Kungani Ngingafinyelela Umzimba Ngokwami ​​Kuphela?

Ukulindela kwe-orgasm kungakuvimba kanjani wena nomlingani wakho ukuthi nihlangane.

Idizayini ngu-Alexis Lira

Umbuzo: Ukuya ocansini nomyeni wami kuyinto encane ... kahle, ngokuthembeka, angizwa lutho. Ngiyazi ukuthi ngingazenza kanjani ngize, kungukuthi ngifuna ukukuzwa naye hhayi ukuthatha unomphela ukufika lapho. Singakusebenzela kanjani lokhu?

Lezi izindaba ezinhle ngempela! Uwazi kahle umzimba wakho ngokwanele ukuziletha ku-orgasm. Manje kufanele ufundise futhi uqeqeshe umyeni wakho ukuthi uthanda ukuthintwa kanjani.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokuzijabulisa, abantu bajwayela indlela ethile yokuthinta. Isikhathi soku umbukiso ukuthi iyini leyo ndlela. Qhubeka uthole ibhuloho phakathi kokuthandayo nemisebenzi yakho ejwayelekile yezocansi. Zama ukulingisa okuthandayo ngesikhathi socansi, kepha ungakhohlwa ukuxhumana nalezi zinguquko zesigqi ku-SO yakho. Ungabi namahloni. Khuluma, unikeze imininingwane. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi yini ekususa.

Kanye nokuqeqeshelwa izandla, linga ukwabelana ngephupho lakho. Isho ngokuzwakalayo. Ngiyazi ukuthi kungabonakala ngathi kuningi okwenzekayo, kepha ukukwazi ukudlulisa izindaba, imisindo, nokuthinta okukususayo i umzila osheshayo we-A oya ku-B wokuthola injabulo.

Kuzwakala sengathi ungahle ube nokulindela okuthile mayelana nokuthi kufanele uze ngokushesha kangakanani. Lokhu kungangeza ingcindezi efihliwe futhi kuphazamise ikhono lakho lokuphumula ngokuphelele ngesikhathi socansi. Akunasidingo sokushesha, ngaphandle kwalapho ufuna ukuthola i-quickie. Wonke umuntu uza ngesikhathi sakhe, futhi kulungile.

Uma kukhulunywa nge-orgasm, ubhekene nezakho kuze kube yilapho ufundise umlingani wakho ukuthi yini ezwa okuhle kuwe nasemzimbeni wakho. Uma uzizwa ucindezelwa ngumyeni wakho, khuluma naye. Ngoba uze umbonise noma umtshele ukuthi kanjani, akakwazi ukusiza.

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