Izinto eziyi-16 okufanele uzazi ngePiquerism

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• Kwenzenjani?
• Yiziphi izinto ezisetshenziswa ngokujwayelekile?
• Yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba ezivame ukuqondiswa?
• Ngabe kwenziwa komunye umuntu njalo, noma ingabe kungenziwa nakuwe?
• Ingabe njalo i-paraphilia (yezocansi)?
• Sivelaphi lesi sifiso?
• Ngabe lokhu kuthathwa njengohlobo lwe-BDSM?
• Ingabe kuvamile?
• Kuphephile?
• Iziphi izinyathelo ongazithatha?
• Yini engenzeka uma kungathathwa izinyathelo zokuzivikela ezifanele?
• Ngabe kube nokucwaninga ngakho?
• Ichazwe kanjani ngokomlando?
• Ingabe sekuke kwabonakala ezindabeni zakamuva?
• Ngabe ibonakele kumasiko we-pop?
• Ungafunda kuphi kabanzi?

Kwenzenjani?

I-piquerism inentshisekelo yokugwaza, ukunamathela, noma ukungena esikhunjeni ngezinto ezicijile - imimese yokucabanga, izikhonkwane, noma izinzipho. Ngokuvamile kungokwemvelo ngokobulili.

Ezimweni ezimnene, ukunamathela ezinqeni noma isitho sangasese ngophini kunganele ukunikeza ukuthokoza.

Ezinye izintshisekelo, noma kunjalo, zeqise kakhulu. Ukulimala kanzima - ngisho nokufa - kungenzeka uma kungathathwa izinyathelo ezifanele.

Yiziphi izinto ezisetshenziswa ngokujwayelekile?

Noma yini ebukhali ingasetshenziswa. Izikhonkwane, izipikili, izinsingo, imimese, isikele, ngisho namapeni angakwazi ukungena esikhunjeni.

Abanye abantu abanalokhu kukhetha ucansi bangathanda izinto ezithile kuphela. Bangase bakhethe ummese othile noma izinaliti ezincanyana ezilahlwayo kuphela.

Yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba ezivame ukuqondiswa?

Ngoba i-piquerism ibhekwa njengokutholakala kocansi, izindawo eziningi ezihlosiwe zinoxhumano lwezocansi. Lokhu kuvame ukufaka amabele, izinqe, nokububula.

Kodwa-ke, kwabanye abantu, indawo ayinandaba kangako nesenzo sokubhoboza isikhumba.

Ngabe kwenziwa komunye umuntu njalo, noma ingabe kungenziwa nakuwe?

Ezimweni eziningi, i-piquerism iyajabulisa kuphela uma yenziwa komunye umuntu. Lokhu kungenzeka ngoba isenzo sokugwaza noma sokubhoboza omunye umuntu singalingisa ukungena kwezocansi.

Abanye abantu bayakuthokozela ukuzibhoboza ngesikhathi socansi noma ngaphambili.

Kodwa-ke, lokhu akuyona into efanayo nokusika futhi akufanele kudidaniswe nokuzilimaza.

Ingabe njalo i-paraphilia (yezocansi)?

Yebo, i-piquerism ibhekwa njengohlobo lwe-paraphilia, noma "isifiso esingavamile" sobulili.

Kungacatshangwa njengehlobo lokudabuka, futhi. Abanye abantu emiphakathini ye-BDSM bangafaka i-piquerism emdlalweni wabo wezocansi.

Sivelaphi lesi sifiso?

Akucaci ukuthi kungani abanye abantu beqala ukwenza ubuqili.

Akuqiniseki futhi ukuthi iqhubekela phambili isuka kolunye uhlobo lwekink noma i-fetish noma uma iqala ukubonakala njengalesi sifiso.

Eqinisweni, alukho ucwaningo olubheke ngqo kulokhu kuthandwa kocansi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani abanye abantu benalo.

