Izizathu Ezingu-8 Okufanele Ube Ne-Summer Fling

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• Bakhululekile kwiDrama
• Unosuku Lokuma Konke
• I-Fling ikwenza wenze izinto obungeke uzenze ngokujwayelekile
• Ingcindezi Ephansi
• Kuyikhambi Eliphelele Lokuhlukana
• Ubudlelwano Bakho Obulandelayo Buzoba Bungcono Kubo
• Kukhona Okuthile Okududuzayo Mayelana Nedethi Yokuphela
• Kungaba Yinto Yangempela
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Ihlobo selifikile futhi, futhi uma ungashadile, ithemba lokubamba i-fling ehlobo lijabulisa kakhulu kune-hemlines ekhuphukayo, amakhofi e-iced, nezinsuku ezingamavila ezidla ama-tacos olwandle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usaziqhayisa ngokuthi impelasonto yoSuku lweSikhumbuzo iyakhazimula noma uyalunywa ukuze ukwazi ukusebenzisa ngokugcwele oLwezihlanu bakho bokuqala basehlobo besizini, nazi izindlela eziyisishiyagalombili lapho ukubhukuda okuhle kuzokwenza ihlobo lakho libe ngcono kakhulu.

Bakhululekile kwiDrama

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Ngaphambi kokuqala i-fling, qiniseka ukuthi nobabili ekhasini elilodwa maqondana nokulindelwe. Ukuthi awuboni ikusasa nalo muntu ngemuva kokuthi ama-tanline wakho esephelile akusho ukuthi bazizwa befana, futhi ngokufanayo. Uma usususe leyo ngxoxo endleleni, noma kunjalo, qiniseka ukuthi usanda kuba nenkulumo ebucayi kakhulu ongalindela ukuba nayo ngokuphendula kwakho.

Unosuku Lokuma Konke

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Ngemuva kobusika obude besendlini, ukufika kwezinsuku zangempela zasehlobo kusho ukuthi wonke umuntu ulangazelela ukuphuma ngaphandle nganoma iyiphi indlela. Njengoba izimemo ziqala ukungena kuma-barbecues, uhambo lolwandle, ukuphuza usuku epaki, noma ikhonsathi yangaphandle yamahhala, kuhle ukuba nenketho yokuza nomuntu odlalayo wanoma yini.

I-Fling ikwenza wenze izinto obungeke uzenze ngokujwayelekile

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Uma unanoma yini efana nami, uvame ukuthandana nabantu abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo, amanani, nabathandayo ezintweni ezifana nezincwadi nomculo. Kodwa ngezinjongo zesikhathi sasehlobo, asikho isidingo sokuhlola lo muntu usebenzisa izindinganiso ezifanayo ozisebenzisayo ebudlelwaneni obunzima, okukushiya ukhululekile ukuhlangana nomuntu ongekho ngokuphelele endlini yakho yamasondo. Uma uzithola ukhangwa umuntu ongeke wakucabanga ngokungathi sína ukuphola, cabanga ngehlobo njengephasi lamahhala.

Ingcindezi Ephansi

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Umthetho ojwayelekile wokushaywa kwehlobo ukuthi impilo yakho ngaphandle kwalo muntu kufanele ihlale icishe ifane. Iphuzu eliphelele le-fling, ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuthi uthola imali ezintweni ezimnandi futhi akudingeki ubhekane nanoma imuphi umthwalo ongahamba nobudlelwano bangempela. Lokho kusho ukunamathela ezinhlelweni zakho ezikhona, uzinike isikhathi sokuzipholela nabangani, futhi ngokuvamile ungaphindiseli impilo yakho ngokuningilizayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukugqoka kwakho kufanele kuhambisane nalokhu.

Kuyikhambi Eliphelele Lokuhlukana

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Uma ungena ehlobo usanda kuhlukana, kwesinye isikhathi ungazizwa sengathi wonke omunye umuntu emhlabeni ubonakala eyingxenye yombhangqwana. Yebo, kungase kulinge ukuthi "uqhuzuke" ngokunganaki kulowo mbhangqwana odlala ngokufutheka kufestivali yomculo ukuze uphuze ubhiya wakho kuwo. Kodwa kungani, lapho ungase utshala lawo mandla kwezinye izintambo ezingenazintambo, ubulili behlobo be-fling? I-fling isebenza njenge-stand-in enkulu ngalezo zikhathi lapho ufuna ukuhlala kuzo zonke izingxenye ezinhle zobudlelwano ngenkathi ngasikhathi sinye ususa ingqondo yakho kokubi.

Ubudlelwano Bakho Obulandelayo Buzoba Bungcono Kubo

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Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi senu ndawonye sidlula isikhathi esingakanani, umuntu ngamunye omusha ophola naye uzokutshela okwengeziwe mayelana nokuthi uyini ngempela noma ongamfuni kumlingani ozimisele. Ngisho noma ungazami ukuguqula ukuphapha kwakho kube into ebucayi kakhulu (okungafanele uyenze, ngaphandle uma nobabili nixoxile ngalokhu njengenketho engase ibe khona), basazoba umthombo we-intel ebalulekile njengoba ihlobene neyakho. impilo yokujola yonke.

Kukhona Okuthile Okududuzayo Mayelana Nedethi Yokuphela

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Idethi yokuphela kobudlelwano esinqunyiwe ingenye yaleyo mibono esebenza kangcono endaweni yonke kunokukwenza ebudlelwaneni / endaweni yangempela yokuphila. Kepha uma ningena ebudlelwaneni nobabili enibaziyo kwasekuqaleni buzophela, kusho ukuthi maningi amathuba okuthi nisebenzise isikhathi eninaso ndawonye ezintweni ezinhle, izinto zokwenza inkumbulo, lapha nalapha Izinto -manje.

Kungaba Yinto Yangempela

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Yebo, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi nobabili nisekhasini elilodwa mayelana nemvelo yobudlelwano benu. Kepha ukuthi nobabili niyavuma ukuthi ukushaywa kwakho okwesikhashana ekuqaleni akusho ukuthi kufanele nivale umnyango esikhathini esizayo ndawonye uma imizwa yenu ingashintsha. Ngeke wazi-okuqala njengokuphapha kungase kudingeke ukuthi uphinde uvakashele ekupheleni kwehlobo lapho ungakwazi ukucabanga impilo yakho yangemva koSuku Lwabasebenzi ngaphandle kwazo.

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