Impela Kungani Ucansi Lwasehhotela Lumangalisa Kangaka — nokuthi Ungalwenza Kanjani Ngokugcwele

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• 1. Kukufaka "Esitsheni"
• 2. Kukususa Ekujwayeleni Kwakho
• 3.New Is Sexy futhi Kuyajabulisa
• Ungalwenza Kanjani Ucansi Lwamahhotela Lumangalisa Kakhulu
• Ungalikhetha Kanjani Ihhotela Elikhulu Lokuphunyuka Kocansi
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Uma uhlale ehhotela nomlingani wakho, mhlawumbe uyazi ukuthi ubulili behhotela buzizwa buthi nje ... bujabulisa. Kepha, kungani izizwa ngale ndlela? Kungani amahhotela ezizwa e-sexy ngokwemvelo?

Kunamandla kukho konke ukuphunyuka okungakusizi kuphela ukuthi uphumule kepha futhi kukuxhume kalula kubalingani bakho. Nakhu impela ukuthi kungani ucansi lwasehhotela luzwakala lwaneliseka kakhulu - futhi, ukuthi lungenziwa kanjani lube ngcono nakakhulu.

1. Kukufaka "Esitsheni"

Kungani ucansi lwasehhotela luheha kangaka? Kokunye, kuyisitsha sangempela sezinsiza zakho zokuya ocansini. Ake ngichaze.

Noma kunini lapho ngiqala ukufundisa noma ukwenza i-therapy noma i-coaching session, ngibeka isitsha: ngikhuluma ngokuthi singakanani isikhathi ngeseshini, yiziphi izinhloso, njll. Igumbi lakho lehhotela liyisitsha sangempela sanoma yini oyifunayo. Ufuna ukuletha amathoyizi akho amasha ocansi bese unikezela ihora lesikhathi lapho ukuze uhlole? Kuhle! Akuvamile ukuthi ube nethuba lokubeka uphawu lokuthi "ungaphazamisi" futhi ube nokuqhuma kudlala empilweni "yangempela". Lesi sitsha singumngcele ongokoqobo nongokomfanekiso wokugcina izinto ezithile zingangeni. Izingane zakho, ama-imeyili avela emsebenzini wakho, imisebenzi yasendlini, kanye nemicabango ngobunye ubudlelwano konke kuyiziphazamiso ezingakusiza ungabi khona. Futhi uma ukhona, wenza ucansi oluhamba phambili. Futhi kulelo nothi...

2. Kukususa Ekujwayeleni Kwakho

Uma ungakwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngazo zonke izikweletu okufanele uzikhokhe noma wonke umsebenzi okufanele wenziwe, cishe kunzima ukungena esikhaleni sokufuna ukuvulwa, ingasaphathwa eyokudlala nomlingani wakho (abalingani bakho) .

Kepha useholidini ehhotela? Cishe zonke lezo zinkathazo ziyancibilika futhi ukhona lapha futhi manje. (Okuhlobene: Ungazifundisa Kanjani Ukushaya Indlwabu Okunengqondo - nokuthi Kungani Kufanele)

Esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko ezenza abantu abaningi bazizwe bekhululekile emahhotela ingoba uhlukene nemithwalo yemfanelo evamile - futhi ngaleyo ndlela ingcindezi - leyo mpilo yansuku zonke eyilethayo. Cabanga ngalokhu: ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuzizwa uvuliwe lapho usebenze usuku lonke, upheke isidlo sakusihlwa, uzivocavoca, futhi kungenzeka unakekelwe izingane Isikhathi esiningi, ukuphila kwansuku zonke akusho ukuklabalasa. ngothando.

Futhi into ukuthi, ukucindezeleka luhlobo lwesitha sempilo yakho yezocansi; ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ama-hormone okucindezeleka, njenge-cortisol, axhumene nokulahleka kwe-libido, okwenza kube nzima kuwe ukuthi uphumule futhi ugcobe.

Ukuba sehhotela nesithandwa sakho kude nalezi zinkathazo zansuku zonke kungazizwa kukhulula futhi kujabulise. Ngemuva kwalokho, engeza kokuthi lapho uhlala ehhotela, uvame ukuba seholidini elithile, okuvame ukuthi uzizwe uphoqelekile ukugqoka izingubo zakho ezinhle kakhulu, uye ezindaweni zokudlela ezinhle, uphuze okuningi (amanzi futhi utshwala) kaningi usuku lonke, njll. zonke zenza isilungiselelo sesikhathi esimnandi.

