UChrissy Teigen Uvula Impi Yakhe Eqhubekayo Nexhala Nokucindezeleka
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Uma bekufanele ukhethe i-hashtag eyodwa ukuchaza impilo kaChrissy Teigen, i-#NoFilter bekungaba ukukhetha okufanele kakhulu. Indlovukazi yokungagunci iye yabelana ngemithambo kuma-boobs ayo ngemuva kokukhulelwa ku-Twitter, yavula obala ngokuhlinzwa kwayo ngopulasitiki, yaze yabonisa nangezimpawu zayo zokululeka ngebhayisikili. Ngaphezu kokungagunci ngezithombe azibhalile, uTeigen naye ubekhuluma kakhulu, ngakho konke kusuka ebuhlanya obukhona Uthando aluboni (shumayela, ntombazane) esimweni samanje senyunyana.
Kepha uTeigen usanda kuveza uhlangothi olusengozini kakhulu kuye okwamanje.
Engxoxweni yakamuva no Ubuhle UK, inkanyezi eneminyaka engama-35 ivule imininingwane ngokulwa kwakhe nomzimba wakhe nempilo yakhe yengqondo. Eminyakeni engu-18 ubudala, izisindo nezilinganiso zomzimba kwakuyingxenye engenakugwenywa yencazelo yomsebenzi oyimodeli, ngakho-ke kule minyaka eyishumi eyalandela, inkambiso yakhe ibandakanya ukunyathela esikalini njalo ekuseni, ntambama nasebusuku, kusho uTeigen Ubuhle UK. Lapho eneminyaka engu-20 ubudala, wayesekhulile ibele ukuze azuze amabele ayindilinga, aqinile, futhi aqinile ayegcwalisa ingubo yokubhukuda njengoba “elala ngomhlane” emile, esho. Manje ngemva kweminyaka engu-14, umbono kaTeigen ngokubukeka kwakhe ubonisa uthando ngaphezu kokugxeka.
"Ngibheka [umzimba wami] eshaweni bese ngicabanga, 'Arghhh, lezi zingane'. Kodwa angikuthathi njengento ebaluleke kangaka manje ubuciko bobuhle. Kuyagculisa kakhulu ukungabi naleyo ngcindezi yokugqoka ingubo yokubhukuda nokubukeka kahle ephephabhukwini ngesikhathi ngigijima olwandle, okuyinto engiyenzile ngisamodela,” kusho uTeigen engxoxweni. “Angizizwa sengathi umzimba wami yilapho engizoba sh*tty kimina, futhi. Sengivele ngicabanga izinto ezanele engizithukuthelele ngazo, angikwazi ukwengeza umzimba wami kuzo. "
Yilokhu kwethembeka okubalulekile okwenza uTeigen akhulumeke kakhulu—futhi uletha kuzo zonke izingxoxo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyinselele kangakanani. Case iphuzu? Impi yakhe ehlala isikhathi eside nempilo yengqondo. UTeigen utshele lo magazini ukuthi izinsuku zakhe zokufunda esikoleni esiphakeme zazigcwele ukukhathazeka, futhi neminyaka yakhe yokufunda ngemuva kokumakishwa kwaba nomuzwa okhangayo Angazi ukuthi ngifuna ukwenzani ngempilo yami. (Okuhlobene: Osaziwayo abayi-9 Abakhuluma Ngezinkinga Zempilo Yengqondo)
Yize ahlangana nabelaphi, uTeigen uthi ekugcineni wayeka ngoba wayecabanga ukuthi lokhu abhekene nakho "kwakuyinkathazo ejwayelekile engamashumi amabili nokuthile." Ngokushesha ezinyangeni ezintathu ngemuva kokubeletha indodakazi uLuna noTeigen kwatholakala ukuthi unesifo sangemva kokubeletha. Ukuphila "okubabazekayo empilweni," wenze okuthile ekugcineni, wachaza Ubuhle UK.
“Ngaqaphela lapho ekugcineni sengikhululekile futhi ngazi ukuthi ngiyaphi ekuphileni futhi nginezizathu eziningi zokujabula, ukuthi ngokusobala kukhona okwenzekayo,” etshela lo magazini. “...Bengingazi ukuthi [ukucindezeleka] kunganyonyoba sekwephuzile kangako noma ukuthi kungenzeka kumuntu onjengami, lapho nginazo zonke izinsiza. Benginabondli nomama wami behlala nathi. ”
Eminyakeni emithathu nengxenye—kanye nenye ingane—kamuva, uTeigen uyavuma ukuthi usabhekene nokukhathazeka nokucindezeleka kwakhe. Ngezinye izinsuku kuyimpi ukugeza, abanye uzolala amahora angu-12 futhi usazizwa ekhathele. “Ngizotshela uJohn,‘ Ngaphakathi enhliziyweni, ngiyazi ukuthi ngijabule. ’Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi noma ngubani onenkinga uyazi ukuthi kubuhlungu emzimbeni ukucabanga ngokwenza izinto,” kusho yena. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuthola imithi yakho kufana nokucosha i-dumbbell engu-60kg (132 lb) engingafuni ukuyicosha futhi angazi ukuthi kungani."
Kodwa uTeigen ufunda ukubhekana nesimo—ngendlela yakhe siqu. Ngenkathi ezama ukwelashwa kwesintu— "Ngiya kathathu futhi ngizizwa ngingenangqondo" - uncamela ukuphendukela kubangane bakhe "usuku lonke, zonke izinsuku" ukuze bamsekele. “Yilokho ukwelashwa kwami manje, ngikwazi ukukhuluma nabo,” kuchaza uTeigen. Futhi kunokuba afune amandla nempilo ehhovisi likadokotela, uTeigen ukuthole ekhishini. "Ukupheka akunandaba ukuthi ungubani, ushisa sh*t ngokufanayo," esho Ubuhle UK. (Okuhlobene: Izifundo Ezi-4 Ezibalulekile Zempilo Yengqondo Wonke Umuntu Okufanele Akwazi, Ngokusho Kwesazi Sezengqondo)
Manje kunanini ngaphambili, ukungafihli kukaTeigen ngezinselelo zakhe ezisondelene kakhulu empilweni kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo kwabesifazane yonke indawo ukuthi KULUNGILE ukuzizwa sengathi uyawa — noma ngabe umhlaba wakho ubonakala uhlanganiswe kangaka.