KuSolo Play? Nansi indlela yokuguqula izinto zibe notch ngokushaya indlwabu ngokuhlanganyela

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• Yini
• Yini engayenzela wena nomlingani wakho
• Izingozi ezingaba khona okufanele uziqaphele
• Ungayikhulisa kanjani
• Ungayisetha kanjani imizwa
• Uma wenza i-IRL
• Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele
• Izinto ongazisho
• Amasu wokuzama
• Uma ukwenza ngocingo
• Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele
• Izinto ongazisho
• Amasu wokuzama
• Uma ukwenze ngaphezu kwevidiyo
• Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele
• Izinto ongazisho
• Amasu wokuzama
• Kuthiwani uma okuthile kungasebenzi?
• Okubalulekile

Yebo, ukushaya indlwabu empeleni kuyisenzo se-self-lovin ', kepha ngubani othi anikwazi ukwabelana ngothando futhi nidlale nodwa, nihlangene?

Yini

Ukushaya indlwabu ngokuhlanganyela empeleni kunezincazelo ezimbili: ukushaya indlwabu ndawonye noma ukuya ocansini ngesandla. Lapha, sikhuluma ngokushaya indlwabu ndawonye.

Lolu hlobo lokudlala wedwa oluhlanganyelwe lungenzeka egumbini elilodwa, ngevidiyo, noma ngisho nasocingweni uma unamahloni noma ujabulela nje ucansi olushisayo lwasemoyeni.

Yini engayenzela wena nomlingani wakho

Soooo kakhulu! Kuhle kakhulu into esondelene kakhulu ongayenza nomlingani wakho.

Uyabavumela babuke - futhi balalele - njengoba wenza okuthile abantu abaningi abakwenza kuphela eminyango evaliwe… ngaphansi kwezembozo… lapho kungekho omunye umuntu ekhaya.

Kungakwenza uzizwe ukuhlangana okuthokozisayo - nohlobo olwesabekayo - lokungabi sengozini futhi okunamandla ngasikhathi sinye.

Ngokuqondene nabo, ukuba nolwazi kumdlalo we-peep nokukubuka ukuzijabulisa ngokwakho kukhahlela isici esibi nge-bazillion.

Ezinye izizathu ziyamangalisa:

• Ukuthokozisa kuyinto eqinisekile, ngoba ngamunye wenu uthola ukwenza lokho asevele azi ukuthi uzizwa kahle ngawe.
• Uthola ukudedela ama-voyeurs akho angaphakathi nababonisi ngasikhathi sinye. (Uyazi ukuthi baphakathi lapho!)
• Kungukuya ocansini okuhle kakhulu ongakuthola, ngoba isithandwa sakho sifunda ukuthi singakunika kanjani injabulo kumqeqeshi ofaneleke kakhulu: wena. Futhi okuphambene nalokho.
• Uma ufuna ukwethula amathoyizi ocansi ekamelweni lokulala, lokhu kuyindlela elula yokuzibandakanya ocingweni.
• Kuyinto eguquguqukayo ngokuphelele futhi ingasetshenziselwa ukufeza eminye imicabango, njengokulingisa, ama-threesomes, noma ubulili beqembu.
• Kuyinto esondelene kakhulu ongaba nayo ocansini ngokugcwele ngenkathi uqhubeka nokuziqhelisa ngokomzimba.

Izingozi ezingaba khona okufanele uziqaphele

Ukushaya indlwabu kuyinto ocansini oluphephe kunazo zonke ongaba nayo, kepha uma uyenza nomlingani wakho - cishe noma i-IRL - kunezingozi ezithile okufanele uzicabangele.

Okokuqala, qaphela uketshezi lomzimba. Ukuzithinta akuyona ingozi, kepha noma kunini lapho kuthintwa isidoda noma uketshezi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, kunengozi yokutheleleka ngocansi (STIs).

Uma omunye wenu ethatha isinqumo sokuzama ukufinyelela ukuzwa - ngemvume! - geza uphinde usule izandla zakho kuqala, noma sebenzisa ukuvikela imigoqo.

Ukuthembela kuyi- kumele, ikakhulukazi kulesi sikhathi samanje sayo yonke into ebonakalayo, lapho ukuchofoza nje kuvumela umuntu ukuthi acwilise isithombe-skrini noma arekhode ividiyo bese wabelana ngayo nabanye.

