Uyakwazi ukuyiphatha.

Yenza isikhathi esikhethekile size kuqala

Umzali ngamunye kufanele abeke usuku lwamasonto nengane ngayinye. Awudingi ukushiya indlu noma uhlele ukuzijabulisa okuhle. Okudingwa ingane yakho isikhathi seviki (esingalindelekile) nomzali ngamunye lapho ekhetha khona umsebenzi futhi ejabulela isikhathi esingaphazanyiswa nomzali ngamunye.

Bazali, vala lezo zikrini bese ufihla ifoni yakho kudilowa. Isikhathi esikhethekile sisho ukuvumela umhlaba wonke uphele ngenkathi unikeza u-100% wokugxila kwakho enganeni yakho okungenani ihora.

Khulisa isikhathi somndeni

Siphila ezweni elimatasa elinemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi. Kungaba nzima ukulingana ngesikhathi esijwayelekile somndeni lapho izidingo zomsebenzi, isikole, nemisebenzi eminingi yezingane eziningi ithatha izintambo.

Kwenze nje. Yenza ubusuku bemidlalo yomndeni buhambe phambili ngezimpelasonto. Vumela ingane ngayinye ikhethe umdlalo. Thola isikhathi sokudla okungenani kanye komndeni ngosuku, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi nonke nikhona, ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. (Ukusikisela: Akudingi ukuba yisidlo sakusihlwa.)

Isikhathi somndeni esengeziwe lapho ingane yakho ijabulela, umndeni wakho uqala ukusebenza kahle njengeyunithi.

Bathande noma kunjalo

Ukwenqatshwa kwengane kungaluma ngempela. Thanda leyo ngane noma kunjalo. Thela ukwanga nokuqabulana nezimemezelo zothando, futhi uhambise konke ukubekezela ongaba nakho.

Lapho sithanda izingane zethu ngokungenamibandela, siyazikhombisa ukuthi sikhona kuzo noma ngabe izimo zinjani.

Lapho befaka ngokwengeziwe umyalezo wokuthi uMama noDaddy bahlala njalo, okunamathiselwe abakwenzayo nomzali ngamunye kuyaqina.