Lezi zithandani zawa othandweni lapho zihlangana ukuze zidlale i-volleyball

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U-Cari, umkhangisi oneminyaka engu-25 ubudala, kanye noDaniel, uchwepheshe wezobuchwepheshe oneminyaka engu-34 ubudala, banokuningi abafana ngakho sishaqeka ngokuthi abazange bahlangane ngokushesha. Bobabili badabuka eVenezuela kepha manje sebeshayela iMiami ikhaya, babelana ngabangani abaningi abafanayo emphakathini wabo, futhi bobabili uthando ukudlala ezemidlalo. Kwakuyilolo thando lwezokusubatha olwagcina lubahlanganise lapho bobabili babhalisela i-Bvddy, uhlelo lokusebenza olunjenge-Tinder olwenzelwe ngqo ukuxhuma abantu ngemidlalo nangokuqina komzimba.

Ekuqaleni, ukusebenzisa uhlelo lokusebenza kwakufana nomdlalo. UCari uthi ushibilikise ngqo kubafana abaningi bezemidlalo, ethi ubengafuni nokuthandana kodwa umngani nje azodlala naye ivolibholi. Kodwa uDaniyeli washaywa ngaye ekuqaleni kokumbona.

"Ubenalesi sithombe sakhe nengwe encane ngase ngimthumelela umlayezo, 'Ngabe lokho kuyiqiniso?' Yebo, lokho bekuwumugqa wami wokuvula oshelelayo, ”kusho yena. "Wayemuhle."

Ngemuva kokuxoxa kuhlelo lokusebenza, bobabili banqume ukuhlangana usuku lokuqala, bajoyina umqhudelwano womphakathi wabantu ababili nababili epaki lendawo. "Imvamisa ngosuku lokuqala kufanele ubonise ubuwena obuhle kodwa empeleni lokhu bekuphambene," kuhleka uCari. "Bengingenawo umuthi wokuzilolonga, sonke bezijulukile, futhi besidlala nesigejane sabantu engingabazi-kodwa akuzange kube nzima."

"Ezemidlalo zisiza ukwenza ukuxhumana kwangempela phakathi kwabantu noCari futhi benginama-chemistry amaningi enkundleni," kusho uDaniel.

Kuhambe kahle kakhulu kangangokuba baya osukwini lwabo lwesibili ezinsukwini ezimbili nje kamuva, lapho uDaniel ecela uCari ukuthi abe usuku lwakhe lomshado. Lo mbhangqwana uchithe amahora uxoxa futhi uhleka, nokwazana.Ezinyangeni ezintathu kamuva, baba ngabakhethekile futhi bebelokhu bengahlukani kusukela ngaleso sikhathi.

Indlela yabo yokuphila esebenzayo iyingxenye enkulu yobudlelwano babo. Badlala ezemidlalo ngabodwana ndawonye (i-volleyball iseyintandokazi yabo) futhi bathanda ukwabelana ngothando lwabo lokufaneleka komunye nomunye. Lolo thando luveza izinhlangothi zabo zokuncintisana, okuvame ukuholela ekuthambekeni nasenkantolo, kusho uCari.

"Sifuna okuhle kakhulu futhi siyasekelana kunoma yini esiyenzayo," kusho uCari, enezela ngokuthi lokhu kuzwana kokuhloniphana nokusekelana kunikeza isisekelo esiqinile sobudlelwano babo.

Lezi zithandani sezihlangene izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye manje futhi usuku ngalunye lungcono kunezolo. Lisiphatheleni ikusasa? Abaqiniseki ngaphandle kokuthi bayazi ukuthi kuzobandakanya ibhola lezinyawo eliningi, i-volleyball, ne-sweat-iresiphi yabo ephelele yothando.

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