Izindlela eziyi-8 zokuzinikela ngokuzithandela ngokuhlukaniswa

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• Ukushintsha izinto eziza kuqala
• Izindlela zokunikela
• Thola amathuba abonakalayo
• Nikeza isifiso
• Inethiwekhi kwezenhlalo
• Khumbula abantu abadala asebekhulile
• Sebenzisa amathalente akho
• Yiba umnakekeli
• Fundisa isihloko osithandayo
• Thola ulimi olwabiwe
• Ukujwayela usuku lwethu olusha nosuku

Ukuqhelelana ngokomzimba akudingeki ukuthi kusivimbele ekwenzeni umehluko kulabo abawudinga kakhulu.

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, mina nengoduso yami saxabana sisendleleni yokuchitha uKhisimusi nomndeni wami.

Lapho sihamba endaweni esingajwayelene nayo, saqala ukuqaphela abantu abaningi ababonakala bengenamakhaya. Lokhu kuqale ukuhlukumeza ukungezwani njengoba siphendulele imicabango yethu kulolu daba olukhulu.

Kwasenza sabona ukuthi lokho esasilwa ngakho kwakumane kuyinto encane.

Lapho sibuyela ekhaya, sanquma ukuthola ukupheka. Silungise isobho esishisayo nama-sandwich, bese sibuyela emuva kwabesilisa nabesifazane abazulazula emigodini ukuze bafudumale.

Kwaba yisiko lethu ngemuva kokulwa, bese kuba njalo ngesonto. Ukuhlela nokulungisa lokho kudla kwasisondeza futhi kwasivumela ukuba sibophele phezu kwesifiso sokusebenzisana ukusiza abanye.

Sesikhulile kule minyaka eyisikhombisa edlule, futhi amaphrojekthi wethu wothando abhekiswe kakhulu ekusizeni omakadebona bezingane kanye nezingane ezibhekene nokungabi namakhaya.

Ukucisha kanye nokuqhela komzimba kusivimbele ukuthi singabuyiseli ngendlela ebesingathanda ngayo, ngakho-ke sifune ezinye izindlela zokuzithandela ngaphandle kokubeka engcupheni ukuvezwa yi-COVID-19.

Ukuqhelelana ngokomzimba akudingeki ukuthi kusivimbele ekugcineni isiko lethu nokwenza umehluko kulabo abaludinga kakhulu.

Ukushintsha izinto eziza kuqala

Abaningi banenkinga yokuvolontiya ngenxa yezinhlelo ezimatasa. Ngokuzithandela kokubonakalayo, kulula ukuthola amathuba alingana nemigomo yakho.

Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi labo abavolontiya babika amazinga aphezulu enjabulo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokwanda kozwela kanye nomuzwa wokubonga ngalokho onakho.

Kungakhuphula nokuzethemba futhi kunikeze abantu umuzwa wokuthi bangabanikazi nenjongo. Ngizizwe ngingenzi lutho ngihleli ekhaya, futhi umuzwa wenjongo yilokho engikudingayo.

Izindlela zokunikela

Noma ngabe ufuna ukuhola kuphrojekthi noma ungene ungene usize, nazi izeluleko zokuthola ithuba lokuzithandela elifanele lakho ngenkathi uhamba ibanga:

Thola amathuba abonakalayo

Imininingwane yolwazi iyisinyathelo sokuqala esihle sokuthola ithuba lokuzithandela eliphelele. Ungahlunga ngezigaba, amahora, nezindawo. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungakhetha endaweni ethile eseduze uma kwenzeka ufuna ukuzinikela mathupha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

IVolunteerMatch neJustServe banikela ngamathuba wokuvolontiya ezinhlanganweni ezingenzi nzuzo, izinhlangano zosizo namabhizinisi ngenhliziyo.

Nikeza isifiso

Uma unemali eyengeziwe noma indlela yokwenza imali, ungagcwalisa uhlu lwezifiso zosizo. Izinhlangano eziningi zamukela izinto unyaka wonke.

Ungakhetha ezigabeni ezahlukahlukene njengezenhlalakahle yezilwane, izinhlangano zemvelo, izinsizakalo zezempilo, nobuciko. Noma yini ekushukumisayo, uzothola isizathu sokunikeza.

Izinto ziba ngamanani kusuka kuzindleko eziphansi kuya kumatikiti aphezulu, ngakho-ke usazoba nokuthile ongakunikela uma ukwabhajethi.

Inethiwekhi kwezenhlalo

Ziningi izinhlangano ezicela usizo ngamakhasi azo omphakathi. Isibonelo, iCathedral Kitchen eseCamden, eNew Jersey, icele ukuthi kufakwe ama-sandwich emnyango wabo ukuze baqhubeke nemizamo yabo yokondla abantu abangenamakhaya, noma sebebekwa bodwa.

Xhumana nekhasi ledolobha lakho elithi Thenga Lutho ku-Facebook bese ubuza ngamathuba. Uma kukhona intshisekelo, ungaqala idrayivu yomphakathi. Ungasetha ibhokisi lokunikeza abantu ukuthi banikele ngezinto ezisemathinini, noma uqoqe ukudla kwekati bese wondla ikoloni lasendaweni elahlekile.

