Ukuqonda Nokubhekana Nomdlavuza Wesiginali

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• Iyini iminyaka yokuphila yomuntu onomdlavuza ongapheli?
• Ngabe kukhona yini ukwelashwa komdlavuza ongapheli?
• Ukuzikhethela
• Ukuhlolwa kwemitholampilo
• Ezinye izindlela zokwelapha
• Yiziphi izinyathelo ezilandelayo ngemuva kokuxilongwa?
• Yazisa imizwa yakho
• Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze udokotela wakho
• Imibuzo okufanele uzibuze yona
• Ukukhuluma nabanye
• Ngingazitholaphi izinsiza kusebenza?

Uyini umdlavuza ongapheli?

Umdlavuza wesiginali usho umdlavuza ongalapheki noma welashwe. Ngezinye izikhathi ubizwa nangokuthi umdlavuza wokugcina. Noma yiluphi uhlobo lomdlavuza lungaba umdlavuza ongapheli.

Umdlavuza wesiginali uhlukile kumdlavuza osezingeni eliphakeme. Njengomdlavuza ongapheli, umdlavuza osezingeni eliphakeme awelapheki. Kepha iyaphendula ekwelashweni, okunganciphisa ukukhula kwayo. Umdlavuza wesikhumulo awuphenduli ekwelashweni. Ngenxa yalokhu, ukwelashwa komdlavuza wokugcina kugxile ekwenzeni umuntu akhululeke ngangokunokwenzeka.

Funda ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngomdlavuza ongapheli, kufaka phakathi umthelela wawo esikhathini sokuphila nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani uma wena noma othandekayo uthola lokhu kutholakala.

Iyini iminyaka yokuphila yomuntu onomdlavuza ongapheli?

Ngokuvamile, umdlavuza wokuphela unciphisa isikhathi sokuphila somuntu. Kodwa isikhathi sokuphila sangempela somuntu sincike ezicini eziningana, kufaka phakathi:

• uhlobo lomdlavuza abanalo
• impilo yabo iyonke
• noma ngabe banezinye izimo zezempilo

Odokotela bavame ukuthembela enhlanganisweni yesipiliyoni somtholampilo kanye ne-intuition lapho kunqunywa isikhathi sokuphila somuntu. Kepha ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi lesi silinganiso ngokuvamile asilungile futhi sinethemba elikhulu.

Ukusiza ukulwa nalokhu, abacwaningi nodokotela baqhamuke namaqoqo amaningana emihlahlandlela yokusiza oncologists kanye nodokotela abanakekelayo banikeze abantu umbono onengqondo ngokwengeziwe ngempilo yabo. Izibonelo zale mihlahlandlela zifaka:

• Isikali sokusebenza seKarnofsky. Lesi sikali sisiza odokotela ukuba bahlole izinga lokusebenza likonke lomuntu, kufaka phakathi amandla abo okwenza imisebenzi yansuku zonke nokuzinakekela. Amaphuzu anikezwa njengephesenti. Ukunciphisa amaphuzu, kufushane isikhathi sokuphila.
• Amaphuzu wokubikezela we-Palliative. Lokhu kusebenzisa amaphuzu omuntu esikalini sokusebenza kweKarnofsky, isibalo segazi elimhlophe nokubalwa kwe-lymphocyte, nezinye izinto ukukhiqiza amaphuzu aphakathi kuka-0 no-17.5. Ukuphakama kwamaphuzu, kufushane isikhathi sokuphila.

Yize lezi zilinganiso zinganembi ngaso sonke isikhathi, zifeza injongo ebalulekile. Bangasiza abantu nodokotela babo benze izinqumo, bazibekele imigomo, futhi basebenzele izinhlelo zokuphela kokuphila.

Ngabe kukhona yini ukwelashwa komdlavuza ongapheli?

Umdlavuza wesifo esingalapheki awulapheki. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ayikho imishanguzo ezoqeda umdlavuza. Kepha kunezindlela eziningi zokwelapha ezingasiza ukwenza umuntu akhululeke ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kuvame ukufaka ukunciphisa imiphumela emibi yomdlavuza kanye neminye imithi esetshenziswayo.

Abanye odokotela bangase baqhubeke nokuhlinzeka ngamakhemikhali noma ngemisebe yokwelula isikhathi sokuphila, kepha lokhu akuyona inketho ehlale ikhona njalo.

