UKristen Bell noDax Shepard 'Lindela Iphunga' Ngaphambi Kokugeza Amadodakazi Abo

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Isonto elilodwa ngemuva kokuba u-Ashton Kutcher noMila Kunis bangene egazini ngokudalula ukuthi bageza izingane zabo kuphela, indodakazi eneminyaka engu-6 ubudala uWyatt nendodana eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala uDimitri, lapho bebonakala bengcolile, abanye abazali abangosaziwayo, uKristen Bell no U-Dax Shepard, manje omatasatasa ngengxoxo yenhlanzeko. (Okuhlobene: UKristen Bell Wembule Ngokungahloniphi Indlela Yena NoDax Shepard Abalusebenzisa Ngayo Ukwelashwa)

Ngesikhathi sokubonakala okubonakalayo ngoLwesibili ngomhlaka Ukubuka, UBell noShepard, abangabazali bamadodakazi uLincoln, 8, noDelta, 6, baveza imikhuba yabo yenhlanzeko. "Sasigeza izingane zethu njalo ebusuku ngaphambi kokulala njengenqubo yazo," kusho uShepard. "Bese kuthi ngandlela thile bavele baqala ukulala bodwa ngaphandle kwesimiso sabo futhi bekufanele siqale ukusho [komunye nomunye] ngathi, 'Hheyi, wagcina nini ukubageza?'"

UShepard wabe esabelana ngoLwesibili ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi, kungadlula izinsuku ezinhlanu noma eziyisithupha amadodakazi abo engagezwanga ngaphandle kokunuka. Imizuzwana ngemuva kokungeniswa kukaShepard, uBell wangena ngaphakathi. Kepha kwathi lapho uShepard esezoqinisekisa ababukeli ukuthi izingane zabo azinuki, uBell wammisa kancane. "Hhayi-ke, benza kwesinye isikhathi. Ngingumlandeli omkhulu wokulinda ukunuka," esho eqhubeka Ukubuka. "Uma usubambe umoya, leyo yindlela ye-biology yokukwazisa ukuthi udinga ukuyihlanza. Kukhona ifulegi elibomvu. Ngoba ukwethembeka, ama-bacterium nje. Futhi uma uthola amagciwane, kufanele ube ngathi, 'Ngena kubhavu. noma ishawa.'

Futhi ngalokho, uBell waqinisekisa ukuma kwakhe nokweseka u-Kutcher no-Kunis, "Angikuzondi abakwenzayo. Ngilinda ukunuka." (Kuhlobene: UKristen Bell noMila Kunis Bafakazela Omama Bangabadlali Abaphezulu Abasebenza Kakhulu)

UKutcher noKunis, abashade kusukela ngo-2015, bavele kwaShepard Ingcweti yezihlalo i-podcast ngasekupheleni kukaJulayi futhi wakhuluma ngokuthi bazigeza kanjani izingane zabo ngemuva kokuphuma kwesihloko seshawa, ngokusho kuka Abantu. "Nansi into: Uma ubona ukungcola kuzo, zihlanze. Ngaphandle kwalokho, akukho nzuzo," kusho uKutcher ngaleso sikhathi.

Yize abanye bengabaza amaqhinga kaKunis noKutcher, isayensi, nokho, iyawasekela. Ngokwe-American Academy of Dermatology, izingane ezineminyaka engu-6 kuya kwengu-11 zidinga ukugezwa kanye noma kabili ngesonto, lapho zibonakala zingcolile (ngokwesibonelo, uma zidlale odakeni), noma zijulukile futhi zinephunga lomzimba. Ukwengeza, i-AAD yeluleka ngokuthi izingane zigezwe ngemva kokubhukuda emanzini, kungaba ichibi, ichibi, umfula, noma ulwandle.

Kwabayishumi nambili nentsha, i-AAD yeluleka ukuthi bageze noma bageze nsuku zonke, bageze ubuso babo kabili ngosuku, futhi bageze noma bageze ngemuva kokubhukuda, badlale imidlalo noma bajuluke kakhulu.

Njengoba kungavumelani nesimo sikaBell noShepard kungabonakala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lesi akusona okokuqala bezinselela izindlela zokukhulisa izingane. UBell, owashada noShepard ngo-2013, phambilini wavulela isifuba Us Weekly ngokukhetha izimpi zakhe nezingane. "Ngivele ngivumele imoto yami ithole igranola kuyo yonke indawo ngoba ngifana nokuthi, 'Hhayi, lesi yisikhathi empilweni yami lapho imoto yami izombozwa ngogranola kuphela,' futhi ngingakulwela lokho ezinhlanu ezilandelayo iminyaka noma ngingavele ngizinikele futhi ngilunge ngayo, futhi ngikhethe ukuzinikela, "esho kwinhlolokhono yango-2016. "Konke kulula kumodi yokwamukela."

Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, uBell noShepard babuye bachaza nokuthi kungani bezama ukuxazulula izingxabano zabo phambi kwezingane zabo. "Uyazi, ngokujwayelekile, izingane zibona abazali bazo bexabana bese abazali bazixazulula egumbini lokulala bese kuthi kamuva baphile, ngakho ingane ayikaze ifunde, wehla kanjani? Uxolisa kanjani?" Kusho uShepard ku Us Weekly ngo-2018. "Ngakho-ke sizama, kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ukwenza lokho phambi kwabo. Uma silwe phambi kwabo, sifuna ukubuyisela phambi kwabo."

Akungabazeki ukuthi uBell noShepard bathembeke ngokuqabulayo kuzo zonke izici zokuphila. Futhi nakuba kungase kube nemibono ehlukene ngendaba yokukhulisa izingane, umbhangqwana ubonakala ujabule ngezinqubo zawo zansuku zonke.

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