Abantu Bakha Kanjani Umbono Wokuqala?

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• Yiziphi izici ekubonakaleni kokuqala?
• Umbono wokuqala wenziwa ngokushesha okungakanani?
• Ingabe okuvelayo kokuqala kunembile?
• Ukuthatha

Ukubuka konke

Kaningi kunokugibela okuningi ukuthi uqala kanjani ukuziveza komunye umuntu. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abesilisa abahle futhi abade bavame ukuthola amaholo aphezulu kunamadoda angakhangi kangako, amafushane.

Olunye ucwaningo luthole ukuthi abantu abakhangayo ngokomzimba kulindeleke ukuthi babe nentshisekelo, bafudumale, baphume, futhi babe namakhono kwezenhlalo kunabantu abangakhangi kangako.

Izihambi nazo zibonakala zingabantu abakhangayo ngokomzimba, ngokusho kwabaphenyi abacwaninga isayensi yokuqomisana nokuheha. Ososayensi bathole nokuthi abantu abadala abanobuso obuzungezile “bobuso bengane” babonwa njengabantu abanobuhlakani, abanomusa, abafudumele nabathembekile kunabantu abanobuso obucijile noma obunama-angular.

Ngakho-ke, kubonakala sengathi uma kukhulunywa ngokuvela kokuqala, ukubukeka okuhle kunomvuzo omkhulu. Kepha ukubukeka kukuhle yonke into ngempela?

Yiziphi izici ekubonakaleni kokuqala?

Kokunye ukuhlola, ososayensi bathola ukuthi okuvelayo kokuqala kuthonywa kakhulu ukuxhumana okungenamlomo kanye nokushukuma komzimba. Bathole ukuthi okokugqoka, izitayela zezinwele, izesekeli, nezinye izici zokubukeka kwangaphandle komuntu zinomthelela obonakala umncane ekubukeni kokuqala.

Kodwa-ke, ososayensi bayavuma ukuthi kunzima ukukala ngokwesayensi noma ukuhlola okuvelayo kokuqala, ngoba izinto ezingena ekufuneni komphakathi zisebenza kakhulu.

Olunye ucwaningo lososayensi luphinde lusekele umbono wokuthi izinkomba zobuso nolimi lomzimba kunemiphumela enamandla kakhulu ekubonakaleni kokuqala. Bazimisele ukuthi abantu abaveza imizwa yabo ngokuqinile - ngesimo sobuso babo nangokushukuma komzimba, isibonelo, bathandwa kangcono kunabantu abangazwakali kangako.

Ngakho-ke, kubonakala sengathi ukuveza nje - ikakhulukazi ukukhombisa imizwa emihle efana nenjabulo nenjabulo - kungenza umbono omuhle wokuqala. Le mizwa ingakhonjiswa ngokuma komzimba, ukuma komzimba, ukuxhumana kwamehlo, ithoni yezwi, ukuma komlomo, nokuma kweshiya.

Umbono wokuqala wenziwa ngokushesha okungakanani?

Ngokusho kososayensi, umuntu uqala ukwakha ukubonakala komuntu ngemuva kokubona ubuso bakhe ngaphansi kwengxenye eyodwa kweziyishumi zomzuzwana. Ngaleso sikhathi, sithatha isinqumo sokuthi ngabe lo muntu uyathandeka noma cha, unokwethenjelwa, unekhono, unechuku, noma uyingqwele.

Ngakho-ke, okuvelayo kokuqala kwenziwa ngokushesha okukhulu. Abanye ososayensi bathi zenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu ukuze zinembe kakhulu. Kunemibono eyeqisayo abantu abayazihlanganisa nezici ezithile zomzimba, futhi lezi zinkolelo-ze zingathinta kakhulu umbono wokuqala.

Isibonelo: Abezombusazwe abakhanga kakhulu futhi abahlanganisiwe bavame ukubhekwa njengabanekhono. Amasosha abonakala ebucayi futhi elukhuni azotolikwa njengaphezulu kakhulu futhi angahle abekwe ezingeni eliphakeme ngokususelwa kokunye ukubukeka kwabo.

Uma kukhulunywa ngobuso nokuvela kokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ubuso buyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu.Abantu sebenake kakhulu ngisho nezinguquko ezincane noma ukwehluka ekubukekeni kobuso. Inkulumo enhle ne-rounder, izici zesifazane ezengeziwe zenza ubuso bubonakale bunokwethenjelwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inkulumo engeyinhle nokubukeka okunzima, kobudoda kuvame ukwenza ubuso bubukeke bungethembeki kangako.

Ingabe okuvelayo kokuqala kunembile?

Ezinye izici zobuso zihlotshaniswa nokunye okuvelayo, kufaka phakathi ukubusa, ukuphuma, amandla, nokusongela. Futhi lezi zici zithinta ngokushesha ukuthi siqala kanjani ukuphatha omunye umuntu.

Ukuthi okuvelayo kokuqala kuyithinta kanjani impilo yomuntu kuya ngesimo lapho ukubukeka kwabo kufakwa khona. Isibonelo, indoda yamasosha kungenzeka ifune ukubonwa njengonamandla ngenkathi uthisha wasenkulisa mhlawumbe engeke.

Ngokuya ngesayensi, akumangazi ukuthi abantu bafaka isisindo esingaka ebusweni. Lapho siseyizinsana, izinto esizibheka kakhulu ubuso babantu abasizungezile. Sonke lesi sikhathi ukubheka ubuso kuholela ekwakhiweni kokuqashelwa kobuso namakhono wokuqashelwa kobuso nobuso.

Lawa makghono enzelwe ukusisiza sifunde izingqondo zabanye, sixhumane nabanye, futhi siqondise izenzo zethu nabanye izimo ezingokomzwelo - hhayi ukwehlulela ngesimo somunye umuntu.

Ngakho-ke, okuvelayo kokuqala okususelwe kubuso nokubukeka kunamaphutha ngokwemvelo, ngoba kusekelwe kokuchema esikuthuthukisayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Isibonelo, umuntu angahle “abukeke” esho, kepha angaba muhle ngokwedlulele. Umbono wokuqala awukwazi ukubona ubuhle ngemuva kokubukeka okushoyo.

Ukuthatha

Ngenkathi isayensi iphakamisa ukwehlulela ngokuya ngezincazelo zabanye nokubukeka kuyindlela engeyona enembile yokuqonda umuntu, okuvelayo kokuqala akusuki maduze. Futhi ukwenza umbono omuhle wokuqala kungaba nezinzuzo ezinkulu: abangani abaningi, uzakwethu omuhle, ukukhokhelwa okungcono, nezinye izinzuzo.

Ngokuya ngesayensi yokubonakala kokuqala, nazi izeluleko zokubeka unyawo lwakho phambili phambili:

• gcina isimo sakho sobuso sithambile futhi sifudumele
• ukumamatheka futhi uphumule imisipha yakho yobuso
• unganciphisi amashiya akho ukuze ugweme ukubukeka uthukuthele
• gcina ukuma komzimba wakho kukhululekile futhi kumile
• gcina iso lapho ubonana noma ukhuluma nomunye umuntu
• gqoka izingubo ezihlanzekile, ezifanele futhi ezifanelekile
• qiniseka ukuthi izinwele zakho, izandla, nomzimba wakho zigeziwe futhi zakhiwe kahle
• khuluma ngezwi elicacile nelifudumele

Lapho uhlangana nomuntu omusha, leyo mizuzwana embalwa yokuqala nemizuzu kubaluleke ngempela. Ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuthi ungenza kanjani umbono omuhle wokuqala.