Amantombazane Amantombazane Ayeka Izemidlalo Ngalesi Sizathu Esicindezelayo

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Njengomuntu odlulile ebusheni ngejubane lombani-ngikhuluma kusuka kusayizi A inkomishi kuya enkomishini u-D ehlobo ngemuva konyaka wami omusha webanga eliphakeme-ngiyakwazi ukuqonda, futhi ngizwelana kahle namantombazane asemasha alwa nezinguquko zomzimba. Phezu kokuthuthuka kwami ​​obekubonakala sengathi kwenzeke ngobusuku obubodwa, ngikwazile ukuqhubeka nokuthanda kwami ​​ezemidlalo, ngaba ngumsubathi wemidlalo emibili esikoleni samabanga aphakeme: umgadli eqenjini lebhola likanobhutshuzwayo ekwindla, umgijimi (ongasheshi) entanjeni.

Nokho, ucwaningo olusha olushicilelwe ku I-Journal of Adolescent Health kukhombisa ukuthi amantombazane ajwayele ukuqala ukuyeka ezemidlalo futhi eqe amakilasi okuzivocavoca lapho kuqala ukuthomba ngesizathu esivame kakhulu: ukukhulisa amabele, nesimo sengqondo samantombazane ngawo. (Owesifazane oyedwa uyabelana: "Ngifunde Kanjani Ukuthanda Ukusebenza Njengentombazane Enobungqabavu."

Kulolu cwaningo, amantombazane esikole angama-2,089 aneminyaka engu-11 kuya ku-18 ahlolwa ngabacwaningi baseNyuvesi yasePortsmouth eNgilandi. Abakuthola kwakungethusi kangako kimi, kodwa mhlawumbe nakakhulu kubo bonke abanye abantu: Cishe amaphesenti angu-75 ezifundo akhulume okungenani okukodwa okuphathelene nebele ngokuphathelene nokuvivinya umzimba nemidlalo. Cabanga: Babecabanga ukuthi amabele abo makhulu kakhulu noma mancane kakhulu, abhodlile kakhulu noma aboshwe ngokuqinile kubhodisi ongafaneleki kahle, bebezazi ukuthi bazokhumula egumbini lokukhiya futhi ngokufanayo bayazilolonga ukuzivocavoca ngokuyeka. (Akuyona nje intsha; ukwesaba ukwahlulelwa yisona sizathu sokuqala sokuthi abesifazane beqe ijimu.)

Ngokusobala, kunesidingo semfundo uma kukhulunywa ngama-boobs, ukuthomba kanye nemidlalo. Amaphesenti angu-90 amantombazane kulolu cwaningo athi afuna ukwazi okwengeziwe ngamabele ngokuvamile, futhi cishe uhhafu ufuna ukwazi ngezinsimbi zezemidlalo kanye namabele ikakhulukazi ngokuphathelene nokusebenza komzimba. Amaphesenti ayi-10 kuphela abike ukuthi anebhodisi lezemidlalo elilingana nelingamukeleki kunoma iyiphi incwadi yabasubathi yansuku zonke.

Ngakho-ke ake siqale ukukhuluma ngama-boobs ethu kakhulu, makhosikazi. Amantombazane akufanele azizwe enamahloni ngamabele abo, amakhulu noma amancane. Futhi-ke, kufanele njalo zisekelwe-womabili amabele namantombazane anazo.

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