3.New Is Sexy futhi Kuyajabulisa

Abantu bathanda isimiso. Umqondo wokwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela, ungayilindela nini, futhi ube ne-oda lezinto. Kepha ukuzenzela nakho kuyaziswa, injabulo yokuxuba izinto - ibhalansi entekenteke. Futhi uma kuziwa ocansini, ikakhulukazi, indawo entsha kodwa enethezekile ingasebenza ukudala imizwa eyengeziwe yenjabulo. Ngoba usendaweni entsha, ungase uzizwe uhlola - ngisho noma ukuhlola kusho nje ukuya ocansini kaningi kunalokho ojwayele ukukwenza. Uma uzama izinto ezintsha, ubuchopho bakho bungakheka ngokoqobo izindlela ezintsha zemizwa, uchungechunge lwezinzwa ezixhumene lapho kuhamba khona amandla kagesi emzimbeni (ngokuyisisekelo imigwaqo enguthelawayeka ebuchosheni bethu). Uma wenza lokhu, uzivulela wena ekufuneni okwenzeka okwehlukile. Futhi lapho wenza lezi zinto ezintsha, ubuchopho bakho bukhipha amakhemikhali angeziwe we-yummy njenge-dopamine, i-neurotransmitter ebandakanyeka enjabulweni, ekugqugquzelweni, ekufundeni, nasememori.

Umbhede omusha, usofa omusha, ishawa entsha, i-balcony entsha — okusha kuzwakala kumnandi, nokuba nezinto ezintsha nozakwenu nakho kungazizwa kukhanga ngempela. Futhi uma ucabanga wena wedwa "Angizithandi izinto ezintsha," ungahle usibone isidingo soshintsho esimisweni. Udinga ukuba ngezikhathi ezithile ube ezindaweni ezintsha wena nobudlelwano bakho (kokubili kocansi hhayi!). Uma uzama izinto ezintsha, ungazuza ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukahlukene, njengokuzazi kangcono, ukudala izindlela ze-neural zokunqoba ukwesaba, nokukhuthaza ubuqambi. (Okuhlobene: Ungaba Kanjani Ukudala Kakhudlwana - Futhi, Zonke Izinzuzo Enazo Ngengqondo Yakho)

Lezi zindlela zokubalekela ngamabomu zengeza impilo encane ebuhlotsheni bakho - zikukhumbuza ukuthi uchithe ikhwalithi, isikhathi sodwa ndawonye, ​​uqhume kancane uma ukwazi, futhi nijabulele inkampani yomunye nomunye. Ngezinye izikhathi ekuphileni okuvamile kwansuku zonke, iqiniso elidabukisayo liwukuthi, kunzima ukudedela konke okwenzekayo ukuze wamukele ngokugcwele lokhu futhi ubone umlingani wakho njengowothando nowocansi.

Ungalwenza Kanjani Ucansi Lwamahhotela Lumangalisa Kakhulu

Izinto zokuqala kuqala, lapho ukhuluma ngamakamelo asehhotela, uma wena noma umlingani wakho unovalo ngezinhloso zokuhlanzeka ukwenza ucansi ezindaweni ezithile, beka ithawula! Noma, hamba nge-FuxPad (Yithenge, $185, fuxpads.com) noma I-Liberator Fascinator Throw (Buy It, $120, amazon.com) kanye nawe nje ngocansi (kuzwakala njengokuhlanya, kodwa kuyakufanelekela).

Futhi uma ukhathazekile ngomsindo, zama umshini womsindo ophathekayo (Thenga It, $ 28, amazon.com). (Ngihamba neyodwa futhi ngiyisebenzisela lapho ngibona namakhasimende.)

Uma uhlala eduze nesitezi esiphezulu ehhotela elide kakhulu, kungaba mnandi kakhulu ukuya ocansini ubheke ngaphandle kwefasitela. Angikhulumi nje ngokungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane - ungasebenzisa amathoyizi, wenze ngomlomo - uyiqambe igama! Ukubona imibono yanoma yikuphi lapho uhlala khona ngesikhathi socansi kungumuzwa opholile ngempela futhi kungakusiza ukuthi uhlale ukhona. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuvezwa okungafanele (wonke amazwe anemithetho ehlukile; hlola eyakho lapha), gqoka izingubo zehhotela.