Ukuzikhethela

Ngenkathi odokotela benokufaka okuthile ohlelweni lokwelashwa komuntu onomdlavuza ongapheli, kuvame ukwehlela kokuthandayo.

Abanye abanomdlavuza ongapheli bayayeka ukumisa zonke izindlela zokwelashwa. Lokhu kuvame ukubangelwa imiphumela emibi engadingeki. Isibonelo, abanye bangathola ukuthi imiphumela emibi yemisebe noma i-chemotherapy ayikufanelekeli ukwanda kwesikhathi sokuphila.

Ukuhlolwa kwemitholampilo

Abanye bangakhetha ukubamba iqhaza ezivivinyweni zomtholampilo zokuhlola.

Izindlela zokwelapha ezisetshenziswe kulezi zivivinyo cishe ngeke zelaphe umdlavuza ongapheli, kodwa zifaka isandla ekuqondeni okukhulu komphakathi wezokwelapha ngomdlavuza. Bangasiza izizukulwane ezizayo. Le kungaba yindlela enamandla yokuthi othile aqinisekise ukuthi izinsuku zakhe zokugcina zinomthelela ohlala njalo.

Ezinye izindlela zokwelapha

Ezinye izindlela zokwelashwa zingasiza nalabo abanomdlavuza ongapheli. Ukulungiswa kwesikhumba, ukwelashwa kokubhucungwa, namasu okuphumula kungasiza ekunciphiseni ubuhlungu nokungahambi kahle ngenkathi futhi kunciphisa nengcindezi.

Odokotela abaningi bancoma abantu abanomdlavuza ongapheli ukuba bahlangane nodokotela wezengqondo noma wezifo zengqondo ukusiza ukubhekana nokukhathazeka nokudangala. Lezi zimo azivamile kubantu abanomdlavuza ongapheli.

Yiziphi izinyathelo ezilandelayo ngemuva kokuxilongwa?

Ukuthola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza ongapheli kungaba nzima kakhulu. Lokhu kungenza kube nzima ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo. Ayikho indlela elungile noma engalungile yokuqhubeka, kepha lezi zinyathelo zingasiza uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi wenzeni ngokulandelayo.

Yazisa imizwa yakho

Uma uthola izindaba zokuthi wena noma othandekayo unomdlavuza ongapheli, cishe uzodlula ebangeni elithile lemizwa, imvamisa esikhathini esifushane. Lokhu kujwayelekile impela.

Isibonelo, ungaqala ukuzizwa uthukuthele noma udabukile, kuphela uzithole uzizwa ukhululekile, ikakhulukazi uma inqubo yokwelashwa ibinzima kakhulu. Abanye bangazizwa benecala ngokushiya abathandekayo babo emuva. Abanye bangase bazizwe benqena ngokuphelele.

Zama ukuzinika isikhathi sokuzwa lokho okudingeka uzizwe. Khumbula ayikho indlela efanele yokusabela ekuhlolweni komdlavuza ongapheli.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungesabi ukufinyelela usizo lwabangane nomndeni. Uma ungazizwa ukhululekile ukwenza lokhu, khuluma nodokotela wakho. Bangakudlulisela kuzinsizakusebenza zendawo nezinsizakalo ezingasiza.

Ukuthola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza ongapheli kungaholela emqondweni omkhulu wokungaqiniseki. Futhi, lokhu kujwayelekile ngokuphelele. Cabanga ukubhekana nalokhu kungaqiniseki ngokubhala phansi uhlu lwemibuzo, kokubili kudokotela wakho nakuwe. Lokhu kuzokusiza nokuthi uxhumane kangcono nalabo osondelene nabo.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze udokotela wakho

Ngemuva kokuthola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza ongapheli, udokotela wakho angaba umuntu wokugcina ofuna ukukhuluma naye. Kepha le mibuzo ingasiza ukuqala inkhulumomphendvulwano ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo:

