Ngaphambi Kokuletha Ingane Ekhaya, Nansi Indlela Yokulungisa Izilwane Ezifuywayo

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• Ukulungiselela isilwane sakho ukufika kwengane
• Yenza uhlelo
• Yethula isilwane sakho kwimisindo yengane ejwayelekile nephunga
• Izindlela ze-Shift kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo yokunakekelwa kwezilwane
• Sungula imithetho emisha
• Letha ekhaya ukwamukela izingubo zokulala noma ama-onesies ingane yakho egqoke ngaphambi kokukhishwa
• Ukwethula isilwane sakho enganeni yakho
• Yethula usana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa kancane, ngokwemigomo yesilwane sakho
• Gada konke ukuxhumana

Akukhona konke ngenhlanhla. Ukuhlela okuncane kungasiza izingane zakho zoboya ukuba zihambisane nengane yakho entsha.

Lapho indodakazi yami izalwa ehlobo lika-2013, ngangicabanga ukuthi konke ngikwazi konke. Ngiqonde ukuthi, bengingazi ukuthi ngingalishintsha kanjani inabukeni, ngifudumeze ibhodlela, ngiphampa, noma ngincelise ibele, kodwa ikhaya lami belilungile.

Inkulisa yethu ibigcwele - ngama-lotion, ama-potions, okhilimu, ama-balms, nama-wipe - futhi besike saya emakilasini amaningi okuzala nokubeletha. Ngangazi konke mayelana namaWonder Weeks nokudideka kwezingono. Kepha phakathi nezinyanga zethu zokulungiselela eziyi-8-plus, asikaze sicabange ukuthi sizokwenzenjani ngamakati ethu.

Asikaze sicabange ukuthi kufanele (futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi) singenise kanjani umntwana wethu omusha ezinganeni zethu ezinoboya kuze kube sekuseni sokuphuma kwethu. Saze sayindlela ebheke ekhaya.

Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi sibe nenhlanhla. Womabili “amakati omama” kanye nekati lethu elincane, elinamandla asheshe alungiswa ngendlela emangalisayo - futhi kahle - kepha i-Animal Humane Society (AHS) isikisela ukuthi ulungiselele abangane bakho abanemilenze emine kusenesikhathi ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane: “Ukuthatha isikhathi ukulungiselela imfuyo yakho ukufika kwengane nokuyethula kahle lapho ingane yakho izelwe kuzosiza ekwenzeni lolu shintsho lube nokuthula kubo bonke abathintekayo. ”

Ngenhlanhla, kunezindlela eziningana zokwenza lokhu, futhi ayikho indlela ephelele noma engalungile ngokuphelele. Inqubo incike ohlotsheni lwesilwane osifuyile, ubuntu baso, uhlobo lwazo, nomndeni wakho osuvele ukhona onamandla. Kodwa-ke, kunezeluleko namasu ambalwa ajwayelekile.

Ukulungiselela isilwane sakho ukufika kwengane

Sibe nenhlanhla, kodwa kungcono ukugwema ukungena ngaphakathi ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela. Empeleni, lapho wenza okwengeziwe ngaphambi kokufika kwengane yakho kulapho unganciphisa khona ushintsho kuwo wonke umuntu.

Yenza uhlelo

Noma ngabe umngani wakho onoboya uyinja, ikati, noma esinye isilwane, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukwenza uhlelo. Ngokwe-American Kennel Club (AKC), “Izinja zingaba abafundi abalangazelelekayo, kodwa futhi zingabonisa umona ngoba azisekho ukunakwa.” Kunjalo nangamakati. I-Felines ingaba nentukuthelo futhi abanye balwa noshintsho.

Kanjalo, uzofuna ukusebenzisa isikhathi sokukhulelwa ukulungiselela ikati lakho noma inja ekufikeni kwengane.I-ASPCA iphakamisa ukuthi ubhalise inja yakho emakilasini ayisisekelo okulalela futhi uthuthele ibhokisi lodoti wekati lakho endaweni eyimfihlo kakhulu. Kufanele futhi usethe ifenisha yezinkulisa ngokushesha okukhulu, ngoba lokhu kuzonikeza ikati lakho amasonto ambalwa ukuthi liphenye indawo ngayinye ngaphambi kokuyiveza ukuthi ayinamkhawulo.

Yethula isilwane sakho kwimisindo yengane ejwayelekile nephunga

Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zinomsindo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuphela kwendlela abangadlulisa ngayo ukungaphatheki kahle, indlala, ukudabuka, noma ukukhathala ukukhala. Kepha ukuxokozela okungeziwe kungacindezela ezilwaneni ezincane. Izinja namakati zingakhathazeka, zikhungatheke futhi zikhathazeke. Ukugwema lokhu, i-ASPCA incoma ukwethula imisindo ejwayelekile nephunga esilwaneni sakho ngaphambi kokufika kwengane.

Eqinisweni, basikisela ukusebenzisa ukurekhodwa kwemisindo yengane ngokuhlangana nokuphatha ukusiza izilwane zakho zenze izinhlangano. Kungani? Ngoba esikhundleni sokwesaba noma ukucasulwa umsindo, inja noma ikati lakho lizolamukela. "Uzofunda ukubheka phambili kubo ngoba babikezela ukunakwa nokuphatha," kuchaza i-ASPCA.

