Izimfihlo Okufanele Uzazi Kumawele Wokuqeqesha Amanzi

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• Izisekelo
• Inketho 1: Izindwangu zangaphansi zikakotini ezijiyile
• Inketho 2: turkey ebandayo
• Funa usizo
• Phinda konke
• Ukuncintisana
• Shayela ochwepheshe

Ukubuka konke

Amawele ami abecishe abe neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ngangidiniwe ngamanabukeni (yize kwakubonakala sengathi abanandaba nawo).

Ngosuku lokuqala ngikhipha amanabukeni kumawele, ngabeka izimbiza ezimbili eziphathwayo ngemuva kwegceke. Umyeni wami wayengafuni noma yikuphi ukungcola ngaphakathi endlini. Enye indlela yami enhle: Bayeke bagijime behamba-ze ngemuva kwegceke lethu.

Ngokushesha nje lapho ngivale umnyango wangemuva ngifulathele, indodana yami yabeka okhuluphele phansi. Eduze kwembiza eluhlaza ecwebezelayo ebengimbekele yona. Udadewabo obuka iwele wabuka ngokwethuka, washaqeka lapho ebona inqwaba enkulu ensundu ivela ngaphansi komfowabo. Ngemuva kwemizuzwana, laqala ukuna. Kwakuyisibonakaliso. Ukuqeqeshwa kwamabhodlela bekungeke kusheshe futhi kube lula njengoba bengicabanga.

Izindaba ezimnandi? Ngiyazi ukuthi bekunezinye izikhathi ezihlukumezayo, kodwa angikhumbuli esinye sazo. Njengobuhlungu bokukhulelwa noma bokubeletha, ngikuvimbile. Ngandlela thile, izingane zami zasinda. Bafunde ukuchama nokuchofoza ebhodweni. Mhlawumbe imfihlo eyodwa engingabelana ngayo ngokuhlangenwe nakho yile: Ungakhathazeki ngayo. Nalokhu kuzodlula.

Azikho "izimfihlo" zeqiniso ekuqeqesheni izimbiza. NjengoJamie Glowacki, umbhali we "Oh Crap! IPotty Training ”yangitshela:“ Noma ngubani othi unendlela yokuqeqeshwa ngamabhodwe ugcwele ubucayi. Ususa inabukeni enganeni. Yilokho okwenzayo. "

Izingane zakho ngeke zikhumbule ukuqeqeshwa okunamanzi. Bazodlula kukho. Lezi zeluleko ezinhlanu eziwusizo, noma kunjalo, zingasiza ekulondolozeni ingqondo yakho.

Izisekelo

Kunamafilosofi amabili ahlukene wokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza. Umyeni wami uvele wangakwazi ukuthwala umqondo wokuchama nokuchamela phansi. Futhi besingabazali ababili abasebenzayo sinesikhathi esincane namandla okugcina. Ngakho-ke sakhetha uhlobo oluhle kakhulu - nolude - loqeqesho lwamanzi.

Inketho 1: Izindwangu zangaphansi zikakotini ezijiyile

Sifaka izingane ebhulukweni lokuqeqesha, izingubo zangaphansi zikakotini eziwugqinsi. Bezizwa benamanzi lapho bechama, kodwa kubanike isikhathi esithe xaxa sokugijimela endlini yangasese.

Inketho 2: turkey ebandayo

Le ndlela "yokufa okungazelelwe" yinhle ngokulula kwayo. Phonsa amanabukeni. Lindela isiphithiphithi. Ungabheki emuva. Khetha le ndlela uma ungahlala ekhaya nezingane zakho okungenani ezintathu, mhlawumbe ezine, izinsuku zilandelana.

Zombili lezi zindlela zingakhungathekisa kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu uma ulinda kuze kube yilapho izingane zakho zikhombisa ezinye izimpawu zokulungela, njengokufihla i-poop noma i-pee, noma ukuhamba isikhathi eside phakathi kwamanabukeni amanzi.

Funa usizo

Awukwazi ukukwenza wedwa. Uma oshade naye engekho ebhodini, thola ugogo noma umkhulu, umzanyana, noma umngani oyigeyimu.

Lapho amanabukeni esevaliwe, izingane eziningi zimane ziqale ukuchama phansi. Ukhiye ukubayisa endlini yokugezela ngokushesha okukhulu, ukuze bakuhlobanise nokuthi kuchame.

Kulula ngeyodwa kokukabili (noma ngaphezulu), noma kunjalo.

“Uma ufika ebhodweni, elinye lisekhoneni liyachama. Kunzima impela ukwenza lokhu wedwa baze baqale ukwenza ukuxhumana, ”kusho uGlowacki.

Iningi lezingane (uma zikhule ngokwanele futhi zilungile) zizobona ukukhanya ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa.

Phinda konke

Ngithengele indodana yami imbiza eluhlaza, imbiza eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka yendodakazi yami. Leyo kwakuyimibala yabo abayithandayo - noma ngicabanga kanjalo.

Baqhudelana baba ngabokuqala ukuhlala embizeni eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Akekho owayefuna phansi kwabo kokuluhlaza. Isifundo esifundile. Thola izimbiza ezifanayo. Thenga ngokwanele ukuze ube namasethi amabili kuyo yonke indlu yokugezela ekhaya lakho. Izingane zidla ngasikhathi sinye. Bazodlala ngasikhathi sinye, futhi.

Ukuncintisana

Yisebenzise ukuze uzuze! Uma iwele elilodwa likhombisa intshisekelo ebhodweni kodwa elinye belingenakukukhathalela, kulungile. Gxila kwiwele elihlanganyele kakhulu.

Bazosebenza njengesibonelo somunye. Njengabazali, sifuna ukuphatha izingane zethu ngokulingana. Umthetho omuhle ngokujwayelekile, kepha hhayi kuleli cala. Bayeke bancintisane.

Shayela ochwepheshe

Izingane zakho zizoba nesineke kakhulu kunalokho ozoba ngakho mayelana nokuqeqeshwa kwezimbiza. Inikeze okungenani isonto, kusho uGlowacki.

Uma ungaboni uphawu olusha kunazo zonke lwenqubekela phambili, bese ubonisana nochwepheshe. I-Pee kulula ukubhekana nayo. Izinkinga eziningi zigxile ebhuqwini. Ungahle ufune izeluleko zochwepheshe kusukela lapho uhamba khona uma wazi ukuthi ingane yakho iyaqunjelwa.

Ngokufanayo, uma ubhekene nomnqamulajuqu wangaphandle - uma isikole sakho sasenkulisa singeke samukele izingane zakho ngaphandle kokuthi ziqeqeshwe ebhodweni, isibonelo - ungahle ufune ukuletha ochwepheshe.

Kepha noma yini oyenzayo, ungathumeli ezinkundleni zokuxhumana oqala ukuba yimbiza yokuqeqesha izingane zakho. Wonke umzali oke wadlula kule nqubo uzishaya isazi. Sikunikeza kalula izeluleko eziningi ezingacelwanga nezingqubuzanayo. Kodwa uwena ochwepheshe ezinganeni zakho.

Zethembe. Ungasilaleli.

U-Emily Kopp ungumama wamawele futhi uhlala endaweni yaseWashington, D.C. Uyintatheli eneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-13 yokuhlangenwe nakho kokubika nokuhlela kuwo womabili amapulatifomu okusakaza nawedijithali emazingeni endawo, kazwelonke nakwamanye amazwe. Thola okuningi ngomsebenzi wakhe lapha.