Isebenza Kanjani iTucking Futhi Iphephile Yini?

-Delile

• Amagama womzimba womzimba
• Ungayifaka kanjani
• Izimpahla
• Tucking amasende
• Ukuvikeleka nge-tape
• Ngaphandle kweteyipu
• Ungayiqaqa kanjani
• Izilungiso kanye ne-tucking
• Usayizi we-Tucking nepipi
• Kuphephile?
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Kuyini ukubhuqa?

I-Tucking ichazwa yiTransgender Health Information Programme njengezindlela umuntu angafihla ngazo ipipi kanye namasende, njengokuhambisa ipipi kanye ne-scrotum phakathi kwezinqa, noma ukuhambisa amasende angene emiseleni yezingalo. Imisele enguinal yakha umgodi womzimba lapho amasende ahlala khona ngaphambi kokuzalwa.

I-Tucking ingasetshenziswa ngabantu abakhomba njenge:

• trans abesifazane
• trans femme
• ukungafani kobulili
• nonbinary
• i-agender

Abanye abantu bangaphinde bathathe izinhloso zobuhle, i-cosplay noma ukuhudula. I-Tucking izovumela bonke laba bantu ukuthi bazuze ukubukeka okushelelayo futhi bafihle noma yiziphi izitho zangasese zangaphandle.

Amagama womzimba womzimba

Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ulimi olukhombisa ngokunembile ubunikazi bomuntu. Ngenkathi amagama athi “umthondo,” “amasende,” kanye “namasende” asetshenziswa kule ndatshana ukubhekisa kuzitho zomzimba, hhayi bonke abantu abadlulisayo noma abantu abathanda ukukhomba abhekane nalawo magama ukubhekisa emzimbeni wabo. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokukhuluma nabantu abangama-transgender noma abangabhalisi.

Ungayifaka kanjani

I-Tucking ingahle ingakhululeki kahle, kepha akufanele kube buhlungu. Ungaphoqeleli isitho sakho sangasese ukuba sinyakaze. Uma uhlangabezana nobunzima noma uhlangabezana nokungakhululeki okuningi, yima. Thatha ikhefu, bese ubuya kamuva.

Prakthiza ukubamba izikhathi ezimbalwa lapho ukhululeke nasendaweni ekahle ekhaya ngaphambi kokuphuma. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi ugweme noma yiluphi uvalo noma ingcindezi esidlangalaleni uma kungokokuqala ukujikijela.

Izimpahla

Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubamba ukusetha izinto ozidingayo. Lokhu kufaka:

• itheyiphu yezokwelapha
• izingubo zangaphansi ezingagqokile
• i-gaff, uma ifunwa, yengqimba yesibili yokwakha indawo eyisicaba nebushelelezi

I-gaff yindwangu yendwangu ethinta umzimba ongezansi. Zivame ukwenziwa nge-pantyhose esikiwe, noma zingathengwa ku-inthanethi noma ezitolo ezihlinzeka abantu be-LGBTQIA. I-Pantyhose itholakala ezitolo eziningi zokudla nezitolo futhi izokuvumela ukuthi uhlele ubukhulu be-gaff ngezidingo zakho.

Abanye abantu bangasebenzisa futhi i-panty liner ngaphambi kokugqoka izingubo zangaphansi. Ama-panty liners angatholakala esigabeni sokunakekelwa kwabesifazane emakhemisi noma ezitolo. Lesi sigaba sivame ukuba seduze kwesigaba sokuhlela umndeni.

Tucking amasende

Ngemuva kokuthi uqoqe izimpahla zakho, ungaqala ngokufaka ama-testes. Ama-testes azobuyela emuva emiseleni ye-inguinal. Ungasebenzisa iminwe emibili noma emithathu ukuze ubaqondise emseleni wabo ohambisanayo. Ungasheshi lesi sinyathelo. Uma kukhona ubuhlungu noma ukungaphatheki kahle, yima bese uzama futhi ngemuva kwekhefu elifushane.

Okulandelayo, ungafaka i-scrotum nepipi. Lokhu kungenziwa futhi kuvikelwe ndawonye noma ngaphandle kwetheyipu.

