Ukususa Inganekwane yokuthi ama-Vaginas ase-Asia aqinile

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• Ngakho ake sibeke inganekwane embhedeni
• Iningi labesifazane base-Asia bahlangana okokuqala nale nkolelo uma beqala ukuya ocansini nabesilisa
• Abanye besifazane base-Asia, noma kunjalo, bathola lo mqondo oyinkinga unenkinga futhi ungakhathazi.
• Kepha inganekwane efayo ayisho ukuthi imiphumela iyanyamalala kanye nayo

Ayikho inganekwane eyingozi njengokulindela ukuba nesitho sowesifazane sangasese.

Kusukela emabeleni angapheli kuze kube semilenzeni ebushelelezi, engenaboya, ubufazi buhlale benziwa ucansi futhi benziwa emazingeni angenangqondo.

Isayensi ikhombisile ukuthi lezi zinhloso ezingasebenzi zinemiphumela elimazayo emqondweni wabesifazane wokuzihlonipha. Kodwa-ke, akukho okube yingozi, noma okungafundiswanga, njengokulindela ukuba nesitho sowesifazane sangasese.

Ama-vaginas aqinile ayaziswa cishe kuwo wonke umphakathi namasiko anezimpande zezinzalamizi. Zithathwa njengezinkomba zobuntombi nobumsulwa, ezisuselwa enkolelweni yokuthi abesifazane bayimpahla, ukuhlala kungathintwa ngaphandle uma kubayeni babo.

Kepha ezingeni eliphansi, isitho sowesifazane sangasese sibuye sibonakale njengesici esikhanga kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane be-cis babe nakho ngoba kumnandi kakhulu ukuthi amadoda e-cis angene. Ukuhlinzwa kabusha kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ukuthola "ukuthungwa kwendoda," nokuzivocavoca okubonakala kuyingozi kweKegel: Yonke le mikhuba isuselwa enkolelweni yokuthi izitho zangasese eziqinile zingama-vaginas angcono.

Futhi le nkolelo-mbono ibonakala ithinta kakhulu abesifazane base-Asia ikakhulukazi.

Usomahlaya u-Amy Schumer wake wazama ukwenza ihlaya: “Akukhathalekile ukuthi nenzani, makhosikazi, wonke umuntu wesilisa uzonishiya abe ngowesifazane wase-Asia… Futhi bakuletha kanjani ekhaya ukuze banqobe? Hawu, izitho zangasese ezincane kakhulu kulo mdlalo. ”

Umtshele ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi amantombazane ase-Asia yiwona ahamba phambili ngoba izitho zawo zangasese ziqinile.

UDkt. Valinda Nwadike, MD kanye nochwepheshe bezokubelethisa nezifo zabesifazane eCalifornia, eMaryland, uyabona ukuthi loluhlobo lukhona kanjani, futhi ngenhliziyo yonke akavumelani nalesi simiso. “Ngokwethembeka ungacabangi ukuthi [abesifazane base-Asia abanezitho sangasese ezincane] kuyiqiniso. Ngingavumelani nakanjani nale nkolelo-mbono. Asenzi izinqumo ngosayizi - asinawo ama-speculum ase-Asia. Lokho kukodwa kungaphikisa inganekwane. Kufanele ilaliswe ngokuphelele. ”

Ngakho ake sibeke inganekwane embhedeni

Akucaci ukuthi le nsumansumane yaqala kanjani, kodwa abaningi basola ukuthi isuselwe kubukoloni. I-Patricia Park, ye-Bitch Media, ilandelela lokhu kwezocansi emuva eMpini yaseKorea neVietnam, ngenkathi i-United States isungula impi.

Izinkulungwane zabesifazane base-Asia, kubandakanya nabesifazane baseThailand nabasePhilippines, bashushumbiswa futhi baphoqelelwa ukuba benze ubufebe namasosha amhlophe aseMelika. (Imiphumela yokugqashuka ibonakala kakhulu eThailand, lapho ezokuvakasha ngobuningi bezocansi zenzelwe ukukhokha izikweletu.)

Ngenxa yalokho, ukuhlangana kwamadoda amaningi amhlophe okokuqala nabesifazane base-Asia kwakusendabeni yokunqoba ezempi nokubuswa ngokocansi.

KuJournal of the American Philosophical Association, uRobin Zheng ubeka iphuzu lokuthi lo mlando ulolonge indlela abantu abavezwa ngayo ngabesifazane base-Asia namuhla. Izinkolelo-ze zaseHollywood ikakhulukazi zidweba abesifazane base-Asia njengezocansi, kusukela entombazaneni ezithobayo kuya eChina Doll nodrako lady, baze bazale futhi babe omama bamahlosi. (Ithaca College Library igcina uhlu olusha lokuvezwa kwabantu base-Asiya kumafilimu, kukhombisa ukuthi izindima zikhawulelwe kanjani ezinsizeni zocansi, ezigebengwini, noma ezisulwe ngokuphelele.)

