#CoverUmsubathi Ulwa Nocansi Emibikweni Yezemidlalo

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Uma kukhulunywa ngabasubathi besifazane imvamisa kubukeka sengathi “owesifazane” nguyena ohamba phambili kunomsubathi - ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngezintatheli eziphatha inkundla njengokhaphethi obomvu. Lo mkhuba wokubuza abasubathi ngesisindo sabo, izingubo zokugqoka, izinwele, noma impilo yothando ufike eqophelweni elibucayi ku-Australian Open yalo nyaka. Umdlali wethenisi waseCanada u-Eugenie Bouchard ucelwe ukuthi "asinike i-twirl futhi "usitshele ngempahla yakho." Bekuwukucwasa ngobulili kakhulu. Abantu yonke indawo bawuhlubukile umbono wokuthi umdlali wethenisi ohamba phambili wama-48 emhlabeni uncishisiwe ukukhuluma ngesiketi sakhe esifushane. .

Ukuphendula i- # twirlgate (yilokho okwakubizwa ngakho!), Umkhankaso we- #covertheathlete wazalelwa ukukhuthaza abezindaba ukuthi bahlanganise abasubathi besifazane ngenhlonipho efanayo yobungcweti njengabesilisa. Ukufakazela iphuzu labo ngokungafani okukhulu kobulili ekuhlanganisweni kwezemidlalo, umkhankaso wakhiqiza ividiyo yokulingisa. Kugqamisa ubulili bezinhlobo zale mibuzo ngokubabuza abasubathi besilisa. Umbhukudi wama-Olympic uMichael Phelps, isibonelo, "ubuzwa" yintatheli, "Ukususa izinwele zomzimba wakho kukunika unqenqema echibini, kodwa kuthiwani ngempilo yakho yothando?" lapho ehleka futhi ebukeka engakholwa. Ezinye izihlabani zemidlalo besilisa zibuzwa imibuzo mayelana "nezinwele zezigqoko", "isibalo samantombazane", isisindo, umfaniswano oshelelayo, futhi omunye umhlaziyi webhola uze wengeze ngokuthi, "Kazi ukuthi ubaba wakhe wambekela eceleni esemncane futhi wamtshela ukuthi 'Wena' awusoze waba umbukeli, awusoze waba yi-Beckham, ngakho-ke kuzofanele unxephezele lokho '? "

Kuyahlekisa uze ubone ukuthi lena yimibuzo abasubathi besifazane ababuzwa yona konke. i. isikhathi. Okubi nakakhulu, kulindeleke ukuthi baziphendule noma bazibeke engozini yokubizwa ngokuthi bayabanda noma bayaluma.

"Ukuphawula ngokobulili, imibuzo yezingxoxo ezingafanelekile, kanye nezindatshana eziphawula ngokubukeka komzimba akugcini nje ngokuthatha kancane okufeziwe ngowesifazane, kepha futhi kuthumela umyalezo wokuthi ukubaluleka kowesifazane kusekelwe ekubukekeni kwakhe, hhayi ekhonweni lakhe - futhi kuvame kakhulu," iwebhusayithi yomkhankaso kuchaza. "Sekuyisikhathi sokufuna ukusakazwa kwabezindaba okugxile kumsubathi nendlela adlale ngayo, hhayi izinwele, izingubo noma umzimba wakhe."

Ufuna ukusiza? (Siqinisekile ukwenza kanjalo!) Lo mkhankaso ucela wonke umuntu, abesilisa nabesifazane, ukuthi axhumane nenethiwekhi yabo yabezindaba yendawo ngomlayezo othi: "Uma ubhala ngomsubathi wesifazane, sifuna ukuthi umboze ukusebenza namandla akhe."

Singayithola i- Amen? Cishe sekuyisikhathi sokuthi laba basubathi abamangalisayo bathole udumo ngalokho abakwenzayo, hhayi ukuthi babukeka kanjani. (Bheka lezi zikhathi zezemidlalo ezingu-20 ezivelele ezihlanganisa abasubathi besifazane.)

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