• Yini engingayilindela ezinsukwini, amasonto, izinyanga, noma iminyaka ezayo? Lokhu kungakusiza ukukunika umbono wokuthi kuzokwenzekani ngomgwaqo, kukuvumela ukuthi uzilungiselele kangcono ukubhekana nalezi zinselelo ezintsha.
• Iyini iminyaka yami yokuphila? Lokhu kungazwakala njengombuzo othungayo, kodwa ukuba nomugqa wesikhathi kungakusiza wenze izinqumo ongazilawula, noma ngabe ukuthatha uhambo, ukuthola abangane nomndeni, noma ukuzama ukwelashwa okwandisa impilo.
• Ingabe kukhona izivivinyo ezinganikeza umbono ongcono wesikhathi sami sokuphila? Lapho kutholakala ukuxilongwa komdlavuza ongapheli, abanye odokotela bangafuna ukwenza izivivinyo ezengeziwe ukuthola umqondo ongcono wezinga lomdlavuza. Lokhu kuzokusiza wena nodokotela wakho ukuqonda kangcono isikhathi sokuphila. Kungasiza nodokotela wakho ukukulungiselela ukunakekelwa okufanele kokuthambisa.

Imibuzo okufanele uzibuze yona

Ukuthi umuntu uqhubeka kanjani ngemuva kokuthola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza ongapheli kuhilela ukuthanda okuhle komuntu siqu. Lezi zinqumo zingaba nzima ngokumangazayo, kepha ukuzibuza le mibuzo kungasiza:

• Ingabe ukwelashwa kukufanele? Ezinye izindlela zokwelashwa zingahlehlisa isikhathi sokuphila kwakho, kepha futhi zingakwenza ugule noma ungakhululeki. Ukunakekelwa kwe-palliative kungaba inketho ongathanda ukuyicubungula esikhundleni salokho. Yenzelwe ukukwenza ukhululeke ezinsukwini zakho zokugcina.
• Ngabe ngidinga ukuqondiswa okuthuthukile? Lo ngumbhalo owenzelwe ukukusiza ufeze izifiso zakho uma ekugcineni ungakwazi ukukwazi ukuzithathela izinqumo. Ingabandakanya yonke into lapho izindlela zokonga impilo zivunyelwe khona lapho ungathanda ukungcwatshwa khona.
• Yini engifuna ukuyenza? Abanye abantu abanomdlavuza ongapheli banquma ukuqhubeka nemisebenzi yabo yansuku zonke njengokungathi akukho okushintshile. Abanye bakhetha ukuhamba babone umhlaba ngenkathi besengakwazi. Ukukhetha kwakho kufanele kubonise ukuthi ufuna ukuhlangabezana nani ezinsukwini zakho zokugcina nokuthi ufuna ukuchitha nobani.

Ukukhuluma nabanye

Lokho onquma ukuxoxa ngakho mayelana nokuxilongwa kwakho kukuwe ngokuphelele. Nawa amanye amaphuzu okuxoxwa okufanele uwahlole:

• Ukuxilongwa kwakho. Lapho usuthole isikhathi sokucubungula izindaba futhi uthathe isinqumo sokwenza okuthile, unganquma ukwabelana nabangani bakho nomndeni wakho - noma ukukugcina kuyimfihlo kakhulu.
• Yini ebalulekile kuwe. Kulezi zinyanga nezinsuku ezisele, unganquma ukuthi impilo yakho yansuku zonke ibukeka kanjani. Khetha izindawo, abantu, nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe ngalesi sikhathi. Cela umndeni wakho ukuthi weseke izinhlelo zakho zokusebenzisa izinsuku zakho ngendlela ofisa ngayo.
• Izifiso zakho zokugcina. Ngenkathi isiqondisi esithuthukile sizokuphathela okuningi kwalokhu, ngaso sonke isikhathi kuwukuhlakanipha ukwabelana ngezifiso zakho nabangani nomndeni ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izinto zenziwa ngendlela ofuna ukuba zibe ngayo.

Ngingazitholaphi izinsiza kusebenza?

Ngenxa ye-intanethi, kunezinsizakusebenza eziningi ezingakusiza ukuthi uzulazule ezicini eziningi zokuxilongwa komdlavuza okungapheli. Ukuqala, cabanga ngokuthola iqembu lokusekela.

Amahhovisi odokotela, izinhlangano zezenkolo, kanye nezibhedlela kaningi zihlela amaqembu okusekela.Lawa maqembu aklanyelwe ukuhlanganisa abantu ngabanye, amalungu omndeni, kanye nabanakekeli ababhekene nokuxilongwa komdlavuza. Bangakunikeza, kanye noshade naye, izingane, noma amanye amalungu omndeni, ngozwela, ukuqondiswa, nokwamukelwa.

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