Kungani Isimo Sezocansi Se-Lotus Kufanele Sibe Ekujikelezeni Kwakho

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• Indlela Yokwenza I-Lotus Sex Position
• Izinzuzo Ezingokomzwelo Nezingokomzimba zeLotus
• Ungasenza Kanjani Isikhundla Sezocansi seLotus Sikusebenzele
• I- Onemilenze Eqondile I-Lotus
• Ukuguqa ngamadolo I-Lotus
• I-Active Lotus
• Buyekeza kwe-

Abantu baya ocansini ngezizathu eziningi. Ngenkathi isifiso esijwayelekile kanye ne-horniness kukumenyu, kunjalo, kwesinye isikhathi ufuna okuthile okungaphezu kokuthokozisa okusheshayo. Njengoba uKaren Gurney, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo emtholampilo kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esiqinisekisiwe, ebonisa encwadini yakhe, Cabanga Ngegebe, ukusondelana ngokuvamile yilokho abantu abakufisayo lapho behlanganyela ocansini nomlingani. Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukuhlakulela umuzwa wokusondelana.

Uma lokhu kuyinjongo yakho, asikho isikhundla socansi njengokusondelene kakhulu ku-lotus. Kulesi sikhundla, uboshwe emzimbeni womlingani wakho njengenyoka. Akusondeli kakhulu kunalokho.

Igama langempela le-lotus ngu "Yab Yum" futhi lisuselwe ku-Tantra, uhlelo lwenkolelo yasendulo engokomoya eyavela e-India futhi ebilokhu ikhona izinkulungwane zeminyaka; kulolu hlelo lokukholelwa, noma yini ingaba yingxenye yendlela yakho yokomoya, noma ngabe ukudla, ukuzindla, ukuzivocavoca, yebo, ucansi. Nakuba ucansi luyingxenye encane ye-tantra, yingxenye abantu abavame ukugxila kuyo, u-Layla Martin, uthisha we-tantra ohlonishwa kakhulu nomsakazi wochungechunge lwe-YouTube i-Epic Sex & Legendary Long eyashiwo ngaphambilini. Umumo.

U-Taylor Sparks, uthisha ovusa inkanuko kanye nomsunguli wesitolo sezocansi i-Organic Loven uthi u-Yab Yum uthole igama elisha "ngoba bekulula ezindlebeni zaseNtshonalanga." Izindaba ezinhle: Noma ngabe ukhetha ukubiza lesi sikhundla ngokuthi i-lotus noma i-Yab Yum, ngokuqinisekile kungokujikeleza kwakho kwezocansi.

Indlela Yokwenza I-Lotus Sex Position

Ukungena endaweni ye-lotus, umlingani ongena ngaphakathi kufanele ahlale emilenzeni embhedeni, esihlalweni noma kusofa. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "uhhafu we-lotus." Uthola i- "lotus ephelele" uma ufaka omunye umuntu.

Umuntu ongenwayo ube “ehlala phezu kwakhe futhi akwazi ukugoqa imilenze ngakubo futhi ngokuyisisekelo i-koala, njengokungathi iyisihlahla,” kusho uKenneth Play, uchwepheshe nomfundisi wocansi. Esikhundleni sokushaya phezulu naphansi, umuntu ophezulu uhambisa izinkalo zakhe emuva naphambili endaweni ezamayo.

Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi yize lesi sikhundla ngokwesiko sifaka ukungena, akudingekile. Esikhundleni salokho, ungasithokozela lesi sikhundla kalula ngokuthi "ugaye futhi uhlikihle omunye komunye esikhundleni sokwehla nokujwayela okujwayelekile, okukuvumela futhi ukuba uvuselele i-clitoris," kusho uSparks.

Inhlamvu encane noma isidlidlizi somunwe - njengeHot Octopuss DiGit (Thenga It, $ 104, ellaparadis.com) - ingasetshenziselwa "ukuvuselela okuqondile ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ukuxhumana kwakho njengoba kulingana ngqo neminwe," usho njalo. Lokho kusho ukuthi, izandla, ama-dildos, izidlidliza, ama-strap-ons, ne-penises konke kuyizinketho ezinhle zesimo sobulili se-lotus.

Izinzuzo Ezingokomzwelo Nezingokomzimba zeLotus

Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, isikhalazo esikhulu salesi sikhundla ukusondelana. Akusho ukuthi kuvinjelwe ukuhlangana ngokocansi okungajwayelekile, kepha khumbula ukuthi kunokuxhumana okuningi ubuso nobuso ngenkathi ukulesi sikhundla. (Okuningi lapha: Ungakwakha kanjani ukusondelana nozakwenu)

Ngenkathi ungabeka isilevu sakho ehlombe lomlingani wakho ukugwema ukubukana, ukuxhumana kwamehlo kungesinye sezizathu sokuthi lesi sikhundla sithandwa kangaka. Ngakho-ke, uma ungakujabuleli ukubonwa ngamehlo ngesikhathi socansi, ungahle ungabi umlandeli omkhulu wesimo se-lotus socansi.