Ukuvikeleka nge-tape

Uma uzosebenzisa itheyipu, kufanele usebenzise i-tape yezokwelapha ngaso sonke isikhathi esikhundleni seteyipu yomthambo noma olunye uhlobo lweteyipu. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi awufuni ukuthi okunamathelayo kulimaze isikhumba sakho. Kufanele ukwazi ukuthola i-tape yezokwelapha ekhemisi langakini, noma esigabeni sosizo lokuqala ezitolo eziningi zokudla nezitolo.

Uma uhlela ukusebenzisa itheyiphu, susa ngokucophelela noma iziphi izinwele endaweni ngaphambi kokufaka itheyiphu. Ngaleyo ndlela uzokugwema ukudonsa izinwele lapho uzikhipha kamuva. Ukususa izinwele kungakusiza futhi ukuthi ugweme ubuhlungu obudalwa yizinwele ezidonsa itheyiphu lapho uhambahamba.

Lapho ama-testes esevikelwe emiseleni, bopha ngobumnene isirobhothi esizungeze ipipi bese uvikelekile nge-tape yezokwelapha. Gcina isandla esisodwa esithweni sangasese ukugcina yonke into ingavumi, bese ubuyisela isitho sakho sangasese phakathi kwemilenze yakho nezinqe. Qedela inqubo yokuthinta ngokudonsa izingubo zangaphansi eziqinile noma i-gaffe.

Le ndlela izokwenza ukuya endlini yangasese kube nzima kakhulu ngoba uzodinga isikhathi esithe xaxa ukususa i-tape uphinde ufake isicelo. Ubuye ube nengozi enkulu yokucasuka kwesikhumba. Ubuhle bokuthwebula ukuthi i-tuck yakho izovikeleka kakhulu futhi ingabi namathuba amaningi okuthi ingahlehliswa.

Ngaphandle kweteyipu

I-Tucking ngaphandle kwe-tape isebenzisa inqubo efanayo, kepha ingahle ingavikeleki njengaku-tape. Kodwa-ke, awubeki engcupheni efanayo yokuqinisa noma ukuklebhula isikhumba lapho ukhipha iteyipu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Qala ngokudonsa izingubo zangaphansi noma i-gaff kuze kufike emadolweni noma emathangeni akho. Lokhu kuzonciphisa ubungozi bokulahlekelwa ibhalansi yakho phakathi nesinyathelo sokugcina sokuvikela. Kuzokwenza futhi kube lula ukuvikela konke okusendaweni. Uma lesi sinyathelo sivimbela amandla akho okuvikela ngokuphepha izitho zakho zangasese emuva ngokwanele emuva, ungakweqa. Vele ugcine izingubo zakho zangaphansi noma i-gaffe iseduze kwakho ukuze ungadingi ukuzulazula kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthi yonke into ivikeleke.

Okulandelayo, vikela ama-testes emiseleni bese ugoqa isikhumba ngokungathi sína umthondo. Gcina isandla esisodwa esithweni esisongiwe, bese usidonsela emuva phakathi kwemilenze yakho nezinqe. Ngesandla sakho samahhala, donsa izingubo zangaphansi noma i-gaff futhi uvikele konke ngezandla zombili. Uma uzizwa uqiniseka ukuthi yonke into ivikelekile, ungakudedela.

Ukungena ngaphandle kweteyipu kuvumela ukufinyelela okulula nokusheshayo uma udinga ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngenkathi uthinta. Ungaba nenkinga yokuphinda uvikelekile ebunzimeni obufanayo ngemuva kokuzihlela kabusha, noma kunjalo.

Ungayiqaqa kanjani

Ukubekezela nokunakekela okufanayo okusebenzisayo ukwenza nakho kufanele kwenziwe lapho uqaqa. Uma usebenzise ithephu, khipha ngokucophelela ithephu kude ne-scrotum, bese ubuyisela ipipi endaweni yalo yokuphumula. Uma itheyipu ingeke ivele kalula futhi ingenabuhlungu obukhulu, gcoba indwangu yokuwasha emanzi, noma cwilisa indawo emanzini afudumele ukuze uqhekeze ingcina. Ungasebenzisa futhi i-remover adhesive yezokwelapha.

Uma ungasebenzisanga itheyipu, sebenzisa izandla zakho ukuhola ngobumnene ipipi lakho kanye nesikhwama sokubuyela emuva ezindaweni zabo zokuqala, zokuphumula.

