Lona ngumlayezo Obalulekile Womzimba kaSerena Williams Kwabesifazane Abancane
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Ngenkathi enzima yethenisi ngemuva kwakhe, umphathi weGrand Slam uSerena Williams uthatha isikhathi esidingeka kakhulu kuye. "Le sizini, ikakhulukazi, benginesikhathi esiningi sokuphumula, futhi kufanele ngikutshele, bengikudinga ngempela," utshela ABANTU engxoxweni ekhethekile. "Ngempela bengiyidinga kulo nyaka odlule kodwa angikwazanga ukuthatha leso sikhathi. Kuyigaya, yizinyanga eziyi-10 kuya kweziyi-11 zokusebenza ngokungayeki."
Lapho le ntokazi eneminyaka engu-35 ubudala ingekho matasatasa kakhulu ekwenzeni umlando wethenisi, waziwa ngokusabalalisa injabulo emzimbeni edingeka kakhulu kubalandeli bakhe - ikakhulukazi amantombazane amancane.
"Yilokho engiyikho, futhi ngifuna abantu baziqhenye ngokuthi bangobani," usho kanje. "Izikhathi eziningi abesifazane abasebasha batshelwa ukuthi abalungile ngokwanele noma ababukeki kahle ngokwanele, noma akufanele bakwenze lokhu, noma akufanele babukeke kanjalo. Ngempela akekho umuntu okufanele ahlulele lokho ngaphandle yakho, futhi ngokujwayelekile, lowo umyalezo engifuna abantu bawubone. " (Funda: Izingcaphuno ezi-5 eziphezulu zeSerena Williams)
Njengengxenye yalowo myalezo, uSerena nodadewabo uVenus Williams muva nje bethule inkundla yethenisi evuselelwe eCompton, eCalifornia, benethemba lokukhuthaza isizukulwane esisha ukuthi sithathe ithenisi.
“Sikhulele eCompton, futhi besifuna ukuzama ukubuyisela emphakathini ngendlela ebesazi ngayo, nangendlela ezoba nomthelela omkhulu entsheni lapho,” usho kanje. "Eqinisweni, ukwenza lokhu kube kuhle ngempela futhi kwalolonga impilo yami ngezindlela ebengingeke ngizizwe. Akubona bonke abantu abanethuba lokudlala imidlalo, ikakhulukazi ithenisi, futhi mhlawumbe kungashintsha izimpilo zabo."
Isifiso sikaSerena sokukhuthaza nokukhuthaza abesifazane abasha ukuthi baqhubeke namaphupho abo sivela emlandweni omude wokugxekwa kanzima ngokubukeka kwakhe. Naphezu kwekhono lakhe elingaqondakali lokumangala enkantolo, abazonda kanye nama-troll bavame ukukhetha ukugxila ekubukeni kwakhe kunethalente lakhe, futhi ufuna ukukushintsha lokho.
"Abantu banelungelo lokuthola imibono yabo, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngizizwa kanjani ngami," etshela I-Fader ngenkathi ephendula abazondayo. "Kufanele ukuthande, futhi uma ungakuthandi akekho omunye. Futhi uma ukuthanda abantu bazokubona lokho, futhi bazokuthanda." Leyo yinto sonke esingabuyela emuva.