Ngabe Amaphathi Okubanda Amaqanda Yindlela Yenzalo Yamuva?
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Uma uthola isimemo sokuya ephathini endaweni yokuphuzela utshwala esefashonini eNew York City, kunzima ukuthi cha. Okuyikho kanye engizithole ngiboshelwe epaki namagilavu ebolekiwe, ngime eduze komngane wami omkhulu futhi ngiqhaqhazela kancane njengoba siqhabula ama-cocktails ezinkomishini ezenziwe ngeqhwa. Besizungezwe ngabesifazane abaningi abagqoke kahle abaseminyakeni yabo yama-20 nengama-30, bonke baklelile ukuthatha izithombe nge Umdlalo wema-Throne-Isitulo sesitayela sihlotshiswe ngama-icicles. Kodwa bekungebona ubusuku bokuvula ibha, futhi besingekho iphathi yeviki lemfashini. Sasilapho ukuze sifunde ngokuqandisa amaqanda.
Ngangingekho impela emakethe yokuqanda iqanda-ngineminyaka engama-25 kuphela ubudala. Kodwa ngangizwile ngamaqembu aqandayo amaqanda, futhi, njengomhleli wezempilo, ngangijabule lapho ngifunda ngezindlela ezintsha zesayensi ezazikhuthaza ngayo lokhu kudelela iwashi ubuchwepheshe. Futhi kwakungeyimi ngedwa; abanye besilisa nabesifazane abangama-200 babesayine online ukuhambela iphathi eyayihlelwe yiNeway Fertility. (Thola Iqiniso Ngokuzala kanye Nokuguga.)
Ukuqanda amaqanda sekude kakhulu selokhu kwaqalwa inqubo entsha yokuqandisa ukukhanya ebizwa ngokuthi i-vitrification (inqubo yokulinga kuze kube unyaka ka-2012) -imisa amaqanda masinyane kangangokuba ayikho indlela yokwakheka kwamakristalu e-ice. Lokho kuyenza iphumelele kakhulu kunendlela edlule ebandayo, ngoba akukho monakalo omncane eqandeni. Futhi izinga lokuphumelela eliphakeme lisho ukuthi abesifazane abaningi kunanini ngaphambili bayangena.Eqinisweni, izikhathi zokuqandisa amaqanda-imininingwane evamile yabesifazane nemibhangqwana enentshisekelo yenqubo-iyavela ezweni lonke emadolobheni anokugxila okuphezulu kwabesifazane abanomsebenzi.
Ngenkathi abasingathi besikhipha esihlalweni seqhwa futhi bengena kwelinye igumbi ukuzwa kuphaneli yezipikha, ngacabanga, 'Yilapho besitshela khona ukuthi sisesimeni sempilo yethu futhi kufanele sonke simise amaqanda ethu, siyekele ukuba nabantwana, sigxile kithi.' Hhayi impela.
"Ngilapha ukuze ngikhulume nawe mayelana nokunikezwa amandla okuzala," kusho uJanelle Luk, M.D., umqondisi wezokwelapha kwa-Newway Fertility, isikhulumi sethu sokuqala.
KULUNGILE, njalo ngingahle ngithole ukuxhaswa kwabesifazane! ULuk uqhubeke wachaza ukuthi inhloso yakhe enkulu ukufundisa abantu besifazane ngemizimba yabo kungakephuzi, ngoba yize kunokuningi ukungalingani abesifazane abasabhekene nakho, elinye iwashi lethu lezinto eziphilayo. Kepha ukuqandisa amaqanda kusiza ukulinganisa inkundla yokudlala, okwenza kube lula ngabashadikazi abaseminyakeni yabo yama-30 ukukhulelwa. Njengoba uLuk asho, isibeletho asigugi, kepha amaqanda anezinsuku zokuphelelwa yisikhathi - empeleni, iminyaka yobudala bomama ichazwa njengaphezulu kuka-35, lapho abesifazane benengozi eyengeziwe yokukhulelwa okungajwayelekile. Amaqanda amasha namaqanda afriziwe bobabili bazokwenza ubuqili uma kukhulunywa ngokukhulelwa, badinga nje ukuthi babe bancane.