Izilungiso kanye ne-tucking

Uma uvuswa ngenkathi ubamba, ngeke uvuleke ngaphandle kokuthi kube nenkinga nge-tape yezokwelapha, i-gaff, noma izingubo zangaphansi, noma awuzange ufakwe ngokuphephile ngaphambi kokulungiswa. Ungadinga ukuzihlela kabusha. Ungase futhi uzwe ukungakhululeki nobuhlungu obuncane.

Usayizi we-Tucking nepipi

Uma unebhande elibanzi, i-tucking isengakusebenzela. Ungadinga ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esithe xaxa ukuvikela i-tuck, noma kunjalo. Ungahle futhi udinge ukusebenzisa ezinye izingqimba zeteyiphu yezokwelapha lapho uvikela i-scrotum ethangeni, noma ungqimba lwesibili lwezingubo zangaphansi ukusiza ukufezekisa ubushelelezi obukhulu.

Qaphela ukuthi awunqamuli ukujikeleza kwegazi emizameni yakho yokwakha izingqimba eziningi noma indawo ethambile.

Kuphephile?

Kube khona ucwaningo oluncane olushicilelwe ngemiphumela yesikhathi eside ye-tucking. Ezinye izingozi ezingaba khona ukuhlukumezeka komchamo, ukutheleleka, nezikhalazo zamasende. Ungase uhlangabezane nezimpawu ezithile zokuxokozela kusuka ku-tucking. Ngaso sonke isikhathi hlola noma yisiphi isikhumba esivulekile noma esicasukile ngaphambi nangemva kokubamba ukuvikela ukutheleleka.

I-Tucking ngeke ikwenze ube yinyumba. Ungaba nezinkinga zokuzala uma uthatha futhi uthatha ukwelashwa ngokufaka ama-hormone, noma kunjalo. Khuluma nomhlinzeki wakho wezokwelapha ngezinyathelo ongazithatha uma unentshisekelo yokuba nezingane ezizalayo esikhathini esizayo futhi ukhathazekile ngezinkinga ezivela ku-tucking.

Ungakugwema ukulimaza izicubu nemisipha ngokungalokothi uphoqe noma udonse kanzima kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yezitho zakho zobulili ngenkathi uzama ukungena. Kufanele uthathe amakhefu ekubambeni ukuvimbela ukucindezeleka emzimbeni.

Uma ukhathazekile nge-tucking noma ubungozi emzimbeni wakho kusuka ekubambeni isikhathi eside, khuluma nodokotela wakho noma umhlinzeki wezokwelapha. Uma ungenakho ukufinyelela ngokushesha kumhlinzeki wezokwelapha, thintana nesikhungo sakho sendawo se-transgender futhi ubuze ukuthi banaye yini umuntu ongakhuluma naye mayelana nezingozi nemibuzo.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Alukho ucwaningo oluningi ngokuphepha kanye nokwenza kwe-tucking. Ulwazi oluningi luvela kuma-akhawunti wakho. Kufanele uzizwe ukhululekile ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho noma omunye umhlinzeki wezokwelapha nganoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka onakho mayelana ne-tucking. Ungavakashela nendawo yomphakathi ye-transgender.

Uma kungekho isikhungo somphakathi se-transgender endaweni yakho, kunezinsizakusebenza eziningi ezitholakala ku-inthanethi futhi. Bheka izinhlangano ezikhethekile ekunikezeni izinsiza kumphakathi we-LGBTQIA.

UKaleb Dornheim uyisishoshovu esisebenza ngaphandle kwe-NYC e-GMHC njengomxhumanisi wezobulungiswa kwezocansi nokuzala. Basebenzisa bona / bona izabizwana. Basanda kuthweswa iziqu e-University of Albany namakhosi abo ezifundweni zabesifazane, ezobulili, kanye nezocansi, begxile kwezemfundo ye-trans studies. UKaleb ukhomba njengomuntu ohamba phambili, ongabhalisi, odlulayo, ogula ngengqondo, osindile odlame lokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi nokuhlukunyezwa, kanye nabampofu. Bahlala nomlingani wabo kanye nekati futhi baphupha ngokuhlenga izinkomo uma zingaphumi zibhikisha.