Kungani Ngingaxolisi Ukuthi Ngithola Ukuqwashisa Nge-Autism Kuyakhathaza

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• Ukuqwashisa kakhulu
• AmaTroll ngaphansi kwebhuloho
• Ukuqwashisa okuncane kakhulu
• Ilebula uqobo lwayo
• Ukukhathala komkhankaso
• Ukushumayela ekhwayeni

Uma ufana nami, Inyanga Yokuqwashisa Nge-Autism empeleni iyinyanga ngayinye.

Bengigubha inyanga yokuqwashisa nge-autism okungenani izinyanga eziyi-132 ezilandelanayo, nokubala. Indodakazi yami encane, uLily, ine-autism. Ubona imfundo yami eqhubekayo ye-autism nokuqwashisa.

I-Autism inomthelela empilweni yami, nasendodakazini yami, nasemhlabeni wami, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngifuna abantu abenza umehluko ezimpilweni zethu ukuthi “bazi.” Ngalokho ngicabanga ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthi okungenani ngibe nomqondo ojwayelekile walokho okuhilelekile. Ngifuna abaphenduli bokuqala endaweni yangakithi baqonde ukuthi kungani bangeke bathole impendulo endodakazini yami uma bebuza igama lakhe nobudala bakhe. Ngifuna ukuthi amaphoyisa aqonde ukuthi kungani engabalekela. Ngifuna othisha babekezele lapho indlela aziphatha ngayo idlulisa inkinga ejulile kunokumane nje angafuni ukuthobela.

I-Autism, njengakho konke okunye, iyinkinga eyinkimbinkimbi - futhi iyipolitiki. Futhi njengakho konke okunye, kuba nzima ngokwengeziwe lapho ufunda okuningi ngakho. Ukukusiza ukuthi ubasekele, noma okungenani ungalimazi, kubantu obaziyo (futhi ngokuba ne-autism, izingqinamba ukuthi empeleni uyabazi), ukuqwashisa nge-autism kubaluleke kakhulu.

Okungenani ngezinga elithile. Ngoba, kwesinye isikhathi, ukuqwashisa nge-autism kungaba yinto embi.

Ukuqwashisa kakhulu

Ukuxakaniseka nezombusazwe ze-autism kungacindezela ngocwaningo oluningi. Ngizizwa ngicindezelwe ezinye izici zokubhala nje le ndatshana. Lapho wazi ngokwengeziwe ngazo zonke izingqinamba, kuba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukuthatha isinyathelo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukucasula umuntu empeleni ozama ukuba ngumlingani wakhe.

Ngiyagoma noma cha? Ingabe ngithi "i-autistic" noma "ingane ene-autism"? "Ikhambi"? "Yamukela"? "Isibusiso"? "Isiqalekiso"? Lapho ujula ujula, kuya ngokuya kuba nzima. Lokhu kuhlangana kahle ephuzwini lami elilandelayo, okungukuthi:

AmaTroll ngaphansi kwebhuloho

Abazali abaningi kanye ne-autistics bakhetha u-Ephreli njengenyanga ukugxila ngokuphelele ku-autism njengesizathu. Sithumela izindatshana ezihlobene ne-autism nsuku zonke, futhi sixhumanisa nezinye esizithola zijabulisa, zibalulekile, noma zithinta.

Kepha uma uthumela kakhulu ngobunzima nepolitiki, nobuhle nobubi, kukhiqiza ukuphikisana okukhulu. Ngoba i-autism inzima kakhulu ukuthi ungathokozisa wonke umuntu, futhi abanye babantu ongabathandi bayathukuthela NGEMPELA.

Lapho uthumela kakhulu, ama-troll amaningi ayenzeka. Kungakhathaza ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo. Ufuna ukukhipha igama, kepha abavumelani namagama akho noma indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo.

I-Autism ingadinga ukubekezela kanye ne-keel. Ngiyekile ukubhuloga nge-autism mhlawumbe unyaka ngoba nje ngithole izimpikiswano nokugxeka kunika amandla kakhulu. Kwaphela injabulo yami, futhi ngangidinga lawo mandla ukuze ngibe ubaba omuhle.

Ukuqwashisa okuncane kakhulu

U-Joe wakho omaphakathi unesikhathi esanele sokunaka ukugaya eyodwa noma ezimbili zezinkulungwane zama-athikili ashicilelwe nge-autism. Ngenxa yalokho, kuhlale kunengozi yokuthi into eyodwa azibekele yona yinto engalungile. Ngake ngaba nomuntu ophawula ngebhulogi lami siqu ukuthi i-autism ibangelwa "izipikili" nokuthi kufanele nje bafuthwe ngejusi le-orange ukuze bahlanze uhlelo. Kuphulukisiwe!