Ungayikhulisa kanjani

Isimo sakho singakunika indlela elula yokungena ku-convo.

Isibonelo, uma usebudlelwaneni bebanga elide noma uhlukene ngenxa yama-oda wokuhlala ekhaya, kulula njengokusho into efana nokuthi:

• "Ngikhumbula impela ukuthinta / ukuba nawe, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ngithole into elandelayo engcono…"
• “Ngiyazi ukuthi singaya kanjani ocansini bese sihlala sihlukene ngezinyawo eziyisithupha. [faka ukumamatheka okukhohlisayo]. ”

Ungayisetha kanjani imizwa

Setha indawo, noma ngabe kwenzeka i-IRL ye-rub-a-thon noma ngokukhetha, ngokukhetha indawo ephephile nenethezekile ukuze nobabili niphumule ngokugcwele.

Umbhede, usofa, noma inqaba yomcamelo phansi - noma yini ekusebenzelayo.

Fiphaza izibani, ukhanyise amakhandlela, bese ufaka umculo. Uma ama-suds entanta esikebheni sakho, khona-ke zizwe ukhululekile ukuyisa i-sesh yakho kubhavu.

Gcina amathoyizi, i-lube, kanye nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinsiza lapho ufinyelela khona.

Uma wenza i-IRL

Uma ufika ekudleni mathupha, qiniseka ukuthi ayikho indlela yokuqola lokhu uma wonke amaqembu egibele futhi wenza lokho okuzwakala kukuhle.

Lokho kusho, kunezinto ezithile ezingenza kube ngcono nakakhulu.

Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele

Uzizwa unamahloni kancane noma awunankinga ngokuzinika isandla nezithameli? Kukhona isikhundla salokho! Cabanga ngalokhu:

• Uhlangothi ngohlangothi. Lokhu kusebenza kubo bonke, kodwa kuzodonsa ikakhulukazi kumuntu onovalo ngokushaya indlwabu ndawonye. Ungaqamba amanga noma uhlale eceleni ukuze uthole ukugcotshwa kwakho. Ukuxhumana ngamehlo kwenza lonke ucansi lushise, kodwa lesi simo sikwenza kube ngokuzithandela ukuze ukwazi ukugingqika ukuze ubuke lapho usukulungele.
• Ukubambisana. Lokhu kuthatha isikhundla sobufundisi omunye wenu ulele ngomhlane kanti omunye phezulu, kungaba ukuhambahamba noma ukuguqa phakathi kwemilenze yabo nizijabulisa. Uma omunye wenu engazizwa ethambeka (sawubona, ukugeleza okusindayo) kepha usafuna ukuba khona komunye, umbono oshisayo we-AF wenza imish kube ukuvumelana okuhle.
• Ukubhekana ngqo ebusweni. Phakamisa isandla sakho uma uthanda ukubona nokubonakala! Hlalani nibhekane imilenze isakazeke kabanzi ukuze nibe nobuso obugcwele obuzokwenza umbukiso wakho wangaphakathi novoyeur baziqhenye.

Izinto ongazisho

Awudingi ukusho noma yini uma ungafuni, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ukhipha noma yikuphi ukububula okunomdlandla noma ukukhononda okuza ngokwemvelo.

Uma upholile ngenkulumo emnandi, nikeza isikhuthazo ngamazwi ngokubatshela:

• indlela okuhle ngayo
• bashisa kanjani
• kuvuleka kanjani bakwenza
• lapho usuzofika

Ungakwazi ukushaya indlwabu ngokuhlanganyela njengomphathi ophelele ngokubatshela ukuthi yini ofuna bazenze kubo, nabo.

Amasu wokuzama

Yithathe ngaphesheya kokugcwala bese udonsa ngo:

• uklolodela ezinye izindawo zakho ezinobungozi ngaphambi kokuyofuna imali
• ukuncela iminwe yakho - noma eyabo - ngenkathi udlala
• ukuhlala uxhumekile ngokudweba umlenze wakho phezu kwawo
• ukuzidlalisa ngethoyizi, njenge-clit noma ingono vibe
• ukuzibandakanya kokunye ukungena kwe-solo ngendlela yesidlidlizi noma i-butt plug

Uma ukwenza ngocingo

Ukuthi anikwazi ukubonana akusho ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu akukwazi ukuba yinto yokugoqana.

Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele

Noma yini iya lapho undiza uwedwa uma nje izwakala imnandi, kepha nazi ezinye izikhundla zeleveli elandelayo:

• Uguqe ngamadolo. Noma yini ephakathi kwemilenze yakho, ukuguqa ngamadolo kuzosebenza ngoba i-clit yakho kanye nesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ipipi namabhola, noma ingquza ingatholakala kalula kumadijithi akho noma ithoyizi locansi. Gcina amadolo akho ahlukene kancane ukuze ulinganisele futhi uzinze ngoba izandla zakho zizobandakanyeka ngenye indlela.
• Kopisha isikwele. Njengoba kuzwakala nje, uphatha i-squat bese uya edolobheni ngobubi bakho. Uma ukusebenzisa ithoyizi ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane nokudlala kwe-G-spot kukumenyu, ukukhwabanisa kusebenza kahle kakhulu. Kwenze ufulathele udonga ukuze uthole ukusekelwa ukuze kube lula kwimisipha yakho yesikwele.
• Ukuhleba okomile. I-hump enhle yakudala eyomile isebenza uma uwedwa, futhi. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ugaya indawo engeke ilimaze izingxenye zakho zethenda, njengonqenqema lukamatilasi, ingalo kasofa, umcamelo, noma ithoyizi eligxishiwe. Ungalala futhi ubheke phansi ngesandla sakho noma ithoyizi elidlidlizisayo ngokumelene ne-clit noma ipipi lakho le-hump.

Izinto ongazisho

Yebo, ucansi lwefoni lungaba nzima, ikakhulukazi uma umusha kulo. Ngokujabulisayo, ukuzithinta kuzothatha okuningi ukuxega.

Noma imiphi imisindo evela ekuzizweleni izoshaya amanothi afanele nomlingani wakho, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukukhuphula ivolumu ekuphefumuleni kwakho, ekububuleni, noma ekububuleni kwenjabulo.

Uma ufuna ukubakhanyisela ngenkulumo, penda isithombe ngokubatshela ukuthi wenzani kuwe, bese ubacela ukuthi bachaze nabakwenzayo.

Amasu wokuzama

Nakhu okunye okungeziwe kusayizi omkhulu we-tele-masturbation sesh yakho:

• Sebenzisa ithoyizi locansi elilawulwa uhlelo lokusebenza elingalawulwa umlingani wakho ukude.
• Zama i-dildo yokudonsa inkomishi ebekwe odongeni noma isitulo se-P noma ukungena kwe-hands-free ne-friendly-phone.
• Fundelani omunye indaba evusa inkanuko uma ulahlekile ngenxa yamagama.
• Phumani nonke ngokushintshana kwamaphupho noma ukudlala indima uma nobabili nikukho.

Uma ukwenze ngaphezu kwevidiyo

Masithathe isikhashana ukuhlonipha ubuchwepheshe obusivumela ukuthi siqhubeke nokwenza ucansi oluvusa ingqondo sodwa ngesikhathi sobunzima bezempilo emhlabeni jikelele. * wehla izinyembezi *

Izikhundla okufanele uzicabangele

Noma yisiphi isikhundla esinombono sisebenza kahle kakhulu ku-sesh yamavidiyo we-sexy, inqobo nje uma ukwazi ukuphumula futhi uzijabulise.

Zama lokhu:

• Hlala uncike. Njengoba kuzwakala nje, uhlala futhi uncike emuva ubheke ikhamera ukuze i-boo yakho ikubone kuyo yonke inkazimulo yakho. Ukuncika emiqamelweni kunikeza ukusekelwa ukuze izandla zakho zikhululeke ukuzihlikihla, ukushaya unhlangothi, noma umunwe ngokwakho ngobuwula bekhamera.
• Uguqe ngamadolo. Kushushu nje kuvidiyo njengoba kuyi-IRL. Vele uguqe embhedeni noma phansi ubheke ikhamera, bese uvumela iminwe yakho ihambe. Ukugoqa umhlane wakho nokufaka izinkalo zakho phambili kungakhulisa ukubuka. Sebenzisa imicamelo noma udonga ngemuva kwakho ukwesekwa uma ufuna ukungena endaweni egcwele yelimbo.
• Ukuma mude. Phakamisa ikhamera ukuze ukwazi ukuthola wonke umzimba wakho, bese uzishaya ngonyawo ngenkathi umi ubhekene nayo. Ukuma kukunikeza inkululeko yokuhamba, ukuze ukwazi ukugxisha, ukugoba, noma ukuzungeza okuqukethwe yinhliziyo yakho - nokwabo - futhi ufinyelele kuwo wonke amasentimitha. Gcina isitulo esitebeleni noma isihlalo sisebenziseka kalula uma ufuna ukuphakamisa umlenze ukukhulisa ukubuka kwabo, noma ukungena ku-P yakho noma ku-V.