Kwezinye izindaba bekufanele ngabe bakufundise ekilasini lezempilo… Ubuwazi ukuthi eminyakeni yakho yokuqala engama-30, unamathuba angamaphesenti angama-20 okukhulelwa umjikelezo ngamunye, ngokwe-American Society for Reproductive Medicine? Lokho kuzwakala kuyethusa, kepha ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulelwe kungakapheli izinyanga ezinhlanu uzama. Leyo nombolo, noma kunjalo, yehla kungakapheli iminyaka emihlanu, futhi uzoba nenzalo engamaphesenti amahlanu ku-30.
Ngemuva kokuthi u-Luk esenze sizizwe simangele (izibalo zizokwenza lokho kuwe), usitshele ukwehla kwenqubo yokuqandisa amaqanda. Isifinyezo esisheshayo: Ngemuva kokubonisana nodokotela kanye nokuhlolwa okuningana nokuhlolwa, uthola imijovo engaba amasonto amabili ukukhuthaza ukukhiqizwa kwamaqanda amahlanu kuya kwayi-12 ngokuqhathanisa nelejwayelekile owakhiqizayo ngomjikelezo ngamunye; bese udokotela ekhipha amaqanda ngokufaka inaliti esithweni sangasese sowesifazane (usuthulisiwe) futhi esebenzisa ubuchwepheshe be-ultrasound ukuze aqondise inaliti esibelethweni futhi akhiphe amaqanda ku-follicles. Ngemuva kwalokho amaqanda agcinwa efriziwe agcinwa uze unqume ukuwasebenzisa.
Siphinde sizwe ngesiguli esisanda kuqandisa amaqanda aso—sachazela iqembu ukuthi ngemva kokulaliswa, uvuka nje unobuhlungu obuncane besisu, obufana nalokho obungase ubhekane nakho phakathi nesikhathi sakho. Wasiqinisekisa ukuthi isitho sakhe sangasese sasikahle ngemva kwalokho. (Ingxenye embi kakhulu? Imijovo ingabangela ukuqunjelwa. "Khipha izingubo zakho, ngoba ungase ungafuni ukugqoka amabhulukwe," waxwayisa.
Umqondisi wezokwelapha osondelene naye eNeway Fertility, u-Edward Nejat, MD, usinikeze omunye umthamo weqiniso: Olunye ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amaqanda angabanda kuphela kuze kube yiminyaka emine, ngakho-ke uma ucabanga ngalokhu, khuluma nodokotela wakho ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki okulungele wena-yize iminyaka yakho yamashumi amabili ukubheja okuhle kubhekwa ukwehla kokuzala ngemuva kwama-30. Amanani empumelelo angancika ezintweni eziningi, kufaka phakathi ubude besikhathi sokugcina, inani lamaqanda afriziwe, nobudala. (Psst... Nakhu Konke Odinga Ukukwazi Ngokuqandisa Amaqanda.)
Manje njengoba sesinayo yonke i-scoop? Emuva kubha, lapho besingaxoxa khona nezipika ngoshokoledi oshisayo oshisayo. Abantu abaningi babonakala benikezwe amandla ngolwazi, nakuba mhlawumbe bengakakulungeli ukubhalisa ngaso leso sikhathi. Ekugcineni, lokho kuzwakale njengokuqinisekisa izinhloso kwabesifazane ukuthi bayaziswa. Kwakunolwazi oluningi ukungena kulo, kodwa ukwazi nje ukuthi ukuqandisa amaqanda kwakuyinketho kwabonakala kwenza abantu bazizwe bejabule (futhi baphumule ngokwanele ukuze baphuze esinye isiphuzo).
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