Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani Ingane Ukuya Ehlosweni Elikhulu

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Ingabe unalo umzuzu? Kunganjani imizuzu eyi-15? Uma wenza kanjalo, khona-ke unesikhathi sonke lapho udinga ukufeza okuthile okukhulu impela.

Thatha, isibonelo, umngani wami osanda kuthola ingane yakhe yesihlanu futhi naye osebenza ngokugcwele. Ukusho ukuthi umatasa ukungathathi hlangothi kwekhulu leminyaka. Kepha noma kumuntu omatasa njengaye, ukufeza umgomo wokuphila konke akunakwenzeka. Isikhathi eside ebuyile wayenombono omuhle ngenoveli yabantu abadala, kepha wayephusha inhloso yakhe yokuyibhala kusishisa emuva ngenxa yazo zonke ezinye izibopho ayenazo empilweni yakhe. Ngokuqinisekile wayengenaso isikhathi sokubhala incwadi. Kepha ngibe sengimbuza lokhu: Ngabe unaso isikhathi sokubhala ikhasi? Iningi lamanoveli wabantu abadala angaphansi kwamakhasi angama-365. Ukube umngani wami ubengabhala ikhasi elilodwa ngosuku, ubezokwenziwa esikhathini esingaphansi konyaka.

Ukwehlukanisa umgomo omkhulu ube mincane, okufinyeleleka kalula ukuyenza kwenza okubonakala kungenzeki, kungenzeka. Isazi sefilosofi saseShayina uLau-tzu sathi, "Uhambo lwamamayela ayinkulungwane luqala ngesinyathelo esisodwa." Lokhu kuyiqiniso impela - kepha ukuze uhambe lawo makhilomitha ayizinkulungwane, kufanele uqhubeke nokuhamba nsuku zonke. Uma imizamo yakho iqina, uzosheshe ufinyelele lapho uya khona. Nawa amathiphu amathathu angakusiza ukuthi uqalise uhambo lwakho.

1. Yiba ngusomathuba. Ngiletha ikhompuyutha yami ephathekayo kuma-aphoyintimenti kadokotela kanye nasezinkambisweni zezemidlalo zezingane zami, ngiguqule lokho obekukade kulahlekile ukulinda kube isikhathi esichithwe ukusebenzela ukufeza imigomo.

2. Gubha izigigaba. Ungalindi uze ufinyelele umgomo wakho ukuze ukhiphe i-champagne. Bungaza impumelelo encane endleleni. Uma uqeqeshela imarathon, cabanga ngokuzivuza kuwo wonke amakhilomitha amahlanu okwazi ukuwafaka kuma-run akho. Kuzokunikeza ukuzethemba okuzodingeka ukuze uhlale esifundweni.

3. Ukubekezela kuyinto enhle. IRoma ayakhiwanga ngosuku, abantu abafundeli itango noma ukudlala ipiyano esifundweni esisodwa, futhi akekho umuntu obhala incwadi ngasikhathi sinye. Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi akukho mkhawulo wesikhathi emaphusheni. Uma nje wenza okuthile ngokungaguquki-noma ngabe kuyinto encane-ekugcineni uzowufeza umgomo wakho.

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