Ingabe Kufanele Uhlole Ubani Ongakuhloniphi Ku-Facebook?

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Akunakuphikwa ukuthi isikhathi sakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana singathinta i-psyche yakho. (Kubi Kangakanani Ingabe I-Facebook, Twitter, ne-Instagram for Mental Health?) Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungukwaneliseka kokuthandwa okwanele ku-Instagram yakho ukuze uguqule amagama uye kwinombolo (10-plus, hhayi ukuthi sibala...) noma umona ngomngane wakho. ukudonsa okuhle, lokho odlula kukho izindaba. Kungakho uhlelo olusha lokusebenza olukuvumela ukuthi ubone ukuthi ubani owakwenza umngane ku-Facebook ludume kakhulu-futhi luyingozi empilweni yakho yengqondo.

Ubani Ongisusile ugcina uhlu lwabangani bakho be-Facebook ngesikhathi ulilanda, bese liyabuyekeza uma ungena futhi ekutheni yimuphi kubangani bakho okususile noma abavale ama-akhawunti abo. Akuwona neze owokuqala wohlobo lwayo; izinhlelo zokusebenza ezifanayo ezifana nokuthi Ubani Ongangilandeli Nomngane noma Landela zikhona ukulandelela abalandeli ku-Twitter naku-Instagram, futhi kube nezinye izinguqulo ze-tracker ye-Facebook futhi. Ngempicabadala ye-virality, nokho, i- Who Deleted Me izuze abasebenzisi bayo abangu-330,000 kwabangu-500,000 ngenyanga edlule. Ilukuluku elisheshayo empeleni lidale ukuphuma nokuphahlazeka ngempelasonto yesine kaJulayi.

Siyakuthola-izizathu zokuthi kungani omunye umuntu angakuthandi ubungani ku-Facebook ziyaheha futhi ziyimfihlakalo njengokuthi kungani leyontombazane engahleliwe ikuphonsa umthunzi emgwaqweni. Kodwa okubaluleke nakakhulu, kungani unendaba? “Abantu basabela ekungabini ubungane ngezindlela eziningi ezihlukene,” kusho uJulie Gurner, umelaphi wezokwelapha ozinze eNew York ofunda amasiko nobuchwepheshe. "Abanye bahlekisiwe futhi bayadelela, abanye bayalimala futhi badabukile. Kodwa uhlobo lwabantu abangaqapha eduze uhlu lwabangani babo yilolo hlobo okungenzeka bazizwe belimele."

Kufana nesiprofetho esizigcwalisayo sokungathandwa, ngandlela thile. Labo abaqaphile bangahle bakuphaphele ukwenqatshwa, uGurner uyanezela. "Futhi lolu hlelo lokusebenza lubeka ukwenqatshwa phambili naphakathi nendawo."

Lokho kungasikisela ukuthi noma ngubani olanda uhlelo lokusebenza ukuqala angazethembi, kepha uGurner akumangazi ukuthi i-tracker ithandwa kakhulu. “Umkhuba osukhona manje wukuqapha izinto eziningi ngendlela esingakwazi ngayo ngempilo yethu,” kuchaza yena. "Singakwazi ukulandelela ukufaneleka kwethu, ukulala kwethu, izinyathelo zethu ngosuku. Ngokombono wengqondo, singase sibe nelukuluku lokwazi ukuthi ubani ongasenzi ubungane nathi futhi nini."

Mayelana nokuthi kungani leyo ntombazane ebangeni lakho lesishiyagalolunye lobuciko bekilasi manje ingakufakile, kuhle, kunezizathu eziningi ongase ungafuni ukubona isimo somuntu noma izithombe noma izindatshana ezabiwe ku-Facebook. "Elinye lamaqembu avame ukungafakwa kubantu esingabazi esikoleni esiphakeme, abavame ukwenza izitatimende kwezepolitiki esingavumelani nazo," kusho uGurner. Lokho kuzwakala kulungile. Kepha ngoba kunezindlela eziningi zokungamnaki umngani ku-Facebook, njengokungalandeli noma ukufihla noma ukungathandi nje izinto zabo, ukwengeza okucacile isitatimende esiqinile sokwenqaba, uyanezela. "Kungazwakala kungazelelwe."

Mhlawumbe awukwazi ukusiza kodwa hlola uhlelo lokusebenza-luyathakazelisa! Kepha cabanga ngazo zonke izizathu wena ungahle ungabi ngumngane womuntu-izihlobo zabo zepolitiki, izithombe zabo zengane, indlela abaphule ngayo inhliziyo yakho futhi manje sebenentombi entsha-futhi baqonde ukuthi abanye bangazizwa ngendlela efanayo ngawe. Futhi akufanele ucasulwe yilokho. "Kukhona ukwehla kwemvelo nokugeleza kokuxhumana nabantu," kusho uGurner, njengoba kune-IRL.

Qiniseka ukuthi awugxili ekwaliweni ngendlela engenampilo, futhi ukulungele ukulanda.

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