I-Orgasm Ngesikhathi Sokukhulelwa: Kungani Ihle (nokuthi Yehluke Kanjani)

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• Ngabe akuphephile yini ukuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
• Kuyini ukuphumula kwe-pelvic?
• Izwakala kanjani i-orgasm yokukhulelwa, nge-trimester
• I-trimester yokuqala
• I-trimester yesibili
• I-trimester yesithathu
• Akekho umlingani odingekayo
• Kuthiwani ngalelohemuhemu lelo le-orgasm eletha ukusebenza?
• Ukuthatha

Kungazizwa sengathi izinguquko zokukhulelwa konke.

Ngandlela thile, kuyenzeka. Weqa indawo yakho oyithandayo ye-sushi futhi ufinyelela i-steak eyenziwe kahle esikhundleni salokho. Iphunga elincane kakhulu kubonakala sengathi uphuthuma endlini yangasese ukuyochitha, futhi nama-sitcom angakushiya udaka lwezinyembezi. Ucele i-OB yakho yonke into ngaphansi kwelanga, ukuthi ungaba nenkomo yenkomo yini noma ngabe isisu sakho sizophuma phambili - futhi kungani.

Kepha kunesihloko esisodwa ozibuza ngaso ozizwe ungakhululeki ukusikhulisa: i-O enkulu.

Ngabe kulungile ukuthi ube ne-orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? (Futhi uma usuvele unayo, kungani izwakale iyinhle ngempela - ingcono kunakuqala?)

Impendulo emfushane inguyebo, ezimweni eziningi, kulungile impela ukuba ne-orgasm ngenkathi ukhulelwe - empeleni, futhi kungaba yinhle enhlalakahleni yakho engokomzwelo nengqondo.

Ake sibhekisise ukuphepha kwe-orgasm, imizwa kuma-trimesters wokuqala, wesibili, nowesithathu, kanye nenganekwane enkulu mayelana nama-orgasms aletha abasebenzi - debunked.

Ngabe akuphephile yini ukuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?

Uma kukhulunywa ngocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kuningi okungadala ukungabaza: Ungahle ungazizwa "usemoyeni," ngenxa yamahomoni nokugula kwasekuseni; umlingani wakho angakhathazeka ngokuthi "uzopheka ingane" noma akulimaze; futhi nobabili ningaba nokukhathazeka ngama-orgasms nezinciphiso zesibeletho.

Hlala ubuza nodokotela wakho ukuthi wena ulungile yini uma ufuna ukuya ocansini. Kodwa uma udokotela wakho engakutshelanga ngenye indlela, futhi ukukhulelwa kwakho kuyingozi encane, ngokuvamile kuphephe ngokuphelele ukukuthola phakathi kwamashidi.

Eqinisweni, lapho abacwaningi bebheka izifundo ezibandakanya abesifazane abakhulelwe abangu-1,483, bathola ukuthi akukho mehluko ophawulekayo phakathi kwalabo abaya ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabo nalabo abangazange benze uma kuziwa ekunciphiseni ukuphambana kwabasebenzi.

Abaphenyi babuye baphawula ukuthi ekukhulelweni okuyingozi kakhulu, ucansi aluhlotshaniswa "nokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ukuqhekeka ngaphambi kwesikhathi kolwelwesi, noma isisindo esiphansi sokuzalwa."

Kodwa-ke, uma unokunye kwalokhu okulandelayo, udokotela wakho angakutshela ukuthi uyeke ukuya ocansini:

• ukubona noma ukopha
• umlomo wesibeletho ongenamakhono (lapho umlomo wesibeletho mfushane kunamamilimitha angaba ngu-22 futhi usengozini enkulu yokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi)
• i-vasa previa (lapho imikhumbi yezintambo igijima kakhulu eduze komlomo wesibeletho)
• i-placenta previa (lapho i-placenta imboza umlomo wesibeletho)

Futhi, ungayi ocansini uma amanzi akho esevele ephukile. I-Amniotic fluid yakha isithiyo esivikelayo phakathi kwengane yakho nezwe elingaphandle - ngaphandle kwalo, usengozini yokutheleleka.

