Ingxoxo Yabesifazane Okuwukuphela Kwezinwele Abake Badinge Ukuyifunda

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• Umlando wokususwa kwezinwele zomzimba
• Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, uGillette wenza insingo yabesifazane ebizwa ngokuthi uMilady Décolleté
• Okushiwo abesifazane abangu-10 ngezinwele zabo zomzimba, ukuzisusa, izinhlamba, kanye nabo uqobo
• Ukuthi izinwele zomzimba zithinta kanjani izenzo zabo nokuxhumana kwabo nabanye
• Ekususeni izinwele zomzimba
• Endleleni oyithandayo yokususwa kwezinwele zomzimba
• Endleleni izinwele zomzimba zivezwa kwabezindaba kanye nenhlamba ezungezile
• Kubudlelwano phakathi kwezinwele zomzimba nobufazi babo
• Ukuthi bake baba nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle okubangelwe yizinwele zomzimba
• Futhi lapho unayo, ukubuka izinwele zomzimba kuyinkimbinkimbi njengoba kulula

Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi sishintshe indlela esizizwa ngayo ngezinwele zomzimba - ukungalingani kanye nokwesaba ukuphela kwempendulo eyamukelekayo.

Ngunyaka we-2018 futhi ngokokuqala ngqa, kukhona izinwele zomzimba zangempela ku-razor yokuhweba yabesifazane. Kwenzekeni kuyo yonke imilenze engenaboya, amakhwapha abushelelezi, kanye nolayini be-bikini 'abenziwe kahle'?

Hhayi-ke, lezi zikhangiso zisekhona (njengoba nje kusenziwa izikhangiso eziyimibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka), kodwa isithombe sangempela somzimba silungile ekhoneni, futhi silapha isikhathi lapho konke imizimba iyaziswa.

“Akekho onezinwele zomzimba kwabezindaba. Ukhula ucabanga ukuthi kuyinto evamile futhi ifinyeleleka kalula. ”

Ngemuva kokuthi sidalule ubusha besikhangiso sikaBillie, saphinde sazibuza: Izinwele zomzimba zisilolonge kanjani futhi kungani ziletha ukusabela okunje okuvela kubantu?

Mhlawumbe impendulo, njengezimpendulo eziningi zamasiko, isemlandweni - ukususwa kwezinwele zomzimba kungalandelwa emuva amakhulu eminyaka.

Umlando wokususwa kwezinwele zomzimba

Ngokwe-Women’s Museum of California, ukususwa kwezinwele e-Ancient Rome kwakuvame ukubonwa njengokuhlonza isimo. Abesifazane abacebile bangathola izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokususa izinwele zomzimba wabo, kufaka phakathi nokusebenzisa amatshe e-pumice.

Ithuluzi lokuqala lokushefa eliphephe kakhulu lenziwa ngo-1769 ngumgundi waseFrance uJean-Jacques Perret. Leli thuluzi lokuqala lokususa izinwele lacolisiswa ngokwengeziwe eminyakeni edlule ngomzamo wokwenza insimbi ephephile ezosetshenziswa ngabantu. UWilliam Henson wengeze umnikelo wakhe ngokwakha insingo “emise okwegabade”, umklamo iningi lethu eliwaziyo namuhla.

Imiphumela kaFahs iveze ukuthi iningi labesifazane linengekile ngomqondo wezinwele zomzimba, zombili ezabo kanye nomqondo wokuthi abanye besifazane bavumele izinwele zabo zikhule.

Kodwa-ke, kwaze kwaba yilapho umthengisi ojikelezayo ogama lakhe linguKing Camp Gillette ehlanganisa ukwakheka kwensingo kaHenson nesifiso sakhe sokwenza ukushefa kube lula lapho kwaqala khona insimbi yokuqala esikahle esikahle esikahle ngo-1901.

Lokhu kusisuse ngempumelelo isidingo sokucija izindwani zokushefa ngemuva kokushefa ngakunye futhi kungenzeka kunciphise namathuba okucasuka kwesikhumba.

Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, uGillette wenza insingo yabesifazane ebizwa ngokuthi uMilady Décolleté

Lokhu kukhishwa okusha okunomusa kwabesifazane kanye noshintsho olusheshayo emfashini yabesifazane - iziqongo ezingenamikhono, iziketi ezimfushane, nezingubo zasehlobo - kube nomthelela kubantu besifazane abaningi abasusa izinwele ezikhula emilenzeni nasemikhwapheni.

