U-Lena Dunham Uyachaza Kungani Ejabule Kunangaphambili Ngesisindo Sakhe Esinzima Kakhulu
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U-Lena Dunham ubuyile nomunye amazwibela we-Instagram ajulile, kulokhu mayelana nokuthi yini edingekayo ukufinyelela ekwamukelweni ngokwakho. (Kuhlobene: U-Lena Dunham Uhlanganyela Ukuthi Ukuthola Ama-tattoo Kumsiza Kanjani Ukuba Aphathe Ubunikazi Bomzimba Wakhe)
Izolo, i- Amantombazane i-alum iveze ukuthi uchithe isikhathi eside kakhulu ukuzizwa "ngokweqile" -ngayo yonke imizwa yebinzana. "Ngichithe isikhathi esiningi kule mpilo ngizizwa nginjengomningi kakhulu," ubhale kanjalo ngamagama-ncazo eceleni kwesithombe sakhe egqoke izingubo zakhe zangaphansi. "Ngilambe kakhulu. Ngikhathazeke kakhulu. Ngiyadinga kakhulu. Ngiyadinga kakhulu. Ngiyagula kakhulu. Nginodlame kakhulu. Ngithembeke kakhulu. Nginomdlandla kakhulu (jk lol.) Ngangihlale ngithunyelwa umyalezo, ngezindlela ezicashile, ukuthi ngithatha indawo eningi kakhulu futhi ngafuna futhi okuningi okuvela ekuphileni futhi ngezinye izikhathi wayenikela kakhulu kubantu ababengafuni nhlobo."
Shintshanisa izichasiso zakho, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi, ungakwazi ukuhlobana; okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kusemhlabeni wonke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphila kanjani impilo yakho, cishe uzothola ukugudluzwa okucashile (noma okuqondile) ukuze wenze okuthile phansi ngesikhathi esisodwa noma kwenye. (Lokhu, ngokwengxenye, iphuzu lokhu kuthengisa kwakamuva kwe-Nike obekwenza mayelana nabesifazane kwezemidlalo betshelwa ukuthi bayahlanya noma abanangqondo ngokubonisa imizwa.)
Uqhubeke wachaza ukuthi ekugcineni ubone ukuthi akadingi ukuphila impilo yakhe efuna ukwamukelwa yinoma ngubani. "Eminyakeni engama-32: Nginesisindo esikhulu kunazo zonke esengake ngaba nazo," ubhale kanje. "Ngithanda kakhulu kunabo bonke engake ngaba nabo. Ngifunda futhi ngibhale futhi ngihleka kakhulu kunakho konke engake ngaba nakho. Futhi ngijabule kunabo bonke engake ngaba nabo. Hhayi injabulo ebuthakathaka, enobungozi 'yezinto ezihamba kahle.' Injabulo enkulu, yokuphana, nehlekisayo ethi 'Ngicabanga ukuthi ekugcineni ngiyaqala ukukuthola lokhu.' "(Okuhlobene: ULena Dunham WayeneHysterectomy Ephelele Yokumisa Ubuhlungu Bakhe be-Endometriosis)
Akukhona okokuqala u-Dunham enikeza umunwe ophakathi kulokho okulindelwe umphakathi.
Ngemuva kokwehla kwesisindo sakhe ngo-2017 kwamfikisela esembozweni se- Us Weekly eduze kwamagama "Amathiphu Wokudla Okungaphansi Kwe-20!" uzibhalele owakhe uhla lwezizathu ezingama-20 zokuthi kungani anciphile, ebalula izinto ezinjengokuba nesifo sokukhathazeka nokuthi inombolo yakhe yocingo iputshukile. "Anginazo izeluleko, anginiki zeluleko, angifuni ukuba kulesi sikhwama ngoba siphikisana ngokuphelele nakho konke engikulwele nomsebenzi wami wonke futhi akuyona into engincomayo ngoba akuyona impumelelo thanx," ubhale kulokhu okuthunyelwe.
Ngokufanayo, ngonyaka odlule, wathumela isithombe sangaphambi nangemuva esibonisa ukukhuluphala kwakhe. Esithombeni sangaphambilini (lapho enesisindo esincane), wathola izincomo futhi wanakwa ngamathebhuthi, kodwa esithombeni sakamuva, "wayejabule, ejabule futhi ekhululekile," wabhala.
Ngokuthunyelwe kwakhe kwakamuva lapho enesisindo esikhulu kunanini ngaphambili futhi ngijabule kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili-uDunham waveza ukuthi ukufika emiqondweni yakhe yamanje bekungeyona inqubo esheshayo nelula, kepha bekufanele kuwufanele umzamo.