Kuyini ukuphumula kwe-pelvic?

Uma udokotela wakho ekubeka "ekuphumuleni okhalweni" futhi engakachazanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini lokho, buza imibuzo ngokuphelele. Imvamisa kusho ukuthi abukho ubulili besifazane ngoba ukukhulelwa kwakho kubhekwa njengengozi enkulu. Njengoba ukwazi ukufeza i-orgasm ngaphandle kocansi olungena ngaphakathi, kufanelekile ukucacisa ukuthi imiphi imikhawulo engekho.

Uma ukukhulelwa kwakho kuyingozi enkulu ngezinye izizathu, njengokuphindaphinda, khuluma ne-OB yakho. Ukubuyekezwa okukodwa kwezifundo kwathola ukuthi alukho nje ucwaningo olwanele mayelana nezocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa okuyingozi kakhulu.

Izwakala kanjani i-orgasm yokukhulelwa, nge-trimester

I-trimester yokuqala

Ubulili ku-trimester yokuqala bungaba bukhulu, noma bungabhekana “nokuqala okungamanga” okuningi: Unesimo semizwa ngomzuzu owodwa, futhi igagasi lesicanucanu likushaya ngokulandelayo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umzimba wakho usuvele uzwela kakhudlwana - ngokwesibonelo, amabele akho, angahle abe nesisa ekuthinteni futhi ngenxa yalokho avuselelwe kalula ngumlingani wakho noma nguwe uqobo. I-libido yakho ingakhuphuka, nayo. Lezi zinto, kanye nokuthambisa okungokwemvelo okuningi phansi lapho, kungahle kuholele ku-orgasms esheshayo neyanelisayo.

Noma, ungahle udinge ukulinda ukungakhululeki kwezimpawu zokuqala ze-trimester kudlule. Futhi i-libido yabesifazane ethile iyancipha empeleni. Futhi kulungile, futhi. Konke kungaphakathi kwendawo ejwayelekile.

I-trimester yesibili

Lokhu kungaba yindawo emnandi uma kukhulunywa ngokufinyelela kwakho, i-ahem, indawo emnandi.

Ngokugula kwasekuseni (imvamisa) into yesikhathi esedlule nokungahambi kahle kwe-trimester yesithathu okusazokuza, ucansi kanye ne-orgasm phakathi ne-trimester yesibili kungaba okujabulisa kakhulu.

Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ongazithola:

• Ama-orgasms akho angajabulisa kakhudlwana. Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zalokhu, mhlawumbe okuyinhloko ukwanda kokugeleza kwegazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi isibeletho sakho nendawo yangasese kuhlanganiswe kakhulu, okungasho ukuzwela okukhulu. Lokhu kungahamba nganoma iyiphi indlela kuya ngomuntu, kepha kwabaningi, kusho Okuningi ubumnandi - nama-orgasms alula.
• Ungase uzizwe ukuvaleka kwesibeletho se-post-orgasm noma amajaqamba. Lezi zivamile ngokuphelele futhi zize zenzeke uma ungakhulelwe - ungahle ungazizwa ngaphandle kokuthi ukhulelwe. Ungakhathazeki - lezi zingqinamba akuzona ezabasebenzi, futhi ngeke zize nomsebenzi. Amajaqamba ngokuvamile azoncipha ngokuphumula.
• Isisu sakho singazizwa sinzima kakhulu. Lokhu okunye ukwenzeka okuvamile ngesikhathi se-orgasm, ukhulelwe noma cha. Kepha ngesikhumba sakho eseluliwe nesisu esinwetshiwe, maningi amathuba okuthi uzobona lo muzwa ngokwengeziwe.
• Ukukhishwa kwamahomoni kungahlanganiswa. Esikushoyo yilokhu: Umzimba wakho usuvele ukhiqiza i-oxytocin eningi ("i-hormone yothando") ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uzokhipha okuningi uma une-orgasm. Futhi lokho ngokujwayelekile kuzozizwa kuhle kakhulu.