Kepha enye indlela entsha lapho iningi lalezi zinkolelo-ze ziqhubeka ziphikelela ngokusobala? I-Porn, indawo eba ngokushesha njengomthombo oyinhloko wemfundo yezocansi yentsha.

Owesilisa omhlophe oneminyaka engama-27, ocele ukuthi angadalulwa, uxoxa ukuthi levenue yayikuphi lapho afunda khona umqondo wokuthi abesifazane base-Asia banezitho zangasese eziqinile.

Uthi: “Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zinengxenye enkulu kulo mbono. “Ziningi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngokwesibonelo, ezizohlanganisa abesifazane base-Asia nabesilisa abaMnyama, kudlalwe ngalezozinkolelo-mbono zocansi. Ngakho-ke, ngicabanga ukuthi kungenye into amadoda agxile ezingqondweni zawo. ”

Iningi labesifazane base-Asia bahlangana okokuqala nale nkolelo uma beqala ukuya ocansini nabesilisa.

Kodwa-ke, le nsumansumane ayisatshalaliswa nje kuphela phakathi kwemibuthano yabesilisa. Ngisho nabesifazane bayayiqhakambisa le nkolelo.

UJenny Snyder, owesifazane oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala wase-Asia futhi waseLouisville, uthi umngani wakhe wesifazane omhlophe wambuza esikoleni esiphakeme ukuthi isitho sakhe sangasese sasingecala yini. "Wangibuza ngokoqobo ukuthi isitho sami sangasese sasimile," kukhumbula uSnyder. "Wayecabanga nokuthi ukuqhuma kwesinqe sami kwakumile - kufana nesihlathi sesinqe ngaphezulu kwesinye."

UMichelle Eigenheer, owesifazane waseKorea ongowengxenye waseLouisville, eKentucky, ukhumbula okwenzeka lapho udokotela wezifo zabesifazane - owesifazane omhlophe - eshintshela ku-speculum evame ukubekelwa intsha phakathi nohlolo.

"Kungenzeka ukuthi kwakuhlobene nokuthi ngangishubile kunokuba ngibe nomehluko ongokoqobo wezinto eziphilayo," kusho u-Eigenheer. "Kodwa kungenze ngazibuza - ngabe yinto yangempela le?"

Njengesazi sezifo zabesifazane, uDkt Nwadike akakaze ahlangabezane nesidingo sokushintsha ama-speculums. “Kungenzeka ukuthi abahlangani nabantu abaningi base-Asia. Kuya ngokuthi abantu bakubo bakusekela kubani, mhlawumbe abanalo ithuba lokukubona lokho kuchithwa, ”usho kanje, ngemuva kokubuza ukuthi kungani ecabanga ukuthi le nkolelo-ze iyaqhubeka nokuqhubeka, nasemkhakheni wezokwelapha. "Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi abesilisa abaMnyama banezici ezithile, futhi lokho akulona iqiniso, kodwa le nkolelo-ze iyaqhubeka."

Iningi labesifazane base-Asia bahlangana okokuqala nale nkolelo uma beqala ukuya ocansini nabesilisa

UGrace Que, owesifazane waseChina waseMelika oneminyaka engu-19 waseChicago, uthi wayezwile lo mqondo “ujikijelwa ngapha nangapha ngabantu abambalwa nakwezamasiko e-pop.”

Kodwa akazange azibonele yena waze waqala ukuya ocansini. Abalingani bakhe besilisa babephawula ngokuqina kwakhe ngokusho amagama athi, "O nkosi yami, uqine kakhulu."

UJennifer Osaki, owesifazane waseJapane waseMelika oneminyaka engu-23 ubudala owakhulela eLos Angeles, eCalifornia, wabhekana nesimo esifanayo. Wezwa ngenkolelo-mbono evela kubantu afunda nabo ekolishi, kodwa akazange azibonele yena waze waqoma unyaka wabamhlophe unyaka wesibili.

Umtshele ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi amantombazane ase-Asia yiwona angcono kakhulu ngoba izitho zabo zobulili zangasese ziqinile.

"Ngayihleka kabi ngoba okwamanje, ngabona ukuthi kuyinto enhle," kusho u-Osaki.

Futhi impela, ilebuli yokuba nesitho sowesifazane sangasese esiqine yamukelwa kabanzi futhi ibonwa njengento “enhle” nabesifazane abaningi base-Asia.