Izinto ongazisho

Ngokungafani nocansi ocingweni oluncike ngokuphelele kumsindo, i-video sesh ikuvumela ukuthi ubonise futhi tshela ukuthi uthathe enye ingcindezi yokuthola amagama afanele.

Yenzele ikhamela ngekhamera ngokukhwaza kakhulu ukuze bezwe konke ukuphefumula okumnandi nokububula.

Uma ufuna ukuzama inkulumo engcolile, asikho isidingo sokulandela umbhalo obanzi. Zama lokhu kuvula:

• "Ukube ubulapha ngabe ngiphulula / ngikhotha / ngincela / ngigcoba [ingxenye yomzimba wakho] kahle kakhulu."
• "Ngicabanga ukuthi ungithinta / ungihlikihla / ungigibela njengamanje ngenkathi [ngifaka lokhu okwenzayo kuwe]."
• "Ufuna ngenzeni kimi?"

Ayikwazi ukukhuluma okungcolile? Nginamagama amane ngawe: ngingu. Iyahamba. Ku. Woza.

ukwehla kwemakrofoni *

Amasu wokuzama

Zama lawa macebiso wokunciphisa i-sesh yakho ebonakalayo yokushaya indlwabu:

• Beka ikhamera phansi noma embhedeni, bese uyishaya indlwabu ngaphezulu kwayo ukuze ubuke kakhulu.
• Ukungena kuthatha ubulili bevidiyo buye kwelinye izinga, ngakho-ke thatha i-lube ne-vibe oyithandayo noma ithoyizi le-butt.
• Sebenzisa ithoyizi elilawulwa uhlelo lokusebenza bese uvumela i-boo yakho ithathe intokozo yakho ezandleni zabo ngenkathi bebuka, noma uthole eyodwa ngayinye ukuphinda kabili ukuzijabulisa.

Kuthiwani uma okuthile kungasebenzi?

Shono nje. Ukushaya indlwabu ngokufanayo kufanele kube ngazimbili phela kuyanelisa.

Uma ufuna ukushintsha amagiya, ungasho okuthile emigqeni ye:

• "Angizizwa kahle manje, kodwa ngingathanda ukuhlala ngikubhekile uma kulungile?"
• "Angizizwa lesi sikhundla / ukunyakaza / i-engeli, ingqondo uma siyishintsha?"

Uma ungazizwa nhlobo futhi ufuna ukuyeka, batshele. Ungazama:

• “Nginobunzima bokuhlala okwamanje. Mhlawumbe singazama futhi emuva kwesikhathi? ”
• "Angikuzwa lokhu futhi kungcono ngiyeke noma [ngifake omunye umsebenzi]."

Okubalulekile

Ukushaya indlwabu ngokuhlanganyela akutholi udumo olufanele, kepha kunjalo ngokuqinisekile kufanele ukwengezwe ku-repertoire yakho.

Kuphephe kahle, kungakusiza ukwazi ukuhamba kwakho kangcono kunanoma yisiphi isifundo, futhi kuqinisekisa ukuphela okuhle kubo bonke abathintekayo. Owinile!

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ungumbhali ozimele futhi umbhali obhale kakhulu kuzo zonke izinto zezempilo nezindlela zokuphila isikhathi esingaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi. Lapho engafakwanga endaweni yakhe yokubhala ecwaninga i-athikili noma evaliwe exoxa nochwepheshe bezempilo, angatholwa ebabaza azungeze idolobha lakhe lolwandle nomyeni nezinja bedonsa noma betshiza echibini bezama ukuphatha ibhodi lokugwedla lokuma.