I-trimester yesithathu

Ubulili ngokujwayelekile bungaba nzima ngokwengeziwe ngesikhathi sokwelulwa kwekhaya okuyi-trimester yesithathu. Phakathi kokunye, i-baby bump yakho ethandekayo ingazizwa ifana nesaka elikhulu lamazambane: kunzima ukuthwala futhi uhlala usendleleni. (Yilapho kungena khona izikhundla zocansi lokudala!)

Kepha futhi, ungaba nesikhathi esinzima ukufinyelela ku-O omkhulu. Uma ingane ithatha indawo eningi esibelethweni sakho, imisipha ingase ingakwazi ukuvumelana ngokugcwele njengoba kudingeka ukuze ifike kuvuthondaba.

Akekho umlingani odingekayo

I-orgasm iyi-orgasm, noma ngabe ibandakanya abantu ababili noma oyedwa kuphela. Ngakho ukushaya indlwabu kuphephe ngokuphelele ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa - ngaphandle uma utshelwe ukuthi uyeke - ngakho-ke usebenzisa amathoyizi ocansi.

Khumbula nje ukwenza inhlanzeko futhi ugcine noma yimaphi amathoyizi owasebenzisayo ehlanzekile - manje akusona isikhathi ofuna ukukhathazeka ngaso ngezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi, ezingaziswa umzimba wakho ngepipi, ngomunwe, noma ithoyizi.

Kuthiwani ngalelohemuhemu lelo le-orgasm eletha ukusebenza?

Iningi lethu liyizwile. Ludlulile usuku lwakho olubekiwe futhi usukulungele ukuthola lolu hlelo emgwaqweni? Thatha uhambo olude. Yidla ukudla okubabayo. Futhi wenze ucansi.

Uma uyikholelwa le nsumansumane, kunengqondo ukuthi unganqikaza ukuba ne-orgasm ngaphambi kosuku lwakho olufanele ngokwesaba ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kepha nansi into: Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Amahemuhemu ayaqhubeka, kepha akwenziwanga lokho.

Ocwaningweni olulodwa lwango-2014, abacwaningi bahlukanisa abesifazane abakhulelwe baba ngamaqembu amabili - labo abaya ocansini kabili ngesonto nalabo abangahlanganyeli. Abesifazane babesesikhathini - okusho ukuthi, ingane yayikulungele ukuvela. Kepha abacwaningi abatholanga mehluko ophawulekayo ngokwezibalo emaqenjini amabili lapho kufika ukuqala komsebenzi.

Futhi njengoba sesishilo kakade, ukubuyekezwa okukhulu kakhulu kwezifundo ngokufanayo kwathola ukuthi ucansi alukhuphulanga ubungozi bokusebenza okuzenzekelayo.

(Isexwayiso se-Spoiler: Abukho ubufakazi bokuthi ukudla okubabayo kuletha kwabasebenzi, noma.)

Ukuthatha

Izindaba ezimnandi uma ukukhulelwa kunamahomoni akho avuthayo ne-libido yakho ophahleni: Kuphephe ngokuphelele ukuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa okuyingozi kakhulu.

Uma ukukhulelwa kwakho kuyingozi enkulu futhi kungaphephile kuwe, udokotela wakho kufanele akutshele. Noma kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuba naleyo ngxoxo. Futhi uma uzizwa unamahloni ngokubuza, khumbula: Ama-OBs akuzwile konke. Asikho isihloko okufanele sivinjelwe.

Futhi ubuhlakani besintu obudala obuthi ucansi luletha ukusebenza? Akusekelwa nje. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe unamasonto ayisishiyagalombili noma amasonto angama-42, zizwe ukhululekile ukuba matasa nomlingani wakho - noma wena - futhi ujabulele i-O.