UHalsey Uthi Ukhathele Abantu “Abenza Amaphoyisa” Ngendlela Akhuluma Ngayo Ngempilo Yengqondo

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Lapho osaziwayo bekhuluma ngempilo yengqondo, ukwenza kwabo izinto obala kusiza abanye bazizwe besekelwa futhi bengenzi bodwa kulokho okungenzeka babhekene nakho. Kodwa ukuba sengozini ngempilo yengqondo kusho futhi ukuvuleka ithuba lokubhekisiswa okungenzeka—into uHalsey athi uhlangabezane nayo kusukela ekhiphe i-albhamu yakhe yakamuva ethi "Manic."

I-ICYDK, lo mculi ubelokhu evulelekile kubalandeli iminyaka eminingi mayelana nolwazi abanalo nge-bipolar disorder, ukugula okucindezelayo okubonakala ngezinguquko "ezingavamile" kumazinga emizwelo, amandla, kanye nokusebenza, ngokusho kweNational Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Eqinisweni, usanda kutshela Itshe eligingqikayo ukuthi i-albhamu yakhe entsha ngeyokuqala ayibhalile ngenkathi "manic" (yingakho isihloko se-albhamu).Lo mculi uphinde wabelana nencwadi ukuthi uqokelwe ukuzibulala esibhedlela eminyakeni emibili edlule ukusiza ukuphatha impilo yakhe yengqondo.

Ukuvuleleka kukaHalsey ngokuba nesifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuguquguqukayo kucaca ngokusobala kubantu. Kodwa ochungechungeni lwakamuva lwezindaba ze-Instagram, lo mculi "Wethuna" uthe ukungagunci kwabo kuholele nakwabanye abantu ukuthi bahlulele futhi "baphathe" ngendlela abaziveza ngayo. Abantu abaningi balindele yena, nabanye abaculi abakhuluma ngokusobala ngempilo yengqondo, ukuthi bavele njalo "beziphethe kahle", "benesizotha", futhi bekhuluma "ngohlangothi olukhanyayo lwezinto", kunokuba "izingxenye ezingathandeki ukugula ngengqondo,” kubhala uHalsey.

Kodwa lokhu okulindelekile kuchitha iqiniso lokuphila nesifo sengqondo, okungahlali libalele futhi kukhanya—ngisho nezihlabani ze-pop eziphumelelayo ezibonakala zihlanganiswe 24/7, kwabelwane ngo-Halsey. Babhala bathi: “Angiyena umuntu wesitayela oqeqeshiwe ogqoke isudi enhle. "Angisona isikhulumi esikhuthazayo esacindezela 'i-skip level' safika [entanjeni]. Ngingumuntu. Futhi kukhona umgwaqo okhohlisayo engiwuhambayo, ongiholele kulesi sihlalo engiphonselwe kuso. ume phezu. " (Okuhlobene: Lo wesifazane Ukhombisa Ngesibindi Ukuthi Ukuhlasela Okukhathazayo Kubukeka Kanjani Ngempela)

Eqhubeka nomsebenzi wakhe, uHalsey uthe akafuni abantu "basule uhambo" aholwe ngalo ekuphatheni impilo yakhe yengqondo ngoba ezuze impumelelo. Ngemuva kwalokho, lolo hambo lwadlala indima enkulu othandweni lwakhe lomculo kwasekuqaleni. "Umculo yile nto engithola ukuthi ngigxile kuyo yonke amandla ami, futhi akuyona isikhala esingangithandi," kusho lo mculi. I-cosmopolitan ngoSepthemba 2019. "Kube ukuphela kwendawo engingabhekisa kuyo yonke leyo nto futhi ngibe nokuthile engingakubonisa khona okungitshela ukuthi, 'Hheyi, awumubi kangako.'” (Okuhlobene: UHalsey Uvula Amasu okuthi Ukuhlinzwa Kwama-Endometriosis Kumthinte Kanjani Umzimba)

U-Halsey akakacacisi ukuthi ubani, ngempela, anomuzwa wokuthi uzama “amaphoyisa” ngendlela aziveza ngayo nakhuluma ngayo ngempilo yengqondo, noma ukuthi isigameko esithile samphoqa yini ukuthi akhulume ngale ndaba ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Noma kunjalo, lo mculi uthe nakuba ngezinye izikhathi bengaqondwa kahle, babonga ukuthi bangakwazi ukuhambisa imizwa yabo ngomculo nokubhala izingoma: "Ngibonga kakhulu ngobuciko engithole ithuba lokubenza ngenxa yombono oyingqayizivele [isifo sengqondo sami] uyanginika. "

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