Izinyathelo eziyi-8 zokunqoba amahloni unomphela

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• Unqoba kanjani amahloni emsebenzini
• Ungakunqoba kanjani ukuba namahloni ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu

Ukuzethemba wena futhi ungafuni ukuphelela yimithetho emibili ebaluleke kakhulu yokunqoba amahloni, isimo esivamile esithinta kakhulu izingane.

Imvamisa umuntu unamahloni lapho ezizwa edaluliwe futhi engaqiniseki ukuthi uzokwamukelwa noma ehluleka, lokhu kwenza ukuthi umuntu agweme ukukhuluma futhi uvinjelwe kakhulu ezimeni ezinjengokwethula kothile nokwethula umsebenzi esikoleni isibonelo.

Izinyathelo eziyi-8 ongazithatha ukuyeka ukuba namahloni futhi ube umuntu ozethembayo yile:

1. Yiba nethemba futhi uthuthukise ukucabanga okuhle;
2. Yiba nobungane ngokwengeziwe futhi uzame ukwenza abangane;
3. Bona, wamukele futhi ubhekane nokwesaba nokukhathazeka kwakho;
4. Ungazibukeli phansi;
5. Bheka abanye abantu emehlweni;
6. Musa ukufuna okungaka kuwe;
7. Zethembe;
8. Yazi amandla akho futhi uwasebenzise.

Ukuba namahloni kungakhawulela izinga lempilo, ikakhulukazi uma kubangela ukuhlupheka futhi kuthinta ubudlelwane bakho nomndeni wakho, abangane noma osebenza nabo. Ukwamukela lezi zindlela kungasiza kakhulu, kepha uma kungenzeki ukugcina le micabango nezimo zengqondo kusebenza, kungakhonjiswa ukuthi kufunwe usizo kudokotela wezengqondo noma kwengqondo.

Unqoba kanjani amahloni emsebenzini

Ukunqoba amahloni emsebenzini, amanye amathiphu umuntu angawalandela angaba:

• Khuluma futhi uhlanganyele nomunye umuntu osebenza naye ngesikhathi;
• Qala ngezingxoxo ezincane;
• Sondela kubantu osebenza nabo abavusa ukuzethemba okukhulu;
• Khombisa intshisekelo ekulaleleni nasekufundeni,
• Bamba iqhaza emidlalweni yeqembu nemisebenzi.

Emsebenzini, kubalulekile ukuthi lowo muntu angesabi ukuzifaka engcupheni futhi, ikakhulukazi, angakhokhisi imali engaka.

Ungakunqoba kanjani ukuba namahloni ekukhulumeni phambi kwabantu

Ukunqoba amahloni ekukhulumeni obala, amanye amasu angasiza njenge:

• Yazi kahle indaba ozoyichaza;
• Funda kahle lesi sihloko, ucabange imibuzo engabuzwa umphakathi;
• Hlela isethulo bese ubhala amagama abalulekile;
• Qeqesha ngaphambi kokwethulwa phambi kwesibuko bese ngemuva kwalokho phambi kwezithameli ezincane ezakhiwe ngabantu ozizwa ukhululekile phakathi kwabo;
• Qala isethulo ngokusho ihlaya noma indaba eheha iso;
• Yiba nepeni, incwadi noma amanothi ezandleni zakho bese uhambahamba esiteji ukuze ungakhombisi ukuthuthumela;
• Gxilisa amehlo akho kunoma yiliphi iphuzu ehholo, ngaphandle kokubheka noma ngubani ezilalelini;
• Khumbula ukuthi umphakathi awazi okuncane ngesihloko osethula.

Ngokuqeqeshwa kanye nobuningi bezethulo emphakathini, kungenzeka ukuthi uthole ukuzethemba futhi ulahlekelwe amahloni.

Kwezinye izimo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singabaluleka ukuze lowo muntu akwazi ukuqonda izimbangela zamahloni akhe futhi awunqobe.