Ngabe lokhu kuthathwa njengohlobo lwe-BDSM?

Yebo, i-piquerism iwela ngaphansi kwesambulela se-BDSM njengohlobo lwe "edgeplay".

Kwezinye izinhlobo ze-BDSM, imibhangqwana noma abalingani basebenza ngokuqonda ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uzogcina umdlalo wezocansi uphephile futhi uhlaziyekile. Ngeke baphikise noma badudulele umdlalo endaweni eyingozi.

Kodwa-ke, izibungu ezinjenge-piquerism ziyingozi ngokwemvelo. Ukuphamba “okuphephile” akunakwenzeka ngenxa yezingozi ezikulethayo.

Uma wonke umuntu okulesi sivumelwano ezazi izingozi futhi ezimisele ukuzamukela, angakwazi ukuvumelanisa isivumelwano sakhe.

Kuleso simo, i-edgeplay ibafaka emisebenzini engahle ibe nezingozi ezingeziwe.

Ingabe kuvamile?

I-piquerism inentshisekelo ye-niche. Kungenzeka kuvame kakhulu emphakathini we-BDSM ngenxa yezintshisekelo ezikhethekile ku-sadism naku-edgeplay.

Kodwa-ke, le kink noma fetish yezocansi ayivamile ukumbozwa ocwaningweni, ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi bangaki abantu abanayo.

Ngokufanayo, abantu bangakugwema ukukhuluma nganoma ikuphi ukuziphatha okubhekwa njengokungajwayelekile noma “okungajwayelekile,” ngakho-ke ukuzibika kokuziphatha okunjalo kungakhawulwa.

Kuphephile?

I-piquerism ayiphephile ngokwemvelo. Noma nini lapho isikhumba sihlatshwa, amagciwane angangena. Lokhu kungaholela ekuthelelekeni nasemiphumeleni emibi.

Kungenzeka futhi ukubhoboza imithambo yegazi noma imithambo. Lokhu kungaholela ekulahlekelweni okukhulu kwegazi, okungaba yingozi.

Kodwa-ke, kunezindlela zokunciphisa ezinye zalezi zingozi.

Yize ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuqapha kungahle kungabususi bonke ubungozi, izinyathelo ezithile zingasiza ukunciphisa ezinye zezingozi ezimbi kakhulu.

Iziphi izinyathelo ongazithatha?

Unganciphisa ubungozi bokutheleleka nezinye izinkinga ngokuthatha lezi zinyathelo ezilandelayo:

• Thola imvume enolwazi. Kubalulekile ukuthi wonke umuntu aqonde izingozi ezingaba khona futhi axhumane nanoma yimiphi imingcele ngaphambi kokubandakanya lolu hlobo lokudlala.
• Hlanzisisa zonke izinto. Noma yiziphi izinto ohlela ukuzisebenzisa ukuklebhula noma ukubhoboza isikhumba kufanele kubulawe inzalo. Ungawabilisa emanzini noma uwafuthise. Ungabulala amagciwane ngezinto usebenzisa amanzi anosawoti kanye ne-bleach, kepha inzalo incanyelwa ngaphezu kokubulala amagciwane.
• Khetha indawo yesikhumba ngokuhlakanipha. Ungasika ngephutha umthambo omkhulu noma umkhumbi uma ubhoboza indawo engafanele noma ugwaze ujule kakhulu. Lokhu kungasongela impilo. Khetha izindawo ezinemithambo emincane embalwa, njengamabele nezinqe.
• Hlanza kahle. Ngemuva kokuthi umdlalo usuphelile, geza noma iziphi izindawo ezibhoboziwe noma ukusikeka ngensipho elwa namagciwane namanzi afudumele bese uyomisa kahle. Faka umuthi wama-antibiotic phezu kwamabala, umboze ngebhandishi, bese uphinda nsuku zonke uze ululame.

Yini engenzeka uma kungathathwa izinyathelo zokuzivikela ezifanele?