Ngawo-1960s, eminye iminyakazo - imvamisa eyimvubu noma eyomuntu wesifazane - yakhuthaza ukubukeka “kwemvelo” ngokwengeziwe, kepha iningi labesifazane bangaleso sikhathi babekhetha ukususwa kwezinwele nomaphi lapho babona kufanele khona.

Eminyakeni edlule, isiko le-pop kanye nabezindaba bakhuthaze lo mkhuba ongenazinwele njengezinga elamukelekayo ngokukhombisa njalo imizimba ebushelelezi ngokuphelele.

“Ngikubeka kucace kwabesifazane engithandana nabo ukuthi ngiyazithanda izinwele zomzimba. Ngami. Kubo. Empeleni kuyangivulela. ”

Ocwaningweni lwango-2013, isazi uBreanne Fahs senze izivivinyo ezimbili ezungeze abesifazane kanye nobudlelwano babo nezinwele zomzimba, ikakhulukazi lokho abakucabangayo ngoboya.

Imiphumela kaFahs iveze ukuthi iningi labesifazane linengekile ngomqondo wezinwele zomzimba, zombili ezabo kanye nomqondo wokuthi abanye besifazane bavumele izinwele zabo zikhule.

Ingxenye yesibili yocwaningo lukaFahs yaphonsela inselelo ababambiqhaza ukuthi bavumele izinwele zabo zomzimba zikhule amasonto ayi-10 futhi bagcine iphephabhuku mayelana nesipiliyoni. Imiphumela iveze ukuthi abesifazane ababambe iqhaza babecabanga ngokweqile ngezinwele zabo zomzimba futhi benqaba nokusebenzisana nabanye ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa.

Futhi njengoFahs, nathi sasihlaba umxhwele ubudlelwano phakathi kwalabo abakhomba ubufazi nobudlelwano babo nezinwele zomzimba, ngakho-ke nathi senza ucwaningo lwethu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ekugcineni kosuku, kuyintandokazi yomuntu siqu.

Okushiwo abesifazane abangu-10 ngezinwele zabo zomzimba, ukuzisusa, izinhlamba, kanye nabo uqobo

Ukuthi izinwele zomzimba zithinta kanjani izenzo zabo nokuxhumana kwabo nabanye

“Lapho ngiqala ukuthandana nothile, ngiyaqikelela ukwenza izinwele zomzimba wami zibonakale. Uma esabela kabi, khona-ke ngiyayeka ubudlelwane naye. Lapho senza ucansi okokuqala, nami ngilinganisa ukusabela kwakhe; ukunganaki nokwesaba ukuphela kwendlela eyamukelekayo yokusabela. ”

“Ngizama ukufihla umzimba wami ngangokunokwenzeka uma nginezinwele. Ehlobo kunzima kakhulu ukushefa njalo futhi ngisale kakhulu ngoba ngibe nengane ngakho-ke ngigcina nginamateyi amade noma amabhulukwe amade kakhulu kunalokho okufanele ngikwenze! ”

"Bengijwayele uku njalo i-wax / i-Nair ngenkathi nginabalingani abasha, kepha manje anginandaba. Nakanjani ngisalahla izinwele zangaphansi zokuhamba ngingenamikhono, ikakhulukazi emsebenzini nasezilungiselweni ezihlelekile. Ngizizwa ngicindezelekile ukwenza njalo futhi ngikhathele kakhulu ukukholisa abantu ukuthi umzimba wami ngempela okwami kulezi zikhala. ”

“Akunjalo. Okungenani hhayi njengamanje. Yinto yami. ”

“Ngisho okuncane nje. Ngikubeka kucace kwabesifazane engithandana nabo ukuthi ngiyazithanda izinwele zomzimba. Ngami. Kubo. Empeleni kuyangivulela. ”

“Ngingagwema izingubo ezingenamikhono uma izinwele zami zangaphansi zinde kakhulu. Konke okunye kuyefana. ”

Ekususeni izinwele zomzimba

“Angigundi isitho sami sangasese - ngaphandle kokunquma ukutholakala kalula ngesikhathi socansi - futhi ngivame ukushefa amakhwapha. Angizenzi lezi zinto ngoba 1. ziyadina futhi zidla isikhathi; 2. uma amadoda engadingi ukukwenza, kungani kufanele ngikwenze; futhi 3. Ngiyayithanda indlela umzimba wami obukeka futhi uzizwe ngayo ngezinwele. ”

"Yebo, kepha 'njalo' kuyigama elixekethile. Ngikwenza lapho ngikhumbula ukukwenza noma uma kuzodingeka kimi ukukhombisa ingxenye ethile yomzimba wami. Nginezinwele zomlenze ezinhle futhi ezingajwayelekile ngakho-ke ngivame ukukhohlwa ukuzisusa ngize ngibone izinwele ezinde ezihlazisayo. Ngijwayele ukususa izinwele ngaphansi kwezingalo zami. "

“Yebo, oh ubuhle bami yebo. Kusukela ekukhulelweni izinwele zami seziqala ukuza ngokuqhubekayo futhi zishesha! Angikwazi ukubhekana nakho konke ukukhula kwezinwele okunenkani nokujiyile. "

"Sekuwumkhuba futhi ngijwayele umzimba wami ongenaboya kakhulu."