"Uma isitho sangasese sowesifazane esiqinile empeleni siyinto, ngithemba kakhulu ukuthi nginaso," kusho uQue. “Ngokusobala ubulili bungaziswa kakhulu ngomunye umuntu kunalokho obukhona manje. Abangane bami abaningi abahle njalo bathi ukuqina kakhulu, kuhle kakhulu. ”

Njengokuphikisana nobufazi obumbene obuyigugu, isitho sangasese "esixegayo" sihlotshaniswa nabesifazane "ababi" - abesifazane abanabalingani abaningi kwezocansi.

UZoe Peyronnin, owesifazane oneminyaka engu-21 wase-Asia waseMelika okhuliswe eNew York, naye uyavumelana nalokhu. Yize eveza ukukhathazeka ngalo mbono ongahle ube namandla okuqhubeka nokuya ocansini nabesifazane base-Asia, ekugcineni uphetha ngokuthi, "Ngokwami, umqondo wokuba nesitho sangasese esiqinile uthandile, okungenani ucansi."

Abanye besifazane base-Asia, noma kunjalo, bathola lo mqondo oyinkinga unenkinga futhi ungakhathazi.

"Uma unemisipha eqinile ezansi lapho, lokho kuhle kakhulu," kusho uPhi Anh Nguyen, owesifazane wase-Asia waseMelika waseSan Francisco, eCalifornia. “Ngicabanga ukuthi yinto okufanele siziqhenye ngayo. Kodwa-ke, ukuhlanganisa lesi sici nabesifazane base-Asia ukubenza bafiseke kakhulu ngokocansi akuyona into enempilo. Kuyasiphikisa. ”

U-Eigenheer uthi uzizwa engakhululekile neze lapho abesilisa bakwaTinder beyisebenzisa njengomugqa wabo wokuvula, noma uma bemphatha ngendlela ehlukile ngokuya ngomqondo abawutholile ngaphambili mayelana nokuqina kwesitho sakhe sangasese.

Uthi: “Bafuna nje ukuxhumana okungajwayelekile. “Kodwa empeleni, bangena ohlelweni olunesihluku esikhulu kubantu besifazane. Le nkolelo isuselwa ezinkolelweni eziningi zokubandlulula abesifazane abaphethwe yizo. ”

Isifiso sokuba nesitho sowesifazane sangasese sisadlondlobala kakhulu ezweni lonke - futhi ngokusobala, umhlaba - uthinta abesifazane yonke indawo.

“Kunalo mbono wokufuna isitho sangasese sowesifazane esiqinile,” kusho uDkt Nwadike. Yize engakaze abe neziguli zase-Asia ezenza izinqumo zezempilo ngokususelwa kulo mbono, uye wahlangana nezinye izinhlanga zenza isicelo esincike ezinganekwaneni zesifazane esithambile. "Ngiye ngaba nabesifazane baseMpumalanga Ephakathi abangena bezofuna ukwenza izitho zabo zangasese ziqine, befuna ukuhlinzwa ngezimonyo ngoba bekucele ngabayeni babo."

Qhathanisa inkolelo yomqondo wesitho sangasese sowesifazane esiqinile sase-Asia nombono wesitho sangasese sowesifazane esixegayo. Njengokuphikisana nobufazi obumbene obuyigugu, isitho sangasese "esixegayo" sihlotshaniswa nabesifazane "ababi" - abesifazane abanabalingani abaningi kwezocansi.

"Akekho umuntu wesifazane ofuna ukubamba kakhulu," kusho u-Eigenheer. “Kubuhlungu! Yonke into entsha 'yesitho sangasese sowesifazane esiqinile' isezinhlungwini zowesifazane - intokozo yowesilisa ngokuhlukumeza owesifazane. ”

Lo mqondo uvame ukusetshenziselwa ukujabhisa amahlazo, njengalapho owesifazane ongumKristu eqhathanisa isitho sangasese sikaTaylor Swift nesamentshisi se-ham okusho ukuthi wayeziphethe kabi. Futhi inkulumo eklolodayo ethi "ukuphonsa inja eshisayo phansi ephaseji" iphakamisa nokuthi izitho zangasese zabesifazane ziyazelula ngemuva kocansi olwedlulele.

Inkinga, nokho, ukuthi le nsumansumane yesitho sangasese sowesifazane, kanye nezinye izinganekwane zesitho sangasese sowesifazane, nje ayisekelwe kusayensi.

Isayensi ikhombisa kaninginingi ukuthi ukukhululeka kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane akunakho ukuhlangana nhlobo nokuziphatha okuxekethile. Futhi alukaze lube khona ucwaningo oluqhathanisa ama-vaginas abantu base-Asia nezinye izinhlanga.

Abantu abaningi engikhulume nabo bathi futhi akubonakali kunesisekelo sesayensi salolu hlobo lwenkolelo. "Abesifazane beza ngazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu," kusho uNguyen.

Kodwa-ke, njengoba le nsumansumane isuselwa kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu, okuyi-subjective kakhulu, kuzoba khona abanye, njengomlungu omhlophe oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala, ongacacisi, abathi le nkolelo “iyiqiniso.”

"Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, ngithole ukuthi kufakazelwa kaninginingi ukuthi abesifazane base-Asia banama-vaginas," esho. "Ngingasho ukuthi baqine kunabesifazane bezinye izinhlanga."

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, u-Eigenheer unokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okuphakamisa okuphambene.

"Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, lokhu akulona iqiniso," esho. “Akekho owesilisa oke wangitshela ukuthi isitho sami sangasese sihlukile kungesomunye umuntu. Futhi uma ngikhuluma nabanye besifazane base-Asia, ngicabanga ukuthi nabo bangasho into efanayo. ”

U-Irene Kim, owesifazane waseKorea waseMelika oneminyaka engu-23 waseNew Jersey, uyavuma, uyayilahla le nkolelo. Uthi akunakwenzeka ukuba neqiniso kulo lonke ibhodi kubo bonke abesifazane base-Asia.

UKim uthi: "Awungeke ubeke uphawu kubobonke abantu abanesici esichazayo." "Uma kungelona iqiniso kubo bonke abantu besifazane base-Asia, ngakho-ke akufanele kukhulunywe sengathi kunjalo."

Ngaphandle kokungasekelwa eqinisweni lezesayensi, le nkolelo-mbono yezocansi nayo iyingozi ngoba igcizelela ukubaluleka kokuthokozisa owesilisa ngokobuhlungu besifazane.

"Akekho umuntu wesifazane ofuna ukubamba kakhulu," kusho u-Eigenheer. “Kubuhlungu! Yonke into entsha 'yesitho sangasese sowesifazane esiqinile' isezinhlungwini zowesifazane - intokozo yowesilisa ngokuhlukumeza owesifazane. ”

Ngakho-ke, akumangalisi ukuthi insumansumane yokuthi abesifazane base-Asia banama-vagina aqinile kunemithelela ekhathazayo kwabesifazane abangaphandle komphakathi wase-Asia. Izifundo ziya ngokuya zikhombisa ukuthi abesifazane be-cis babuzwa ubuhlungu (cishe amaphesenti angama-30 e-United States) lapho beya ocansini.

Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kunabesifazane base-Asia baseMelika - ikakhulukazi labo abaneminyaka engaba ngu-18 kuya kwengama-21 ubudala abahlala emadolobheni amakhulu asogwini - abangakaze bezwe ngalenganekwane.

“Ingabe yinto le?” Kubuza u-Ashlyn Drake, owesifazane oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala ongowesiShayina waseNew York. "Angikaze ngizwe ngalokhu ngaphambilini."

Kepha inganekwane efayo ayisho ukuthi imiphumela iyanyamalala kanye nayo

Ukusesha okusheshayo kwe-google "komjaho wesitho sangasese esiqinile" nakho kuletha imicu eminingana yokususa le nkoleloze. Ngeshwa, kunokukhipha lo mbono ngokuphelele, le micu - kusuka ku-2016 - isebenzisa izifundo ezincane futhi ezingaphelele (lezo ezigxila ezinhlangeni ezintathu kuphela nokungahambisani nomchamo) ukuphinda ubeke ilensi kwabesifazane abamnyama esikhundleni salokho.

Akunasizathu sokwenza ucwaningo olukhulu mayelana nobuhlanga nezitho sangasese sowesifazane okwake kwenziwa. "Kungani umuntu engakufunda lokho futhi kungasizakala ngani?" Kusho uDkt Nwadike. Ubalula ukuthi ziningi kanjani ezinye izinkomba zosayizi we-pelvic ngale komjaho, ezinjengohlobo lomzimba, ubudala, nokubeletha. “Kuningi okuguquguqukayo ukwenza isitatimende esibanzi. Uma ubheka usayizi, leyo kuphela imethrikhi. Ngibheka umuntu hhayi umbono ohlukile. ”

Umbuzo, ngakho-ke, akukhona ukuthi ngabe abesifazane be-Asia beqiniso empeleni bane-vagina abaqinile kunabesifazane bezinye izinhlanga.

Ukuba nengxoxo "yaluhlanga luni" kuyaphazamisa ngokuyisisekelo futhi kuqhubeka kwehlisa ukubaluleka kwabesifazane njengabantu ngokweneliseka ngokocansi abangakunika abesilisa (imvamisa kudela ukunethezeka nokuzijabulisa kwabo).

Ikakhulukazi uma kusenezifundo nemibiko yabesifazane abenza ucansi olomile ngenjongo yokujabulisa amadoda.

Esikhundleni salokho - lapho inganekwane njengamanje inamandla amaningi okulimaza kunokusiza - umbuzo okufanele ngabe siwubuza ukuthi, kungani kubalulekile "ukuqina" kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane?

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