U-Lili Reinhart ubize izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuhlela umzimba ngokuba "yingozi empilweni yethu"

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ULili Reinhart akekho lapha ngezindinganiso zobuhle ezingenangqondo, ikakhulukazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Ochungechungeni lwakamuva lwezindaba ze-Instagram, i-Riverdale Umlingisikazi wabelane ngokuthi ngenkathi esesha uhlelo lokusebenza ukushintsha usayizi wezithombe zakhe, wazithela ku-BodyTune, uhlelo lokusebenza olungakwazi "ukuphinda luyeke futhi lubumbe kabusha" umzimba wakho. UReininhart uphinde wathumela ividiyo ye-promo yohlelo lokusebenza ku-IG Stories yakhe ukukhombisa abalandeli ukuthi leli thuluzi lingasetshenziswa kanjani ukunciphisa ngokoqobo nokuncipha komzimba womuntu. Uhlelo lokusebenza lubonakala lufaka phakathi izici ezikuvumela ukuthi "ukhulise ubude" kanye "nokuthola i-abs".

“Lokhu akulungile,” kubhala uReinhart. "Yingakho nje abantu beba nenkinga yokudla. Yingakho izinkundla zokuxhumana seziyingozi empilweni yethu. Yingakho abantu belindele okungafezeki emizimbeni yabo." (Okuhlobene: Indlela Izinsiza Zokuxhumana Zabantu Abasaziwayo Ezithinta Ngayo Impilo Yengqondo Yakho Nesithombe Sakho)

Yize izindinganiso ezingezona ezangempela zobuhle bezikhona kudala ngaphambi kokuqala kwe-inthanethi, i-Reinhart inephuzu: Inkundla yezokuxhumana ikhulise ukugxila komphakathi kulawa mazinga, ingasaphathwa eyokuchayeka ezithombeni eziwavezayo. Eqinisweni, ukubuyekezwa kwe-2016 kwezifundo ezingama-20 ezishicilelwe kumagaziniIsithombe Somzimba bathole ukuthi ukusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana kuhlotshaniswa nezinkinga zesithombe somzimba kanye nemikhuba yokudla ephazamisekile.

Kepha lezi zinkinga aziqhamuki ezingosini zokuxhumana ngokwazo, ngokusho kokubuyekezwa. Kunalokho, kunjaloKanjani abantu basebenzisa lezi zinkundla. Ucwaningo luveze ukuthi ukulayisha izithombe eziqonde ngqo ukugunyazwa abanye futhi uziqhathanise nabanye ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuxhumene nesithombe esibi somzimba kanye nokudla okungenamsoco. (Ukwazi lokho, akumele kusimangaze kakhulu ukuthi inhlolovo yakamuva ebizwe nge-Instagram iyinkundla yezokuxhumana embi kakhulu empilweni yakho yengqondo.)

Vele, imithombo yezokuxhumana ayiyonakonke kubi. Ngemuva kokuthi uReinhart ekhulume ngokukhathazeka kwakhe ngezinhlelo zokusebenza zokuhlela umzimba ku-Instagram, abantu abaningi baye kuTwitter beyombonga ngokunaka lolu daba.

"Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezinhle engake ngazifunda. Ngiyabonga ngalokhu. Bengidinga ngempela ukukubona futhi nginesiqiniseko sokuthi kukhona amanye amantombazane amaningi adinga ukubona nalokhu! Yabelana ngaleli sh. ngokuzwakalayo [futhi] uyaziqhenya, "umuntu oyedwa ubhale kuTwitter. "Siyabonga ngomlayezo wakho mayelana nesithombe somzimba kanye nalezo zinhlelo zokusebenza," kubhala omunye. (Okuhlobene: UCassey Ho "Decoded" we-Instagram Standard Beauty-Then Photoshopped Heers to Match It)

"Ngiyabonga ngamazwi akho. Umzabalazo ungokoqobo ngazo zonke lezi zinhlelo zokusebenza zokushintsha umzimba wakho. Kunzima ukungakuvumeli ukuthi kufinyelele kuwe kwesinye isikhathi kodwa amagama akho ayisikhumbuzo esihle sokuthi iningi lezinto esizibona ezinkundleni zokuxhumana akulona yangempela, "wanezela omunye umuntu.

Lesi akusona okokuqala uReinhart ekhuluma ephikisana nezindinganiso zobuhle ezingezona ezingokoqobo. Phambilini ubekade evuleleke ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nge-dysmorphia yomzimba, ukulungiswa komtholampilo kumaphutha acatshangelwayo abangela ukucindezeleka okungokomzwelo okungaguquki kanye nemicabango ebucayi ngomzimba, ngokusho kwe-International OCD Foundation.

"Nanamuhla, ngizibona ngisesibukweni futhi ngiyacabanga, lokhu akubukeki ngendlela umhlaba ongitshela ngayo ukuthi kufanele," kusho uReinhart muva njeUbuhle UK emzabalazweni wakhe ne-dysmorphia yomzimba. "Anginalo ukhalo olunamabishi, olunama-minuscule. Nginamajika, ngine-cellulite, izingalo zami azinamathele. Lona ngumzimba wami futhi sitshelwa ukuthi kufanele ulingane ngokulingana okuthile."

Kodwa njengobaRiverdale inkanyezi ephawulwe Endabeni yakhe ye-Instagram, "imizimba yethu akufanele ihambisane 'nosayizi owodwa ulingana konke.'"

Iphuzu eliyinhloko: Inkinga ayikho kulezi zinhlelo zokusebenza zokuhlela umzimba uqobo. Yisisekeloisizathu kungani abantu abaningi bezwa sengathi badinga ukuwasebenzisa kwasekuqaleni — ingasaphathwa eyokuthi ukusebenzisa kwabo kuqhubekisela phambili izindinganiso zomzimba ezingezona ezingokoqobo. Njengoba uReinhart abhala: "Uma usuzinciphise ekucindezelweni kokuhambisana nezindinganiso ezikhohlisayo / ezingezona zangempela .... umhlaba ungcono kakhulu. Ngiyakuthembisa."

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