“Angizisusi njalo izinwele zami. Ngiphendukela ekushefeni izinkantshane zami kuphela lapho ngingeke ngiyeke ukuzidlalela ngazo. ”

Endleleni oyithandayo yokususwa kwezinwele zomzimba

“Bengihlala ngisebenzisa insingo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngiziswe kule ndlela kuphela futhi kubonakala ngathi iyangisebenzela. Kusukela lapho ngifunde ukuthi yimaphi ama-blade asebenza kahle nokuthi ngisinakekela kanjani kangcono isikhumba sami. Ngikucabangele uku-waxing kodwa kubonakala kungena kabuhlungu futhi kubuhlungu. Ngishefa izikhathi eziningana ngesonto. Kungenzeka sikhathazeke ngakho. ”

"Ngincamela ukukhipha izinwele zamakhemikhali ngoba ukushefa nokufaka i-wax kunomthelela omubi esikhunjeni sami esibucayi."

“Ngithanda ukukhipha i-wax nokusebenzisa iNair. Ukuyekethisa ngoba akudingeki ngikwenze kaningi futhi ngisebenzisa uNair uma kwenzeka ‘kunezimo eziphuthumayo zasekhaya.’ Ngisusa izinwele kancane kakhulu kunakuqala ngoba sezingikhathaza manje. ”

“Ukushefa. Yindlela kuphela engizame ngayo kuze kube manje. Njalo emavikini amathathu kuya kwamane ngamakhwapha uma ngingalivakasheli ibhishi ngaphambi kwalokho. Angikaze ngibheke ukuthi ngivame ukulinda isikhathi esingakanani phakathi kokwenza umugqa wami webhayisikili futhi angizigundi izinyawo zami. ”

Endleleni izinwele zomzimba zivezwa kwabezindaba kanye nenhlamba ezungezile

“Yizinkunzi-t. Umzimba wami wenziwe ngokoqobo ngazo zonke lezi zinwele kuwo, kungani kufanele ngichithe isikhathi ngiwususa lapho ungangifaki engozini? Angingqongqozi noma ngiphoxe noma yimuphi umuntu owenza lokho, kunjalo, kepha mina uqobo ngicabanga ukuthi ingcindezi yezenhlalo kwabesifazane yokuthi basuse izinwele ingenye yezindlela zokuzama ukumenza umntanakhe amenze ahambisane nezinga lobuhle amadoda angazenzi kufanele ngilandele. ”

“Sinezinkinga ndoda. Ngizothi ngiphethe ezinye zalezi zinhlamba futhi kuyangihlupha. Isibonelo, ngicabanga ukuthi abesifazane (nabesilisa) abanezinwele ezingekho ngaphansi kwesikhwama banenhlanzeko encane (nabesifazane besifazane abashisa ubhodisi). Futhi ngenkathi ngazi ukuthi lokhu kungamanga ngokuphelele, umcabango wami wokuqala uhlala lapho. ”

“Akekho onezinwele zomzimba kwabezindaba. Ukhula ucabanga ukuthi lokho kujwayelekile futhi kufinyeleleka kalula. Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngikhule ngesikhathi sokumakethwa kwensingo yabesifazane - ngicabanga ukuthi insingo yeVenus yaphuma ekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-2000 kwathi ngokungazelelwe wonke umuntu wakudinga ukuba nayo. Kepha ubudinga nanoma yiliphi iphunga elisha sha lokhilimu okushefa eliphumile. Ngaleso sikhathi, ngicabanga ukuthi bekuzwakala kuyindlela 'yokwenza isimanje' ukususwa kwezinwele kule millennium entsha (akukhona ukushefa kukamama wakho nakho konke), kodwa manje kuyacaca ukuthi bebefuna nje ukuthi sithenge imikhiqizo eminingi. "

“Ziyakhandla futhi ziyabiza. Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, kufanele sidedele abesifazane baphile ngendlela abafuna ngayo. ”

