U-Cassey Ho Udale Umugqa Wesikhathi "Wezinhlobo Zomzimba Ezikahle" ukuze Afanekise Ukubhuqa Kwamazinga Obuhle

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Umndeni wakwaKardashian, ngokungangabazeki, ubukhosi obuhlangene bezinkundla zokuxhumana-nokuhlaselwa kokuzivocavoca umzimba, abaqeqeshi okhalweni, netiye zokukhipha ubuthi emzimbeni ezithembisa ukukukora isilinganiso sikaKim noKhloé sezinqe ezinqeni ukuya okhalweni kungubufakazi bokuthi ithonya labo linamandla kangakanani bekulokhu. Yize izibalo eziphikisayo ezifana nezabo zisendleleni manje, bekungeyona ngaso sonke isikhathi uhlobo lomzimba "lokulifela". Eqinisweni, kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi zingakanani izindinganiso zobuhle ezishintshile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Emashumini ambalwa edlule, umzimba wesifazane "ofanele" uqhubeke ngokushintsha-njengokuthambekela kwemfashini-ukukhombisa isiko le-pop. Futhi, yize ukujaha leli zinga lobuhle eliguqukayo kungatheli nhlobo, abesifazane abaningi basazizwa sengathi badinga ukubukeka ngendlela ethile ukuze bazizwe bebahle.

Ukuze kuqashelwe ukuthi lokho kuwubuwula kangakanani, u-Cassey Ho, i-diva yokufaneleka ngemuva kwe-Blogilates, usanda kungena ku-Instagram ukuze enze isheke langempela. Ezithombeni zakhe ezimbili ezithwetshulwe izithombe, u-Ho morphs umzimba wakhe (ngosizo lohlelo oluthile lokuhlela uhlelo lokusebenza) ukulingana nezinga lomzimba elifanele lanamhlanje kanye nelezikhathi ezahlukahlukene emlandweni. "Ukube benginomzimba 'ophelele" kuwo wonke umlando, yilokhu ebengizobukeka ngakho, "ubhale kanjalo nezithombe. (Okuhlobene: Bona ukuthi Umncintiswano weBikini Ushintshe Kanjani Indlela Yezempilo Nokuqina)

Uqhubeke ngokudiliza ngqo indlela imigomo yobuhle yomphakathi eguquke ngayo emashumini eminyaka, kusukela ngenkathi ye-2010s (aka manje). Ubhale wathi, "Izinqe ezinkulu, izinkalo ezibanzi, izinkalo ezincane nezindebe ezigcwele." "Kunokuhlinzwa okukhulu kokuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki kokufakelwa kwezinqe ngenxa yamamodeli e-Instagram athumela 'ama-belfies.' Ngisho nodokotela abahlinza izimonyo sebedume ku-Instagram ngokubumba kabusha abesifazane. Phakathi kuka-2012–2014, ukufakwa kwezinqe nemijovo kwenyuke ngamaphesenti angu-58." (Okuhlobene: Lo mkhuba Owufunde Ukhula Ungangcolisa Kakhulu Ngesithombe Somzimba Wakho)

Yibuyise emuva iminyaka eyishumi (maphakathi kweminyaka yama-90s kanye neye-2000s) futhi, "ama-boobs amakhulu, izisu ezisicaba, kanye nezikhala zamathanga" ayekhona, kusho uHo. "Ngo-2010, ukukhuliswa kwebele kungukuhlinzwa kwezimonyo okwenziwa kakhulu e-United States," kubhala yena.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ama-90s ayemayelana nokuba "mncane," nokuba "nesakhiwo samathambo emincane," kubhala uHo. Phindela emuva emashumini ambalwa eminyaka, futhi uzobona ukuthi ama-50s ayeyiminyaka yesimo se-hourglass. "Izilinganiso zika-Elizabeth Taylor ezingama-36-21-36 bezizifanele," ubhale kanje. "Abesifazane bakhangisiwe ngamaphilisi okuthola isisindo ukuze bazigcwalise." (Bona: Kungani Ukuncipha Kwesisindo Kungeke Kukujabulise Ngokuzenzakalelayo)

Buyisela emuva kuma-20s futhi, "ebonakala njengomfana, onamahlaya futhi onobusha, onamabele amancane, nesibalo esiqondile" kwaba umkhuba. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, abesifazane babekhetha ukufihla amajika abo "ngokubopha izifuba zabo ngemicu yendwangu ukuze benze leso sibalo esiqondile esifanele izingubo ze-flapper." Ekugcineni, uma ubuyela emuva kakhulu kwi-Renaissance yase-Italy, uHo uveza ukuthi, "ukubukeka ugcwele ngesisu esiyindilinga, okhalweni olukhulu, nesifuba esanele" kwakuyisimo esasikhona. “Ukondleka kwakuwuphawu lokuceba nesimo,” ebhala. "Kuphela abampofu ababezacile." (Okuhlobene: Lo Mgqugquzeli Wenza Iphuzu Elibalulekile Mayelana nokuthi Kungani Akufanele Uthembe Konke Okubona Kumithombo Yezokuxhumana)

Nakuba lokho okubhekwa njengokukhangayo kuye kwashintsha kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kunento eyodwa engashintshile: ingcindezi yokuba abesifazane balingane nesikhunta. Kepha ngokwephula izinto phansi, uHo unethemba lokuthi abesifazane bazobona ukuthi ingcindezi yokuzivumelanisa kaningi ayinangqondo, ingasaphathwa eyempilo.

Lokhu kuyiqiniso, hhayi kuphela ngokuphathelene neminyaka eyishumi ophila kuyo kodwa futhi kuphi uyaphila. Njengoba sike sabika ngaphambilini, "umzimba ophelele" uhlukile empeleni emhlabeni wonke. Nakuba abesifazane baseShayina bezizwa becindezelwa ukuba babe bazacile, abaseVenezuela nase-Columbia bayadunyiswa ngenxa yamajika abo futhi bakhetha uhlobo lomzimba olungaba ku-BMI "ekhuluphele kakhulu".

Ukuthatha: Ukuzama ukulinganisa ubuhle bokuthile okuyiphutha kuyisimo sokulahlekelwa kwabesifazane. (Bheka laba besifazane abakhuthazayo abachaza kabusha izindinganiso zomzimba.)

Njengoba uHo ekubeka: "Kungani siphatha imizimba yethu njengalapho siphatha imfashini? Yebo, iqiniso liwukuthi ukukhiqiza imizimba yethu kuyingozi kakhulu kunokukhiqiza izingubo. Yeka ukukhipha umzimba wakho njengefashini esheshayo. " (Okuhlobene: Lapho Ukunyakaza Kwe-Body-Positivity Kumi Futhi Lapho Kudingeka Kuhambe Khona)

Ekupheleni kosuku, noma ngabe umzimba wakho ubukeka kanjani, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza imikhuba enempilo nokunakekela isikhumba okuso. "Sicela uphathe umzimba wakho ngothando nangenhlonipho futhi ungavumeli ukunqotshwa indinganiso yobuhle, "kusho uHo. "Yamukela umzimba wakho ngoba ngumzimba WAKHO ophelele."

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