U-Erin Andrews Uvula Okuphathelene Nokuhamba Ngomjikelezo Wakhe Wesikhombisa we-IVF

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U-Erin Andrews ukhulume ngokungananazi ngoLwesithathu ngohambo lwakhe lokuzala, eveza ukuthi usezokwelashwa ngomzuliswano wesikhombisa we-IVF (in vitro fertilization).

Endabeni enamandla okwabelwana ngayo Umbiko, Intatheli eseceleni kweFox Sports, 43, obeselashwa kusukela eneminyaka engama-35, uthe ufuna ukuvula ulwazi lwakhe, aqaphele ukuthi baningi ababhekana "nenqubo yokudla isikhathi nengcolisa imizwa," futhi " akukhulunywa ngakho." (Okuhlobene: Ingabe Izindleko Eziphezulu ze-IVF Yabesifazane BaseMelika Zidinga Ngempela?)

"Manje ngineminyaka engu-43, ngakho-ke umzimba wami usondelene nami," wabelane ngo-Andrews ku-Bulletin. "Sekunesikhathi ngizama ukwenza ukwelashwa kwe-IVF, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi akuhambi ngendlela ofisa ngayo. Umzimba wakho awukuvumeli."

"Yonke imijikelezo ihlukile emzimbeni wesifazane, ngakho-ke izinyanga ezithile zingcono kunezinye," kuqhuba u-Andrews, oshade nomdlali we-NHL osethathe umhlalaphansi u-Jarret Stoll kusukela ngo-2017. "Lapho ngizwa ukuthi lesi yisikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokudlula okunye ukwelashwa, Bekufanele ngiphinde ngikuqonde futhi.Ngizoyilungisa kanjani le mpatho phezu kohlelo lwami lomsebenzi? Ngicindezeleke kakhulu.Lapho lokhu kwenzeka, kukwenza uzibuze: ingabe ikusasa lomndeni wami noma umsebenzi wami? "

Intatheli yesikhathi eside eseceleni, u-Andrews uvame ukumboza imidlalo emikhulu yeviki ye-NFL, okuhlanganisa ne-Super Bowl. Kepha njengoba u-Andrews abelane ngoLwesithathu, ukholelwa ukuthi embonini yakhe, "abesifazane bazizwa benesidingo sokugcina izinto ezinje zithule." "Kujwayelekile ukuthi abantu baqala imindeni sekwephuzile futhi bazibekele ezinye izinto eziningi ezimpilweni zabo," kubhala yena. "Ngithathe isinqumo sokuthi kulokhu ngizovuleleka kubadidiyeli bami mayelana nokuthi ngifike emsebenzini ngemuva kwesikhathi esincane kunokujwayelekile ngoba bengiya emihlanganweni yokuzala yansuku zonke. Futhi ngiyabonga ukuthi ngikwenzile lokho."

U-Andrews wengeze ngoLwesithathu ukuthi "akanamahloni" futhi ufuna ukuba "ozwakalayo futhi othembekile" ngale nqubo, athe ingadala umthwalo emzimbeni nasengqondweni. "Uzizwa sengathi u-s-t. Uzizwa uqunjelwe futhi une-hormone isonto nesigamu. Ungadlula kukho konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho futhi ungatholi lutho kukho - leyo ngxenye yokuhlanya. Ithani lemali, ithoni isikhathi, kuwukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo nomzimba. Futhi izikhathi ezingaphezu kwalokho, abaphumeleli. Ngicabanga ukuthi yingakho abantu abaningi bekhetha ukuthula ngakho, "kuqhuba yena. (Okuhlobene: Izindleko Eziphezulu Zokungazali: Abesifazane Basengozini Yokuqothuka Kwengane)

I-IVF ngokwayo iwukwelapha okuhilela ukukhipha amaqanda kuma-ovari, ukuwafaka ngesidoda elebhu ngaphambi kokufaka umbungu ovundisiwe esibelethweni sowesifazane, ngokusho kwe-American Pregnancy Association. Umjikelezo owodwa ogcwele we-IVF uthatha cishe amasonto amathathu, ngokusho kweMayo Clinic, futhi cishe ezinsukwini eziyi-12 kuya kweziyi-14 ngemuva kokutholwa kweqanda, udokotela angahlola isampula segazi ukuthola ukukhulelwa. Amathuba okubeletha ingane ephile kahle ngemva kokusebenzisa i-IVF ancike ezicini ezinjengobudala, umlando wokuzala, izici zokuphila (okungahlanganisa ukubhema, utshwala, noma i-caffeine eyeqile), ngokusho kweMayo Clinic, kanye nesimo sombungu (imibungu). ezibhekwa njengezithuthuke kakhulu zihlotshaniswa nokukhulelwa okuphezulu uma kuqhathaniswa nokungakhulanga kahle).

U-Andrews uphinde waveza ngoLwesithathu ukuthi ulangazelela ukushintsha ingxoxo nge-IVF ngoba ekugcineni kosuku, "ngeke wazi ukuthi ubani omunye obhekene nayo." Esikhundleni sokuba namahloni, sidinga ukuzinika uthando olwengeziwe, "wabhala.

Ephendula umyalezo wakhe othinta inhliziyo ngoLwesithathu, u-Andrews - ophinde abe nomdlavuza womlomo wesibeletho - uthole imiyalezo yokwesekwa evela kubafundi, bembonga ngokuvuleleka kwakhe. "Lokhu kuyamangalisa ngempela. Sikufisela inhlanhla enkulu futhi ngiyabonga ngokuhlanganyela," kubhala omunye umfundi, kanti omunye wathi, "Ngijabule kakhulu ukuthi wabelana ngohambo lwakho, luzosiza abanye abaningi ababhekene nalo."

Yize uhambo lwe-IVF "lungahluka kakhulu," njengoba u-Andrews abhala, ukuvuleka kwakhe kungenza abanye abadonsa kanzima bazizwe bengabodwa.

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