Ngicela Usize Ukumisa Ubuhlungu Ekumosheni Impilo Yami Yezocansi

Ubuhlungu ngesikhathi socansi abwamukelekile neze.

Idizayini ngu-Alexis Lira

Umbuzo: Ucansi lubuhlungu kimi nje, noma ngabe ngihamba ngokweqile ezintweni zokuthambisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngizizwa ngibuhlungu kakhulu futhi ngiluma phansi lapho. Lonke lolu hlobo lwamanxiwa yonke into ngocansi, ngoba angikwazi ukuthola ukhululekile ngamaphesenti ayi-100. Siza, yini engingayenza?

Cha cha, lokhu akwamukelekile neze - {textend} futhi ngokungamukeleki, ngiqonde ukuthi akufanele ulindele ukuthi ucansi luzokulimaza nokuthi kufanele umane ugedle amazinyo bese uwuthwala. Ukungakhululeki kumayelana nento embi kakhulu engenzeka ngesikhathi socansi, kepha asikho isidingo sokwethuka.

Izinto zokuqala kuqala. Khuluma, noma ngabe uzizwa unovalo noma unamahloni. Wena wedwa awunakubangela ubuhlungu. Okwesibili, hlola udokotela wakho noma udokotela womzimba we-pelvic ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi awunalo icala elibi lokutheleleka ngemvubelo noma ukuphazamiseka kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Uma usuthole ilambu eliluhlaza okucacile ukuthi konke sekucacile, yilokhu engifuna ugxile kukho: ukuqala kabusha uhambo lwakho lwezocansi nokuchaza kabusha ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuzithokozisa nobumnandi - {textend} ngokwakho.

Ngithola ukuthi abantu babanjwa ngencazelo emincane kakhulu yezocansi (ikakhulukazi ukuhlangana ngokobulili besitho sangasese sowesilisa, njengoba ungadingi ukungena ukuze ube ne-orgasm). Kepha wonke umuntu wehlukile, ngakho-ke lahla lokho okulindelwe ngefasitela. Ukuze uthole induduzo, kufanele uzimisele ukuzama, ukulawula, nokuqinisekisa iqiniso lakho.

Thatha ikhalenda lakho bese ubeka ama-aphoyintimenti akho masonto onke. Vuleka, ube nelukuluku lokwesaba, futhi ungesabi. Ukuze uzithokozise, ​​thola ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwemizwa oluthokozela kakhulu, futhi ufunde konke ongakufunda ngomzimba wakho. Yazi ukuthi yini okudingeka ibekhona ukuze uzizwe usekhaya emzimbeni wakho futhi unethezekile.

Yini oyidingayo ukuze uzizwe ukhululekile futhi uphephile? Uma uthola ukuthi ukuzihlola kuzwakala kukuxakile noma kungasileli ekuqaleni, yamukele leyo micabango bese uyadedela. Phinda lokhu kuwe: NGILUNGILE, ngingumuntu wenyama, futhi kulungile ukuzizwa ngijabule.

Njengoba ukuzethemba kwakho kukhula, ungamema umlingani wakho wamanje ukuthi ahlole nawe. Gcina imizuzu engama-30 ngesonto (okungenani) ukuze wabelane ngokuthinta inkanuko nokusikhipha ngokocansi. Shintshanani, ngemizuzu engu-15 ilowo nalowo wokunikeza nokwamukela ukuthinta, kuqala kuqala ngokuthinta okungekhona okokuzalwa. Le foray emnene ingaholela ocansini, uma ukhetha.

Kepha khumbula, lokhu kumayelana nokuhlola okumsulwa, ukunweba ukuqwashiswa komzimba, nokuqaphela injabulo. Akukho mgomo we-orgasm. Uma udinga usizo oluthe xaxa ukuze uqale, kwesinye isikhathi ishawa esishisayo, amakhandlela e-aromatherapy, noma umculo othile ophumuzayo kungasiza ukukhulula ukungezwani. Futhi kukonke, ngincoma ukuthatha ikhefu kude nomsebenzi wobulili oqhubeka ngokudala ubuhlungu ngoba, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isipiliyoni singaholela ekulimaleni okukhulu.

Uma uvula ngalezi zinguquko ku-SO yakho, ungakhulumi ngakho ekamelweni ngenkathi uzama ukukuthola. Kungcono ukuba nalezi zingxoxo ngesikhathi sedina noma ekuhambeni. Iphuzu lapha ukudala indawo lapho umuntu wakho ovusa inkanuko ezizwa amukelwa khona, engacindezelwa ukuthi enze noma athobele enye incazelo yokuthi luyini ucansi.

Ukwenza ushintsho oluncane engqondweni yakho mayelana nokuthi uyibuka kanjani injabulo nokuthi ukubheka kanjani ukuvumela ukuhamba emzimbeni wakho kungakusiza ukuthi ujabulele ucansi futhi.

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