(Lokhu akuyona into.)

Azikho izihloko eziningi zokuvumelana nge-autism, ngakho-ke ukuphatha noma iyiphi i-athikili eyodwa, okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi, noma izindaba zezindaba njengevangeli le-autism (kahle, ngaphandle kwalesi, kusobala) kungaba kubi kunokungafundi lutho.

Ilebula uqobo lwayo

Ngake ngafunda umsebenzi womcwaningi owathi inkinga enkulu i-autism ebhekene nayo ilebula layo. I-Autism iyisimo sezimo ezahlukahlukene, kepha zonke ziyaxhunyaniswa ndawonye ngaphansi kwaleli lebula elilodwa.

Lokho kusho ukuthi abantu babuka uRain Man futhi bacabange ukuthi banganikeza izeluleko eziwusizo. Kusho ukuthi izinkampani zingakhiqiza imishanguzo ezithuthukisa izimpawu enganeni eyodwa ene-autism, kepha empeleni ingazibhebhethekisa izimpawu zenye. Ilebuli ye-autism idala ukudideka lapho ukudideka sekuvele kukhona.

Kungenzeka wake wezwa ngesisho esithi, "Uma uhlangane nengane eyodwa ene-autism, uhlangane nengane eYODWA ene-autism." Yonke ingane yehlukile futhi awukwazi ukuveza okwenzeka enganeni eyodwa kwenye ngoba nje yabelana ngelebula.

Ukukhathala komkhankaso

Okudingwa ngabantu abaningi abasebenza ukukhuthaza ukuqwashisa nge-autism ukuthi labo "abangaqapheli" ngaphambili bazi. Kepha into enhle kakhulu ingasho ukuthi eminye yemiyalezo ebaluleke kakhulu icwila ngevolumu enkulu. Ngemuva kwenyanga egcwele yokuqwashisa nge-autism, iningi labantu abanokunethezeka kungenzeka bakutshele, "Angifuni ukuzwa enye into nge-autism impilo yami yonke."

Ukushumayela ekhwayeni

Ngaphambi kokutholakala komncane wami, ngangifunde izindatshana ezingama-zero ngesihloko se-autism. Abantu abaningi abafunda okuthunyelwe kokuqwashisa nge-autism akuzona izithameli ezihlosiwe. Baphila impilo. Bangabantu abane-autism noma abanakekeli babo. Yize kududuza ukwazi ukuthi othile ufunda izinto zakho, kunzima ukwenza intshisekelo mayelana nezinkinga ezingathinti izimpilo zezithameli ezihlosiwe (ngokwazi kwabo, okungenani).

Kulabo kithi abadinga ukuthi nibaqaphele - ukuze izingane zethu ziphile impilo ejabulisayo nenempilo - ukusabalalisa “ukuqaphela i-autism” kuyohlale kuyinto. Futhi kuyinto enhle. Kakhulu.

Ngeqiniso ngijabule kakhulu ukubekezelela imibuzo enezinhloso ezinhle noma iziphakamiso, ngoba kusho ukuthi empeleni uyikhathalela ngokwanele indodakazi yami noma nami ukuthi okungenani ngifunde i-athikili, ngibuke ividiyo, noma ngabelane nge-infographic. Ulwazi lungahle lungabonakali kahle ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, kodwa lushaya isihogo ngenxa yokubuka okuthukuthele nokuphawula okwahlulela enkundleni yemidlalo egcwele njengoba ingane yakho incibilika (yebo, bengikhona).

Ngakho-ke, sasaza ukuqwashisa nge-autism kule nyanga. Kepha kwenze wazi ukuthi ungasha. Kwenze wazi ukuthi ungahle ungafinyeleli kuzithameli zakho. Kwenze wazi ukuthi uzoyibambela isihogo esincane kothile ngesinye isikhathi. Kwenze wazi ukuthi akuyona yonke into oyithumelayo ezosebenza kokuhlangenwe nakho komunye umuntu. Kwenze ngokuzibophezela.

UJim Walter ungumbhali we I-Lil Blog nje, lapho elandisa khona ngezehlakalo zakhe njengobaba ongayedwa wamadodakazi amabili, omunye wabo one-autism. Ungamlandela ku-Twitter ku @nokuthula_b.