Zibuze, "yini ezozwakala yehlukile kunasekhaya?" Lokhu kungasiza ukukhulisa ubuhlakani bakho. Isibonelo, uma wena nomlingani wakho ninezingane, nivame ukuya ocansini ekamelweni lakho, embhedeni wakho. Ngakho-ke, ungazama ucansi lukasofa, ucansi lwaphansi, ucansi kuvulandi, ucansi odongeni, ucansi lwaseshawa, ucansi oluphikisanayo, ucansi lwasesihlalweni - noma yini ezwakala iheha, entsha, futhi ehlukile.

Ungalikhetha Kanjani Ihhotela Elikhulu Lokuphunyuka Kocansi

Uma ukhetha ihhotela lapho uzohlangana khona, cabanga ngohlobo lwe-vibe olufunayo. Noma uthatha isinqumo sokuthi "yebo" ngokuzitotosa endaweni enhle ngamashidi athokomele nezingubo eziphakeme, usadinga ukucabanga ukuthi ufuna i-vibe edlalayo (hlola i-Roxbury Motel eCatskills eNew York), indawo ezungezile eshisayo (cabanga W Ihhotela ePunta de Mita eMexico), umoya othokomele nothandwayo (cabanga: IMontage eDeer Valley, eUtah).

Ukuvakashela izindawo ezingokomlando kuphenduke izindawo zokuphumula eziwubukhazikhazi njengeHutton Brickyards kungasiza ekudaleni indawo lapho ufuna ukusondelana futhi ube nentshisekelo nozakwenu. Kukhona okuthile mayelana nokucwiliswa engqikithini (esimweni seHutton Brickyards, efektri yezikhathi zezimboni) engenza umuzwa wenganekwane uqine kakhulu. Ukunaka imininingwane endaweni efana ne-Hutton Brickyards kukwenza ukuthi ungacabangi kakhulu. Lokhu-ke kuvumela ubuchopho bakho ukuthi buphumule futhi buvulele ezinye izinto - izinto ezi-sexy. (Okuhlobene: Izindawo ezihamba phambili zokuvakasha zabantu abashadile e-U.S.)

Bheka amakamelo, bese uqinisekisa ukuthi isendaweni ozozizwa ukhululekile futhi unenkanuko. Isibonelo, e-Hotel Dylan e-Woodstock, eNew York, banezindawo zokulinda ebusuku ezicwilisa ngaphansi konqenqema lombhede, okwenza kube nzima ukubona ukuthi yini esendaweni yakho yokulala uma usulala embhedeni. Masibe neqiniso: I-nightstand yakho cishe ivame ukugcwala, futhi ifoni yakho ivame ukuhlala lapho ishaja lapho sekuyisikhathi sokulala. Njengoba izindawo zokulala ebusuku seziphumile, kuzwakala sengathi "ungaphandle kwengqondo", okukusiza ukuthi uhlale ukhona ngesikhathi sanoma yikuphi ukuzithokozisa kocansi lapho.

Bheka nezindlu zangasese — zingaba indawo ekahle yocansi lwangaphandle kombhede noma (ngokoqobo) ukudlalwa kwangaphambili okushisayo. Cabanga nge-Hotel Delamar e-Connecticut, enezimvula ezinhle ezilingana nezimbili plus ubhavu ocwilayo. Phuma bese ugoqa kwesinye sezingubo zabo zokuncoma - kuphela ukuze ususe emuva.

Engikuncoma kumakhasimende ami (futhi ngizame ukuzilolonga) ukuthatha uhambo lwekota nozakwenu(aba)zakwethu - kuzo zonke izizathu ezingenhla. Ubulili basehhotela bukunikeza ithuba nobumfihlo bokubhala ngezindlela ongahle uzizwe ukhululekile ukuzenza ekhaya, kepha futhi kungenzeka ungabi nethuba lokukwenza ekhaya. Ngakho-ke, landelani izingane! (Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuletha i-lube yakho!)

URachel Wright, MA, LM.FT, (yena) ungudokotela wezengqondo onelayisense, uthisha wezocansi kanye nochwepheshe wezobudlelwano ozinze eNew York City. Uyisikhulumi esinolwazi, umgqugquzeli weqembu, nomlobi. Usebenze nezinkulungwane zabantu emhlabeni wonke ukubasiza ukuthi baklabalase kancane futhi bajije ngaphezulu.

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