“Kumele siyeke ukubhekisisa ukuthi abantu benzani ngemizimba yabo noma ukuthi bagcina izinwele ezingakanani kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yemizimba yabo. Ngicabanga ukuthi abezindaba benze amagxathu athile ekusukeleni phambili ukucwaswa okuhambisana nezinwele zomzimba. Imibhalo ibhalwa ngokuqiniseka kwezinwele zomzimba futhi lokho kuyamangalisa. ”

Kubudlelwano phakathi kwezinwele zomzimba nobufazi babo

“Ngicabanga ukuthi abantu kumele benze abakuthandayo. Ukuba ngowesifazane akufanele kuhambisane nokuba nezinwele. ”

“Kuhlangene nobufazi bami, yize ngingazi ukuthi bengizokusho lokho phambilini. I-feminism yinkululeko yokuzikhethela nokuzichaza ngokwakho. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukulindeleka komphakathi ekususweni kwezinwele zomzimba kungenye indlela ukubukeka nemizimba yabesifazane okulawulwa ngayo, ngakho-ke ngiyaphikisana nakho. ”

“Izinwele zami zomzimba azinendaba kangako nobufazi bami ngoba, yize zixhumene ngqo nokuzimela komzimba, akuyona ingxenye enkulu yalokho okungadlala enkululekweni yami futhi kulwele ukuqeda ubukhokho. Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu besifazane futhi ngiyaweseka noma yimuphi umsebenzi wokuqeda imibono engemihle esinayo ngomzimba. ”

“Ngokwami, angikwenzi lokho kuxhumana. Angicabangi ukuthi ngiyoke ngibe njalo. Mhlawumbe ngoba angibekwanga ethubeni lokuthi ngicabange ngokucophelela ngezinqumo engizenzayo ngezinwele zomzimba wami. ”

"Yize kungaba kuhle ukungazizwa ungakhululekile entanjeni yebhande le-spaghetti elinamakhwapha anoboya, akuyona lapho ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele sigxile empini yokulingana."

“Angazi noma ngingahlanganisa izinwele zomzimba wami nobufazi bami, kodwa ngicabanga ngentela ephinki nokuthi imikhiqizo ithengiswa kanjani kimi. Ngoba ngicishe ngibe yiNair kuphela futhi ngisebenzisa insingo yamadoda (ama-blade amane = ukushefa okuseduze) lapho ngishefa, angidingi njalo ukwehla kulowo mgwaqo esitolo. Kepha uma ngenza njalo, ngishaywa kakhulu yindlela konke okwenziwe ngayo. Imikhiqizo ibukeka yenzelwe ukuheha okubonakalayo (eshalofini naseshaweni) ngaphezu kokuthi isebenza kahle kangakanani. ”

Ukuthi bake baba nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle okubangelwe yizinwele zomzimba

“Yebo. Njengomuntu osemusha uhlala uhlekiswa ngakho konke. Ukuhlekiswa ngobumnyama (besikhumba) obuncane kwakungukuphila noma ukufa. [Kepha futhi kuya ngokuthi uhlala kuphi, lapho ukucwaswa okungekuhle ngezinwele kungokwabesifazane. Bengihlala [eLos Angeles] futhi wonke umuntu ugcinwe kahle. Manje njengoba ngiseSeattle, akuyona into enkulu ukuthi ubani onezinwele emzimbeni wakhe! ”

"Akunjalo Empeleni. Ngifunde kuphela ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezingabambi ukushisa noma umswakama ngoba lokho, kuhlangene ne-'Afro 'yami kuvame ukunginika izinduna ze-folliculitis. "

"Kwesinye isikhathi ngeke ngithumele isithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngoba kunezinwele zomzimba ezibonakalayo kuso."

Futhi lapho unayo, ukubuka izinwele zomzimba kuyinkimbinkimbi njengoba kulula

Njengoba omunye wabesifazane esikhulume nabo ngobuhle kakhulu wakubeka: “Kungiphatha kabi kakhulu lapho abesifazane behlazisa abanye besifazane ngalokhu. […] Ngiyakholelwa kwinkululeko yokuzikhethela. Engikukhethayo ukungasusi izinwele emzimbeni wami ngoba ngiyazithanda lapho zikhona. ”

Ukususa izinwele zomzimba wakho noma ukuziyeka zikhule akudingeki kube isitatimende, kodwa kukhona - futhi njengesikhangiso sokuqala somzimba sezinwele sango-2018, kufanele sikuvume ngokusobala lokho.

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