Iqembu eliseNew Jersey, ngosizo lwezindawo zokudlela zasendaweni, lalisebenzisa imali yokuqoqa izixuku ukuze lilethe ukudla emawodini e-COVID-19 ezibhedlela. Le mizamo ayigcinanga ngokwenza imali kumabhizinisi endawo, ikhombise ukubonga nakubasebenzi abaphambili.

Khumbula abantu abadala asebekhulile

Ngokucabanga ukuthi iqembu labo leminyaka yilona elisengozini enkulu, abantu abadala asebekhulile bangaphakathi emakhaya abo noma ezikhungweni zabahlengikazi bebodwa, abakwazi ukubona imindeni yabo.

Abaningi banxanela ukuxhumana futhi bayayazisa imizamo yokuzithandela.

Ngenhlanhla, ezinye izakhiwo zixhunyiwe. Ungathatha ukuhola kukaMathewu McConaughey bese udlala iBingo. Ezinye izinketho ukufunda, ukudlala i-chess ebonakalayo, noma ukunikeza ukusebenza komculo.

Ukuthola ngale mathuba, finyelela esikhungweni sokusiza sendawo noma ekhaya lasebekhulile ukuze ufunde ukuthi ziyini izidingo zabo.

Sebenzisa amathalente akho

Dala amathuba ngamakhono akho nokuzilibazisa. Umgijimi ozinze eNew Jersey, uPatrick Rodio, uhlele umqoqi wezimali wokuhlonipha ikilasi lika-2020 elingeke lihambele iziqu zabo.

Imali izoya ekuthengeni izincwadi zonyaka zabafundi. Noma yikuphi okunye okungeziwe kuzoya ezikhwameni zemfundo yasekolishi. URodio usevele weqe umgomo wakhe wama- $ 3,000.

Uma ukuqina kuyinto yakho kodwa ungafuni ukuqoqa imali, ukuhlinzeka ngamanani aphansi noma amakilasi amahhala e-inthanethi angaba yindlela ezuzisayo yokubuyisela.

Uma ungumculi, yabelana ngakho! Ungadlala insimbi yomculo noma uhlabelele abantu abahlala bodwa kuvidiyo, noma unikeze isikhathi samahhala se-jam bukhoma kunoma ngubani ongajoyina.

Yiba umnakekeli

Ukubeletha okubonakalayo kungenye indlela enhle yokusiza. Ukuthatha izingane zomuntu ihora elilodwa kungahle kube yikhefu labazali abafunda ekhaya.

Njengothisha we-yoga ogxile ekuhlukumezeni izingane, ngiyakujabulela ukunikela ngokuzindla noma ngezikhathi ze-yoga ezinobungane. Abantu abadalile banganikela ngezifundo zobuciko, amaseshini wokwakha iLego, noma imibukiso kanodoli.

Fundisa isihloko osithandayo

Abafundi abafundisayo ezifundweni eziyisudi yakho eqinile. Uma umsebenzi wakho udinga ukubhala okuningi, nikela ekufundeni amaphepha kwabafundi abaphakathi naphezulu.

Uma ungumuntu wezibalo, hamba abafundi abathile ngezinkinga zamagama. Unjiniyela? Nikeza amakilasi wokufaka amakhodi kulabo abafuna ukwandisa amakhono abo emisebenzi.

Thola ulimi olwabiwe

Uma ukhuluma olunye ulimi, manje yisikhathi esihle sokushintsha lowo msipha.

Iba nezingxoxo ze-Zoom ngesiFulentshi noma unikeze ngezinsizakalo zokuhumusha. Lokhu kungasho ukusiza isikole esiphakeme ukuthi sidlulise ikilasi, noma kungasho ukusiza umfundi wokushintshanisa enze isiNgisi sakhe.

Ungafinyelela nasezibhedlela nasezinhlanganweni zasendaweni uma kungenzeka badinge abahumushi beziguli nemindeni yabo.

Ukujwayela usuku lwethu olusha nosuku

Asinaso isiqiniseko sokuthi izinto zizobuyela nini kokujwayelekile, noma uma zihlukaniswa kuyinto okusha okujwayelekile. Yize singahle sikhawulelwe kulokho esingakwenza, lokho akudingi ukuthi kumise ikhono lethu lokunikela.

Abaningi - kusuka kulabo ababhekene nokungabi namakhaya kuya ezinganeni ezingomakhelwane - bathembele ekupheni kwethu njengamanje.

Mina nesoka lami sibheke phambili ekuboneni ubuso obujwayelekile lapho singabuyela ekuzinikeleni ezindaweni zokukhosela.

Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, sihlanganyele nesikhungo sokuhlala esisiziwe ukunikela ngezifundo zobuciko ezingokoqobo namahora omculo ukugcina abahlali bawo bezijabulisa.

Ithemba lethu ukugqugquzela abanye ukuthi baphume ngaphandle kwezimo zabo futhi babheke umuntu ozoxhumana nanoma ngubani oke wathinteka yi-COVID-19.

Siyajabula ukuthi ubuchwepheshe buye benza ukuzidela kwaba lula, ngakho-ke singaqhubeka nomkhuba wethu wokubuyisela.

UTonya Russell yintatheli ezimele ebhala ngempilo yengqondo, amasiko kanye nokuphila kahle. Ungumgijimi okhuthele, i-yogi, nomhambi, futhi uhlala endaweni yaseFiladelfiya nezingane zakhe ezine zoboya nesoka lakhe. Mlandele ku-Instagram naku-Twitter.