Lo Mfazi Uyazisola Ngokulahlekelwa Isigaxa Sesisindo Ngomshado Wakhe

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Inqwaba yabazoshada #sweatingforthewed emzamweni wokubukeka bebahle ngosuku lwabo olukhulu. Kepha umgqugquzeli wokuqina komzimba u-Alyssa Greene ukhumbuza abesifazane ukuthi bangakuthatheli kude kakhulu. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Nginqume Ukungehli Isisindo Ngomshado Wami)

Embhalweni wakamuva we-Instagram, uGreene ubheke emuva enqubeni yokuhlela umshado futhi wafisa ukuthi ngabe ubengazikhandli kangako kuye. "Eminyakeni emibili edlule ngangihlela umshado wami. Ngangicindezeleke kakhulu ngingakwazi ukudla, ngingenaso isifiso sokudla. Ngangizokhala uma kufanele ngithathe usuku lokuphumula olungahleliwe," kubhala yena. "Umshado wakho ungokuhlangenwe nakho okumangazayo empilweni; futhi ngandlela thile sibekelwe ukuthi sikholwe ukuthi sincane kangakanani ... siba sibahle futhi sikufanele ukugqoka ingubo. Kodwa ngubani owabeka lelo zinga?!?"

U-Greene usuthole sonke isisindo emuva futhi wathola ukulinganisela okujabulisayo, okunempilo. Futhi ungumkhulumeli omkhulu wokunakekela umzimba, uxwayisa abalandeli bakhe ngezingozi zokudla okunemingcele.

“Ngicabanga ukuthi ezikhathini eziningi abesifazane bazifakela ingcindezi yokuthi banciphe kakhulu emshadweni uma sebebahle njengoba benjalo,” usho kanje. Umumo. "Kucishe kufane nokudla okuphazamisekile. Uhamba izinyanga nezinyanga ukhawula bese kuthiwani? Abesifazane kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi kunomehluko phakathi kokuncipha kwesisindo, ukuthola 'ukufaneleka' nokuhamba kakhulu ngokweqile, uziphoqe ukuthi ulahlekelwe wonke amakhilogremu wokugcina. Akukho lutho. akulungile ngokufuna ukubukeka kahle, kodwa kufanele uzibuze, ngamanani?"

Khumbula: "Kufanele uzizwe njengomuntu omuhle kakhulu ngaphakathi nangaphandle ngosuku lwakho lomshado, futhi ungazizwa ungafaneleki ngenxa yenombolo ethile oyibonayo."

Ngakho-ke noma ngabe uzama ukuhlelela umcimbi wakho omkhulu, imizwa yakhe iyisikhumbuzo esihle sokubeka impilo yakho futhi injabulo kuqala.

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