UKayla Itsines Uthi Ukhathele Ukubona Izingubo Ezakhelwe "Ukufihla" Imizimba Yokubeletha

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Lapho uKayla Itsines ebeletha indodakazi yakhe u-Arna esikhathini esingaphezu konyaka odlule, wakwenza kwacaca ukuthi wayengahlelile ukuba ngumama we-blogger. Nokho, ngesinye isikhathi, umdali we-BBG usebenzisa inkundla yakhe ukuqala izingxoxo ngezinselele abesifazane ababhekana nazo ngemva kokubeletha. Akagcinanga nje ngokuba sengozini ngokululama kwakhe kwangemva kokubeletha, kodwa uphinde waphumela obala ngokuthi bekunzima kangakanani ukubuyisela amandla ekusebenzeni kwakhe. Eqinisweni, kwakuyisipiliyoni sakhe sangemva kokubeletha okwakhuthaza u-Isines ukuthi akhe Uhlelo lwayo Lokukhulelwa Kwangemva Kokukhulelwa lwe-BBG ukuze asize abanye besifazane esikebheni esifanayo.

Manje, isimilo sokuqina seminyaka engu-29 sivula ngesinye isici se- # momlife: ukuhlazeka komzimba okuvame ukuza nokululama kwangemva kokubeletha.

Eposini le-Instagram, u-Isines ukhumbule into yakamuva lapho inkampani yemfashini iphiwe ngezingubo zakhe zokubhukuda ezinokhalo oluphezulu kanye nebhulukwe lokujima. "Ekuqaleni nganginjengesipho esihle," kubhala yena kokuthunyelwe kwakhe. "[Bese], ngifunde umbhalo ofike nephakethe: 'Lokhu kuhle kakhulu ukumboza umama wakho tum'." (PS Kujwayelekile Ukubukeka Ukhulelwe Ngemuva Kokubeletha)

U-Itsines ukugcizelele kokuthunyelwe kwakhe ukuthi akanalutho olumelene nezingubo eziphakanyiswe kakhulu ngokujwayelekile-futhi, uthe ekuqaleni wayejabule ukuthola lesi sipho. Kwakuyincwadi, nokusikisela kwayo ukuthi kufanele isebenzise okokugqoka "ukumboza" umzimba wayo wangemva kokubeletha, okwamenza wangakhululeki, wabelana ngo-Itsines. “Noma ngabe umuntu obengithumela lezo zingubo ubengaqapheli, ukutshela abesifazane ukuthi kufanele bafihle noma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba wabo akuwona umyalezo onika amandla, futhi akuyona into engivumelana nayo nhlobo,” kubhala yena. "Kusebenza ngokucabangela ukuthi kufanele siyigweme indlela umzimba wethu obukeka ngayo, ikakhulukazi ngemva kokukhulelwa. " (Okuhlobene: Lo Mama We-IVF Kathathu Wabelana Ngokuthi Kungani Ethanda Umzimba Wakhe Wangemva Kokubeletha)

I-Isines iqhubekile ngokukhumbuza omama abasha ukuthi noma ngabe banjani noma bangakanani, imizimba yabo ifanelwe ukubungazwa, hhayi ukufihlwa. "Ayikho into efana ne- 'mum tum'," wabhala. "Yisisu nje futhi asidingi ukuthi simbozwe sifihlwe ngoba NGOKWENZEKA WADALA WABELETHELA UMUNTU WESILISA."

U-Itsines akazange ayisho inkampani eyamthumelela izingubo, kodwa wayeqina lapho ethi "ngeke asekele noma ngubani osabalalisa lolu hlobo lomyalezo." (Kuhlobene: Umama we-CrossFit Revie Jane Schulz Ufuna Uthande Umzimba Wakho Wangemva Kokubeletha Njengoba Unjalo)

FWIW, lapho kukhona amabhrendi angagcini nje ngokunika amandla imizimba yabesifazane ngemva kokubeletha kodwa futhi abonise izingxenye ezingcolile eziza nokubeletha nokuba umzali omusha. Isibonelo: UFrida Mom, inkampani edala imikhiqizo ezosiza izidingo zangemva kokubeletha, isebenzise imikhankaso yayo yezikhangiso ukukhombisa ukuvezwa okungokoqobo kwempilo yangemva kokubeletha futhi iqale izingxoxo eziqotho mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kokubeletha. I-ICYMI, iFrida Mom yezentengiselwano kusolakala ukuthi yayivinjelwe ukukhonjiswa ngesikhathi sama-Oscars ngo-2020 ngoba lokhu kukhonjiswa kwakuthathwa "njengomfanekiso". Ngokusobala, njengoba u-Itsines ephawulile kokuthunyelwe kwakhe, abanye abantu namanje abakhululekile ukwamukela nje imizimba yangemva kokubeletha njengoba injalo. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Lo Fluencer Wokuqina Wemukela Ukuthi Umzimba Wakhe Awukaze Ubuyele Ezinyangeni Eziyisikhombisa Ngemuva Kokukhulelwa)

Isiphetho sendaba: Iseluleko sokugcina noma yimuphi umzali omusha ofanelwe ukusizwa ukuthi ungazimboza kanjani "izingxenye" ​​zomzimba wazo eziletha impilo kulo mhlaba. Njengoba u-Itsines esho: "Akufanele neze sibe nomuzwa wokuthi kufanele sifihle ingxenye ethile yomzimba wethu (ikakhulukazi isisu esikhule umntwana ngaphakathi kuso). Ngifuna indodakazi yami ikhulele ezweni lapho ingalokothi izizwe icindezelekile ukuba ibukeke njengenganekwane. ngendlela ethile. "

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