Noma nini lapho isikhumba siphukile, amabhaktheriya angangena. Lokhu kungakhula kube ukutheleleka. Kungadinga ukwelashwa, kufaka phakathi ama-antibiotic.

Ngokufanayo, noma nini lapho ugwaza noma ubhoboza isikhumba, ungasika imithambo yegazi noma imithambo. Lokhu kungaholela ekulahlekelweni kwegazi okungasongela impilo noma kubulale nokufa.

Ngabe kube nokucwaninga ngakho?

Yize kunamacala amaningana abhalwe phansi okusolakala ukuthi yi-piquerism kuwo wonke umlando, alukho ucwaningo lwangempela olwenziwe. Imininingwane yomtholampilo kanye nezifundo zamacala nakho akukho.

Lokhu kwenza kube nzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani abanye abantu benalo mntwana futhi bathuthukise imihlahlandlela esemthethweni yokudlala okuphephile.

Ichazwe kanjani ngokomlando?

Mhlawumbe isigameko esidume kakhulu somlando we-piquerism sivela kumbulali obulalayo waseLondon ngasekupheleni kwekhulu le-19 uJack the Ripper.

Ngo-1888, lo mbulali ongaziwa wabulala abesifazane abahlanu futhi wanquma imizimba yabo, imvamisa ebagwaza noma ebasika.

Ekuhlaziyweni kuka-2005 kokubulawa kukaJack the Ripper, omunye umphenyi wabhala ukuthi “ukulimala okwenziwa izisulu kubonisa uphawu lokusayinda [lokuphamba].”

Ngekhulu lama-20, umbulali waseRussia, u-Andrei Chikatilo, wayaziwa ngokugwaza nokusika izisulu zakhe ngaphambi kokubabulala.

Ukubhoboza kungenzeka ukuthi kwamnikeza ukwaneliseka ngokocansi. Ekugcineni wabulala abantu abangaphezu kwama-50.

Ingabe sekuke kwabonakala ezindabeni zakamuva?

NgoJuni 2007, uFrank Ranieri, 25, wabekwa icala lokushaya ibanga lesibili njengecala elikhuthaza ucansi lokubhoboza amantombazane amathathu angaphansi kweminyaka ezinqeni ngezinto ezicijile.

Ngo-2011, i- "Serial Butt Slasher" yenza abathengi eVirginia baba novalo ngesikhathi egwaza abesifazane abayisishiyagalolunye ngezinsingo ezibukhali ezinqeni zabo. Kamuva wagwetshwa iminyaka eyisikhombisa ejele.

Ngabe ibonakele kumasiko we-pop?

Imidlalo yamaphoyisa kuthelevishini ivame ukuboleka izindaba zezindaba ezihlokweni zamaphephandaba. Ukubonakala kwale mibukiso kungenza izintambo ezingavamile noma izintshisekelo zibonakale zivame kakhulu kunalokho okuyikho ngempela.

Ngo-2001, i- “Law & Order: Special Victims Unit” yaveza ubuqili esiqeshini esibizwa nge- “Pique.”

Kule ndaba, udokotela wezifo zengqondo we-FBI osebenzisana namaphoyisa uyabona ukuthi umbulali owake wagebenga isisulu sakhe ngaphambilini wake wahlukunyezwa ngokocansi.

Esiqeshini, udokotela wezifo zengqondo uthi, “Uphethwe yimpango, umeluleki. Ummese umele umthondo wakhe. Ayilahlwa. ”

Ungafunda kuphi kabanzi?

Ungahle ukwazi ukuthola eminye imininingwane futhi uthole abantu abanezifiso ezifanayo uma uxhuma nomphakathi wangakini we-BDSM.

Uma ungakakwenzi lokho, bheka ukuthi kukhona yini izitolo zabantu abadala eziseduze ezinamasifundisane noma ama-meetups azayo.

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