Izindlela ze-Shift kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo yokunakekelwa kwezilwane

Konke kuzoshintsha lapho ingane yakho ifika, yakho nezilwane ezifuywayo. Isikhathi sokuhamba nsuku zonke singancishiswa, isikhathi sizoshintsha impela, futhi kokubili ukuphakelwa nesikhathi sokudlala kuzothinteka.

Njengalokhu, uma uzoba umnakekeli oyinhloko wengane yakho, ungahle uthande ukwehlisa le misebenzi kumuntu omthandayo noma kumlingani wakho noma uqale ukushintsha inqubo yakho yansuku zonke.

I-AKC iphakamisa ukuthi kwenziwe izinguquko kancane kancane kumashejuli noma kubanakekeli ngaphambi kwengane entsha ukuze isilwane sakho singahlobanisi ushintsho nengane entsha. Vele, kukhona okungaphezu nje kwezinguquko zesheduli ezisendleleni.

Ungazama ngokuletha isitiloli esingenalutho lapho uhamba khona ukuze inja yakho ijwayele uhlelo olusha ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubhekane nezinselelo ngaphandle kwengcindezi yosana olusanda kuzalwa ekuxubeni. Ungase futhi ufune ukuqasha umhleli wezinja noma ohamba ngezinyawo ukwehlisa omunye umthwalo kuwe.

Sungula imithetho emisha

Ukubeka imingcele ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane kubalulekile. Uma kungenjalo, isilwane sakho singahle sicasuke inqwaba yenjabulo yakho. Kulula futhi ukuphoqelela le mithetho kusengaphambili, lapho ungaphili esimeni somzwelo, esibanjwa ubuthongo.

"Uma ungafuni inja yakho [noma ikati] kufenisha noma embhedeni ngemuva kokufika kwengane, yetha lowo mkhawulo manje," kusho i-ASPCA. "Uma ungafuni ukuthi inja yakho igxumele kuwe lapho uphethe ingane yakho entsha noma uyibambe ethangeni lakho, qala ukumfundisa ukugcina zonke izinyawo zakhe phansi."

Okufanayo kuya ngezinhlelo zokulala - uma isilwane sakho sijwayele ukulala embhedeni wakho noma ekamelweni futhi ufuna ukuthi lokho kuguquke, kubalulekile ukuqala ukubeka lezo zinguquko endaweni ngokushesha okukhulu.

Letha ekhaya ukwamukela izingubo zokulala noma ama-onesies ingane yakho egqoke ngaphambi kokukhishwa

Enye yezindlela ezaziwa kakhulu futhi ezaziwayo zokwethula ingane yakho enoboya enganeni yakho entsha ukuletha ekhaya ingubo yokuthola ingane yakho encane noma ingubo yokuqala. Ukwenza kanjalo kuzosiza isilwane sakho ukuba sijwayelane nephunga losana ngaphambi kwesingeniso salo sokuqala.

Ukwethula isilwane sakho enganeni yakho

Ngakho-ke wenze umsebenzi wokulungiselela, uzizwa sengathi usukulungele, kepha kuthiwani uma empeleni uletha ingane yakho entsha sha ekhaya okokuqala ngqa?

Yethula usana lwakho olusanda kuzalwa kancane, ngokwemigomo yesilwane sakho

Uma wena nengane senibuyile ekhaya, uzofuna ukwethula ngokusemthethweni inja noma ikati lakho kwilungu elisha lomndeni wabo kodwa i-ASPCA incoma ukuthi ulinde, okungenani imizuzu embalwa.

Lapho uqala ukufika ekhaya uvela esibhedlela, bingelela ikati lakho noma inja ngendlela ohlale wenza ngayo. Lokhu kuzogcina izinja zingashayi futhi zizole izinzwa zazo. Uma usuthole ukuhlangana kwakho okuthula, ungamukela emndenini nakubangane abangaba khona ukuzovakasha. Kungcono ukulinda kuze kube izinto sezikhululekile ukuthatha isikhathi esithile ukuvumela isilwane sakho sihlangane nengane yakho.

Lokho kusho, lo mhlangano kusamele wenziwe kancane, nangokuqapha nokunakekela. Gcina umntwana osanda kuzalwa ezandleni zakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yiba nelinye ilungu lomndeni eliphatha inja (okufanele iqhutshwe) noma ikati, futhi uhloniphe imingcele yesilwane sakho.

Uma isilwane sakho sibonakala sicasukile noma sikhathazekile, sinike isikhala. Bese uzama futhi ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa.

Gada konke ukuxhumana

Akufanele neze ushiye usana lwakho noma ingane yakho encane ingagadiwe nesilwane - kungakhathalekile isimo sayo - njengoba izinto eziningi zingahambi kahle. Ingane yakho entsha noma uboya ingane yakho ingalimala.

Ngakho-ke phatha konke ukuxhumana. Ngenelela lapho kunesidingo, unikeze ikati noma inja yakho isikhala. Imihlangano ephoqelelwe ingaba yingozi futhi ingaholela ekuklwebhekeni nasekulungeni. I-AKC iphakamisa nokuthi ugcine inja yakho ngesibopho esifushane, okungenani izinsuku ezimbalwa, lapho uqala ukujwayelana nosana olusha.

Vele, lokhu kungabonakala njengokuningi - futhi kunjalo. Ukunakekela ingane yakho entsha noboya kungakucindezela, okungenani ezinsukwini zokuqala. Kodwa ngokulungiselela okuncane nokubekezela okukhulu, uzothola ukuthi kukhona indawo ekhaya lakho (nenhliziyo) yomngani wakho onemilenze emine nomngane wakho omusha, onemilenze emincane.

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