Izindlela eziyi-8 zokusiza ingane yakho ukuba inqobe amahloni

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• 1. Yazi imvelo
• 2. Ingxoxo ebheke emehlweni
• 3. Yiba nokubekezela
• 4. Ungalokhu uthi ingane inamahloni phambi kwakhe
• 5. Ukuqiniswa okuhle
• 6. Ungayivezi ingane ezimweni ezingazithandi
• 7. Gwema ukuzihlanganisa naye noma ukumdlalisa njalo
• 8. Gwema ukukhulumela ingane

Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zibe namahloni kakhulu lapho zibhekene nezimo ezintsha futhi, ikakhulukazi, lapho zikanye nabantu ezingabazi. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, akuyona yonke ingane enamahloni ezoba ngumuntu omdala onamahloni.

Lokho abazali abangakwenza ukusiza ingane yabo ukunqoba amahloni ukusebenzisa amasu athile alula angathola imiphumela emihle, efana:

1. Yazi imvelo

Ukuthatha ingane ivakashele isikole ezofunda kuso ngaphambi kokuba kuqale amakilasi kungasiza ekwehliseni ukukhathazeka, kwenze ingane izethembe kakhulu futhi ibe nesibindi sokukhuluma nabangane. Umbono omuhle ukubhalisa ingane esikoleni esifanayo nomuntu abamthandayo, njengomakhelwane noma isihlobo, isibonelo.

2. Ingxoxo ebheke emehlweni

Amehlo emehlweni akhombisa ukuzethemba futhi lapho abazali bekhuluma nezingane zabo, zihlala zibheke emehlweni, izingane zivame ukuphinda lokhu kuziphatha nabanye.

3. Yiba nokubekezela

Akukhona nje ukuthi ingane inamahloni, ukuthi izoba ngumuntu omdala onamahloni, okuye kwabonwa eminyakeni edlule ukuthi izingane ezinamahloni, lapho zifinyelela esigabeni sobusha nobusha, zivame ukukhululeka kakhulu.

4. Ungalokhu uthi ingane inamahloni phambi kwakhe

Lapho abazali benalesi simo sengqondo ingane ingacabanga ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngayo bese ihoxa ngokuqhubekayo.

5. Ukuqiniswa okuhle

Noma nini lapho ingane ikhululeka kakhulu futhi ingenamahloni, yazisa umzamo wakho bese umomotheka, umange noma usho okuthile okufana 'kahle kakhulu'.

6. Ungayivezi ingane ezimweni ezingazithandi

Ukuphoqa ingane ukuthi idanse esikoleni, ngokwesibonelo, kungakhulisa ukukhathazeka ezizwa ngakho futhi ingaqala nokukhala ngoba inamahloni futhi izizwa isongelwa.

7. Gwema ukuzihlanganisa naye noma ukumdlalisa njalo

Izimo ezinjengalezi zingenza ingane ithukuthele futhi noma nini lapho lesi simo siphindaphindwa ingane izokwethula ngokwengeziwe.

8. Gwema ukukhulumela ingane

Abazali kufanele bagweme ukuphendula izingane ngoba ngale ndlela abaziphatha ngayo abakhuthazwa ukuthi banqobe ukwesaba nezinhlupheko zabo futhi bathole isibindi sokukhuluma.

Amahloni akufanele athathwe njengesici, noma kunjalo, lapho iqala ukulimaza impilo yengane noma eyeve eshumini nambili, ukubonisana nodokotela bengqondo kungasiza ngoba lochwepheshe unolwazi lwamasu athile angasiza ukunqoba lobu bunzima, ukwenza ngcono izinga lakho lempilo.

Ezinye izinkomba zokuthi kungahle kube yisikhathi sokubona isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kulapho ingane ihlala yodwa noma ingenabo abangane futhi ihlale idabuke kakhulu. Ingxoxo enhle ekhululekile ingasiza ukucacisa ukuthi ngabe ingane idinga usizo lochwepheshe ngempela noma ngabe idlula esigabeni lapho igcinwe khona kakhulu.