Ingabe Kufanele Wethembe Ukuphawula Okuku-inthanethi Ngezihloko Zezempilo?

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Izigaba zokubeka amazwana ku-inthanethi ngokuvamile zingenye yezinto ezimbili: umgodi kadoti wenzondo nokungazi noma ingcebo yolwazi nokuzijabulisa. Kwesinye isikhathi uthola kokubili. Lawa mazwi, ikakhulukazi lawo asezinhlotsheni zezempilo, angathonya ngendlela emangalisayo. Mhlawumbe futhi okukholisayo, kusho ababhali besifundo esisha esishicilelwe ku- Izindaba Zezempilo.

Ngubani ongazange afunde i-athikili ngendaba yezempilo enenkinobho eshisayo, njengemithi yokugoma noma ukukhipha isisu, futhi wamunca esigabeni sokuphawula? Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukwazi ukuthi wonke umuntu ucabangani nokuthi ngabe omunye umuntu uzizwa ngendlela efanayo nawe. Kepha ukumane ufunde imibono eyakhayo noma engemihle kungashintsha umbono wakho ngesihloko, noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi uqine impela emibonweni yakho.

Ukuhlola lokhu, abacwaningi bathatha abantu abayi-1,700 babahlukanisa ngamaqembu amathathu: Iqembu lokuqala lifunde i-athikili engathathi hlangothi mayelana nokuzalwa kwasekhaya ngesigaba sokuphawula esigcwele amazwi amahle mayelana nalo mkhuba; Iqembu lesibili lifunde ucezu olufanayo kodwa libe nengxenye yokuphawula ngokuqinile ngokumelene nokuzalwa ekhaya; Iqembu lesithathu lifunde nje i-athikili ngaphandle kokuphawula. Ababambiqhaza babuzwa ukuthi babelane ngemizwa yabo ngokuzalwa kwasekhaya ngaphambi nangemva kokuhlolwa ngokubeka imizwa yabo esikalini kusuka ku-0 (kuzonde, kungukubulala) kuye ku-100 (into enhle kunayo yonke, ngibeletha ekamelweni lami manje) .

Abaphenyi bathole ukuthi abantu abafunda ukuphawula okuhle banikeze amaphuzu alinganisiwe angama-63 kanti labo abafunda izimpendulo ezingezinhle balinganiselwa kuma-39. Abantu abangenakho ukuphawula bebephakathi nendawo ngokuqinile ngama-52. Ukusabalala kuye kwabanzi kakhulu lapho izindaba zomuntu siqu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho (kungaba okuhle noma okubi) kwabelwane ngakho kumazwana. (Okuhlobene: Umhlahlandlela Wentombazane Enempilo Ekufundeni Amabhulogi Okudla.)

Ukuthambekela kwethu ukuphazanyiswa ukuphawula kwe-inthanethi cishe akuyona into enkulu uma sikhuluma ngendlela yokugqoka amabhuzu nge-jeans yesoka kodwa uma kuziwa empilweni yethu, izibalo ziba phezulu kakhulu-into engiyithole kanzima. .

Eminyakeni embalwa edlule kwatholakala ukuthi nginesifo senhliziyo esingajwayelekile. (Zama Izithelo Ezihamba Phambili Zokudla Okunempilo-Enempilo.) Ngihlolisise i-inthanethi ukuthola imininingwane, kepha izindatshana ezimbalwa engizitholile bezigcwele imbiza yezokwelapha noma bezingasebenzi esimweni sami esithile. Kodwa izigaba zokuphawula zangisindisa. Lapho ngathola abanye abesifazane abasebasha bezabalaza ngento efanayo futhi ngafunda ukuthi yini ebasebenzele nalokho okungasebenzanga.

Ngeshwa, ngathembela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kwe-anecdotal phezu kwezifundo zesayensi kanye ne-doc yami-ababeyiphila ngemuva kwakho konke, futhi wayengekho. Ngakho-ke ngagcina ngizama isithasiselo se-herbal esingahloliwe engasibona situswa ezigabeni eziningi zokuphawula... futhi kwenza izimpawu zami zibe zimbi kakhulu, zibe zimbi kakhulu. (Futhi, kwanginikeza isifo sohudo okuyilokho kanye okudingayo uma unezinkinga zenhliziyo!) Lapho ekugcineni ngitshela udokotela wenhliziyo yami engikwenzile, wamangala ukuthi ngangizame okuthile ngoba umuntu othile ophawula nge-inthanethi wangitshela ukuthi.

Ngifunde isifundo sami ngokuthatha imishanguzo, ngisho neyemithi, ngaphandle kokukhuluma nodokotela wami kuqala. Kodwa ngenqaba ukuyeka ukufunda imibono. Zingenza ngizizwe ngingeyedwa, zingigcina ngisesikhathini ngokuthola okusha noma ukuhlinzwa kokuhlola, futhi zinginika imibono yokwelashwa okungenzeka ngikwazi ukukuyisa kudokotela wami.

Futhi ukuthola lokho kulinganisela phakathi kwenkolelo eyimpumputhe nokusebenza kuyisihluthulelo. "Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele sivale izigaba zokuphawula noma sizame ukucindezela izindaba zomuntu siqu," kusho u-Holly Witteman, umbhali oholayo walolu cwaningo kanye noprofesa osizayo e-Faculty of Medicine e-Université Laval esitatimendeni sabezindaba. "Uma amasayithi ehluleka ukusingatha izingxoxo ezinjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi avele nje avele kwenye indawo."

Ubuye wengeza ukuthi yize ikhwalithi yamazwana kwesinye isikhathi ingxoxwa ngayo, imithombo yezokuxhumana iyithuluzi elibalulekile elivumela abantu ukuthi babelane futhi bathole imininingwane ngezihloko ezihlobene nempilo yabo - okuyinto enhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uthe ukwaba imininingwane kungasiza kakhulu uma kungekho ukuvumelana ngesihloko emphakathini wesayensi noma uma ukukhetha komuntu kwehlela kumagugu abo noma ezintweni abazithandayo.

Ngakho esikhundleni sokwenqabela ukuphawula noma ukutshela abantu ukuthi bangabaniki ubufakazi, uWitteman usikisela ukuthi izingosi zezempilo zisebenzise abengameli bamazwana futhi zenze ochwepheshe batholakale ukuze baphendule imibuzo ethandwayo. Uma lokho kungatholakali, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngaphambi kokufaka noma yikuphi ukuphawula esenzweni.

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