Amathiphu ama-5 weSmooth Hambisa Ngomuntu Wakho

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Umqondo wokugoqa izitsha zakho ephephandabeni bese ubuka igumbi lakho lokuphumula liminza olwandle lokugoqa i-bubble akukaze kujabulise kakhulu. Wena nomuntu wakho nigcine ngokuthatha igxuma, nisayine kulayini onamachashazi, futhi nacosha amasethi amabili okhiye. Ngemva kweminyaka yokuzama ukuminyanisa ikhabethe lakho lonke ekhabetheni elilodwa elincane kuphedi yakhe, isikhathi sesifikile sokuhlanganisa izinto zakho eziyigugu kakhulu endaweni entsha. Yize kungabazeka ukuthi i-china likagogo wakho lizoxhumana neqoqo lakhe lebhasikidi likabhiya wasekolishi, nazi izeluleko ezinhlanu zokudlula esikhathini sokulungiswa futhi ulenze libe "ikhaya elimnandi lasekhaya".

1) Ukuhlala no Boyfriend Wakho? Qala kusuka ekuqaleni

Ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo nokugwema impi ye-turf, hamba uye endaweni entsha kini nobabili. Ngale ndlela ungaqala ukusha njengabakhaya abajabule, esikhundleni sokumphoqa ukuthi alahle iqoqo lakhe le-CD elidala ukuze avule isikhala sezicathulo zakho. Ngokusobala uManolos trump Metallica, kodwa uzocela ukwehluka.

2) Khuluma Ngezimali Zakho bese Wenza Uhlelo

Nakuba uqiniseka ukuthi ngeke athathe imali yakho futhi agijime njengomuntu olungele isiqephu UJerry Springer, uma ungashadile, kuwukuhlakanipha ukugcina imali yakho ihlukene. Thola ukuthi uzokhokha kanjani imali yerenti, okokuthenga, uphethiloli nekhebula kusenesikhathi. Uma nobabili nenza amaholo afanayo, ningahlukanisa izikweletu 50/50. Kodwa uma omunye wenu enza kakhulu, ungase ufune ukulungisa izinkokhelo zakho zezikweletu ngendlela efanele.

3) Yazi Imikhuba Yakhe Emibi (futhi Usanquma Ukuhlanganyela Igumbi Lokugeza)

Ngenkathi engakuphekela ama-pancake amnandi ngeSonto ekuseni futhi akuthole kupholile ngendlela eyisimanga, ngisho noMnu. Ngeke wazi ukuthi yini okumele uyilindele uma usuyohlala nesoka lakho uze uzibonele mathupha okuhle, okubi nokubi. Ucabanga ukuthi ukunqwabelanisa izintaba zezingubo esihlalweni kusebenza kakhulu kunokusebenzisa ikhabethe, kuthola umuthi wokuxubha yonke indawo ekhawunteni ngayo yonke into yokuxubha, kushiya izinwele ezincane kusinki lapho eshefa, futhi kuvumela okusele ukuthi kubole esiqandisini kuze kukhule imilenze baphume. Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani lokho kuyakucasula; msize asebenze ekulungiseni leyo mikhuba ngokuqinisekile obungaphila ngaphandle kwayo. Ukumthethisa kuzomkhumbuza kuphela ukuthi kungani ejabule ukuthi akasasahlali nabazali bakhe.

Futhi ungazenzi umangele kangaka! Ngaphambi kokuhlala nesoka lakho, ubukade unesabelo sakho esifanelekile sokulala endaweni yakhe, futhi wabona kahle ukuthi indlu yakhe yokugezela ibukeka kanjani, ngosuku olubi. Ukuthanda kwakhe ukushiya isihlalo sendlu yangasese kufanele kube yizindaba ezindala.

4) Funda Ukwabelana nge-Remote ... nezinye izinto

Ukuhlangana maphakathi kuyisihluthulelo senjabulo yasekhaya! Yize impela eyi-roomie yakho entsha oyithandayo, ngeke uvumelane ngaso sonke isikhathi kuhlelo lwe-TV lwantambama, yini edliwayo, noma isikhathi sikabani ukukhipha udoti. Ngenkathi ucabanga ukuthi ibhola langeSonto ntambama liyisnothi esiphelele, uqinisekile ukuthi ulahlekelwa ngamaseli obuchopho ngoba esegumbini elilodwa lapho ubuka iThe Hills. Ngakho-ke, vuma ukungavumelani nokushintshanisa ukuthi ubani othola "i-tv enhle" nokuthi ubani oxoshelwe ekamelweni lapho ufuna ukubuka izinhlelo ezahlukene. Lapho ungabaza? I-DVR.

Ehlangothini le-flip, ungathola ukuthi nobabili nithola injabulo enkulu kumshini wokuwasha izitsha ohleleke kahle futhi nigonene kusofa ukubukela uGlee. Kusukela ekuhlanzeni kuze kube ekuphekeni, ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, bobabili amaqembu kudingeka anikeze futhi athathe ukuze afinyelele indawo yokujabula.

5) Khuluma ngayo

Ukwabelana ngendawo (kanye nethelevishini) nesithandwa sakho kuyingxenye yempi. Uma enza okuthile okukukhathaza ngempela (njengokungakwazi ukushintsha umqulu wephepha lasendlini yangasese), xhumana ngaphambi kokuba kukhule. Akukho lutho olubi njengokudla izinsuku bese ukhipha intukuthelo kumuntu ohlala naye ovamise ukungazi.

Futhi khumbula, ukuhlala nawe kungahle kungabi ukuhamba epaki kuye futhi. Akajwayele ukucwebezela ngezindebe eziphuma ekhabetheni ngalinye noma amabhodlela angamashumi amabili e-shampoo (angavunyelwe ukuwasebenzisa) egeza. Kepha okungenani ekugcineni uyakholelwa ukuthi ukomisa izinwele zakho kuthatha isikhathi eside kangako.

Imikhuba emibi yokugezela kanye nezimpi zasendaweni ekude, nina nobabili ninqume ukuhlalisana ngesizathu. Niyafanelana, yiba nobudlelwano obuqinile, obunempilo, futhi bobabili bafuna ukukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo. Futhi mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku uyongena kokunye okukhulu lapho angaba nendlu yakhe yokugezela, akunjalo?

Noma yimaphi amathiphu wokuthi yini ongayilindela lapho uhlala nesoka lakho? Sazise!

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