Ukukhuluma ngokomzimba, lesi sikhundla sisebenza kahle ekuvuseleleni clitoral. Njengoba ungabheki phezulu nangaphansi futhi, esikhundleni salokho, unyakazisa uye phambili naphambili, umlingani ongene ngaphakathi angazulazula ebhekene nethambo, isandla, noma ithoyizi laphansi. Futhi, uthola ukugwema ukushiswa kwethanga okwesabekayo okuvame ukukhiqiza isikhundla se-Cowgirl noma i-Rider.

I-Play ithi umnikazi wepenisi angathola okuningi ku-lotus, ikakhulukazi uma benenkinga yokugcina ukwakhiwa noma ukuzwa ukukhishwa ngokushesha. "Lesi sikhundla singanikeza ukuzwa okuthambile, okuhlala isikhathi eside, ukuze ukwazi ukukhipha isipiliyoni," echaza.

Ungasenza Kanjani Isikhundla Sezocansi seLotus Sikusebenzele

Nakuba i-Yab Yum yenza uhlu lwezikhundla zocansi eziqonde phambili, kungase kungabi inketho engcono kakhulu yawo wonke umuntu. Uma une-hip eguquguqukayo empofu, isibonelo, lesi sikhundla singabangela ukungakhululeki. Noma, mhlawumbe awuthandi ukuhamba kancane ngesikhathi socansi. Ngenhlanhla, kukhona ezinye izinguquko ezivunyiwe yisazi ukuze zivumelane nazo zonke izidingo zakho zesikhundla se-lotus.

Akunandaba ukuthi yikuphi ukushintsha kwesimo sobulili se-lotus, qiniseka ukuthi ulalela umzimba wakho futhi ungene uphume esikhundleni kancane (cabanga: njenge-yoga pose) ukugwema ubuhlungu noma ukungaphatheki kahle.

I- Onemilenze Eqondile I-Lotus

Uma izinkalo zakho ziqinile, oyedwa noma bobabili abalingani bangakwazi ukunweba imilenze iqonde ngqo phambi kwabo, kusho uLucy Rowett, umqeqeshi wezocansi oqinisekisiwe nodokotela wezocansi emtholampilo. Uma usesofeni noma esihlalweni, uzakwethu ongezansi angabeka izinyawo zakhe phansi esikhundleni sokuphambana. (Futhi cabanga ukuzama lezi zimo ze-yoga ukukhipha izinkalo eziqinile.)

U-Sparks uphakamisa ukusebenzisa umcamelo wezocansi uma udinga ukwesekwa okwengeziwe. "Uma i-hip flexors yakho iqinile, ukusebenzisa umcamelo wesigaxa kungasiza ngokungabi bhetyebhetye," esho. Zama i-Liberator Jaz (Ithenge, $ 100, lovehoney.com). "Ukuncika emuva noma phambili endaweni noma ukwenza imilenze yakho iqonde kungase futhi uzizwe ukhululekile kumuntu ongaphezulu."

Ukuguqa ngamadolo I-Lotus

Ukubeka isisindo esincane kumlingani ophansi noma ukunika okhalweni lomlingani ophezulu ikhefu, umuntu ongaphezulu angakhetha nokuguqa ethangeni lomlingani ophansi, kunokuba asonge imilenze yakhe okhalweni, kusho uCharyn Pfeuffer, umbhali wezocansi nombhali ye Izindlela eziyi-101 Zokwakha Ukuqomisana Ku-Inthanethi.

I-Active Lotus

"Uma ngabe uwuhlobo olufuna isikhundla sokusubatha, ungalungisa lesi sikhundla ngokuncika futhi uzisekele ngezandla zakho," kusho i-Play, kulabo abangaphuzi ngesikhathi socansi. "Ngokwenza lokhu ukhulisa i-engeli phakathi kwama-pelvis akho, okungaba indlela engcono yokuvuselela i-G-spot, futhi uthole amandla akhulayo okwenza lesi sikhundla sisebenze kancane."

UGigi Engle ungudokotela wezocansi oqinisekisiwe, uthisha, nomlobi we Wonke Amaphutha e-F cking: Umhlahlandlela Wezocansi, Uthando, Nempilo. Mlandele ku-Instagram naku-Twitter ku- @GigiEngle.

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