UJessie J Uvula Ngokuthi Akakwazi Ukuthola Izingane

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Abesifazane abaningi bebekhuluma ngokungabi nanzalo ukuze basize ekunciphiseni isigcwagcwa—futhi owesifazane wakamuva ozophumela obala ngezinkinga zakhe umculi uJessie J. Ekhonsathini ephambi kwezinkulungwane zabantu, uthathe isikhashana ukutshela abalandeli bakhe ukuthi angakwazi. ungalokothi ube nezingane. (Okuhlobene: Yini u-Ob-Gyns Afisa Abesifazane Babekwazi Ngokuzala Kwabo)

"Ngatshelwa eminyakeni emine edlule ukuthi angisoze ngathola izingane," esho kwi-video efakwe ngumlandeli ku-Instagram. "Angikutsheli ukuzwelana nawe ngoba ngingomunye wezigidi zabesifazane namadoda asedlule kulokhu futhi ngizodlula kulento." (Ingabe bewazi ukuthi inani lamaqanda kuma-ovari akho alihlangene namathuba akho okukhulelwa?)

I-ICYDK, cishe amaphesenti angu-10 abesifazane abanenkinga yokungatholi abantwana, ngokusho kwe-U.S. Office on Women's Health-ngakho-ke kuyinto okufanele ngempela ukuba nengxoxo evulekile ngayo. Ukungasho, lelo nani kulindeleke ukuthi lenyuke njengoba iminyaka yobudala bomama ikhuphuka. Ngo-2015, amaphesenti angu-20 wezingane azalwa abesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala, iminyaka lapho izinga lamaqanda lehla ngokuphawulekayo. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bazobhekana nezinkinga zokungabi nabantwana futhi bafune ezinye izindlela zokuba nezingane. (Kuhlobene: Izindleko Eziphezulu Zokungazali: Abesifazane Basengozini Yokuqothuka Kwengane)

Kulabo besifazane, uJessie wanikeza amazwi okusekela futhi wabelana ngezeluleko ezithile. "Ngeke kube yinto esichazayo, kodwa bengifuna ukuzibhalela le ngoma ngesikhathi sami sobuhlungu nokudabuka kodwa futhi ukuze ngizinike injabulo, ukunikeza abanye abantu into abangayilalela ngaleso sikhathi uma ifika. Kunzima impela, "esho. "Ngakho-ke uma kukhona oke wabhekana nakho ngalokhu noma wabona omunye umuntu edlula kukho noma washonelwa yingane, ngicela wazi ukuthi awuwedwa ebuhlungwini bakho futhi ngicabanga ngawe uma ngicula le ngoma."

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, kuvele izindaba zokuthi uJessie useqalile ukuthandana noChanning Tatum, othathe ku-Instagram wabelana ngokweseka kwakhe intombi yakhe. “Lo wesifazane uvele wathulula isifuba sakhe esiteji eRoyal Albert Hall,” kubhala yena. "Noma ngubani obekhona ufakaze okuthile okukhethekile. Hawu."

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