Ukwabelana kukaLucy Hale Kungani Ukuzibeka Kuqala Akukhona Ukuzicabangela Wena

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Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukuthatha isikhathi esincane "kimi" kubalulekile empilweni yakho yengqondo. Kodwa kungase kube nzima ukubeka phambili ngaphezu kwezinye izinto ezibonakala "zibalulekile" kakhulu. Futhi ngaphandle kokuthi abesifazane abangaphezu kwesigamu seminyaka eyinkulungwane bazinakekele isinqumo sabo sango-2018, abanye besifazane basazizwa benecala ngakho-bekholelwa ukuthi ukuzibeka phambili ngandlela thile kubenza babe nobugovu. Abaqambimanga Abahle Abancane u-alum uLucy Hale wazizwa ngendlela efanayo-kwaze kwaba yilapho uhambo olulodwa lushintsha umbono wakhe ngokuphelele.

"Evikini eledlule ngithathe uhambo oluya e-Arizona ngiyedwa," wabhala ku-Instagram eceleni kochungechunge lwezithombe zakhe (kanye ne-cacti namakristalu okuphulukisa). "Ngichithe izinsuku zami ngihamba izintaba, ngizindla, futhi ngichitha isikhathi nami. Angikaze ngikwenze lokhu ngaphambilini ngoba benginomuzwa wokuthi ukuzibeka phambili kunobugovu. Akunjalo."

UHale uthi wabona ukuthi izinzuzo zokuzinakekela zazingagcini kuye. “Akukona nje kuphela okunempilo, kodwa kuyadingeka ukuze ube ngongcono kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwakho,” kubhala yena.

Uqhubeke ngokuchaza ukuthi kungani wonke umuntu kufanele enze isikhathi sokuzinakekela-noma ngabe abona sengathi abanakho. "Ngiyazi ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka kwezinye izimboni ngaphandle kwale engikuso, kodwa kulula ngendlela emangalisayo ukuthi ungene esimweni sokukhathazeka ngomsebenzi olandelayo, impumelelo yalowo okhona manje nokuthi abanye bacabangani ngawe," kusho uHale . (Nazi ezinye izinqumo ezingama-20 zokuzinakekela okufanele uzenze.)

"Lolu hambo beluyisikhumbuzo esihle sokuthi impilo nenjabulo yami kubalulekile empilweni engifuna ukuyiphila futhi ukuze ngibe phambili emsebenzini wami nakubathandekayo bami, kubalulekile ukuzenzela izinto ezinhle impela. batusa ukuphatha ingqondo, umzimba nomoya wakho ngendlela efanele (nokuthatha uhambo lokubalekela uwedwa).

Okuthunyelwe nguHale kuyisikhumbuzo esihle sokuthi umatasa futhi ucindezeleke ngokwengeziwe, "ngaphezulu * kubalulekile ukuthi uzenzele isikhathi. Ingqondo nomzimba wakho kuzokubonga ngakho-ngakho-ke nabo bonke abanye empilweni yakho bazobonga ngakho.

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