Ukukhula Kwezinsana Nokuthuthuka: Ongakulindela

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• Ukukhula kukhula ngobuncane
• Isigaba sengane
• Isigaba sokusacathula
• Ukulinganisa ukukhula kwengane yakho
• Ukukhula okubambezelekile
• Abazali abafushane
• Ukubambezeleka kokukhula komthethosisekelo
• Okuncamelayo kokudla
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ngabe ukhona omunye umuntu obonakala enengane encane edla njengegodi elingenamkhawulo? Cha? Okwami ​​nje?

Kulungile-ke.

Uma ubhekene nengane encane engakwazi ukuthola ukudla okwanele futhi ibonakala ilambile ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungahle uzibuze ukuthi ngabe ingane yakho ijwayelekile yini. Ake sibheke izigaba zokukhula kwezingane ezincane - futhi sithole ukuthi yini engashayela zonke lezo zicelo zokudla okulula.

Ukukhula kukhula ngobuncane

Ngokwesifundo sango-2017 ku, kunezigaba ezintathu ezihlukene zokukhula empilweni yengane:

• Isigaba 1. Kwehlisa ngokushesha ukukhula kwezinsana okuhlala kuze kube cishe yiminyaka emithathu
• Isigaba 2. Isigaba sobuntwana ngokukhuphuka okungaguquki
• Isigaba 3. Ukukhula kwentsha kuyanda kuze kufike ubude bomuntu omdala

Kusho ukuthini ngempela konke lokho? Kusho ukuthi ingane yakho encane isesigabeni sokukhula esingaguquki ize ibe neminyaka emithathu. Kodwa-ke, lokho kukhula - okwenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu esigabeni sengane - kuzokwehla kancane ebuncaneni.

Ungakucabanga ukukhula njengonxantathu obheke phansi, nenani elikhulu lokukhula okusheshayo okwenzeka ebuntwaneni, bese uncipha kancane uze uneminyaka emithathu.

Isigaba sengane

Izingane zaziwa ngokukhula, futhi kunenani elikhulu lokukhula komzimba okwenzekayo, ikakhulukazi ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Lapho ingane yakho inezinyanga ezine kuya kwezingu-6 ubudala, izobe isisiphindaphinde isisindo sayo sokuzalwa.

Cabanga uma umuntu omdala enza lokho ezinyangeni ezimbalwa nje kuphela? Lokho kukhula okuningi! Izingane ziqhubeka zikhula ngesivinini esisheshayo phakathi nonyaka wokuqala, yize kungenjalo kangako ezinyangeni zokuqala.

Isigaba sokusacathula

Ngemuva kwalezo zinyanga eziyi-12 zokuqala, ukukhula kwehla ngisho nangaphezulu. Imvamisa, ingane encane izobeka kuphela amakhilogremu amahlanu phakathi kokujika eyodwa kuya kwamabili.

Ngemuva kokufinyelela eminyakeni emibili, izinga elifanayo lokukhula liyaqhubeka, futhi bazobeka kuphela amakhilogremu angama-5 unyaka ngamunye baze bafinyelele eminyakeni emihlanu.

Ukuphakama futhi kuyanda njengoba imilenze yosana ikhula futhi ilingana nawo wonke umzimba. Cabanga ngakho njengohlobo lomzimba wengane yakho "lokuthola" kukho konke lokho kukhula kusukela onyakeni wokuqala.

Ojahidada nabo basebenza kakhulu, ngakho basebenzisa amandla amaningi. Cishe uzobona ukuthi ingane yakho iqala ukulahlekelwa ukubukeka "kwengane" njengoba izitolo zalawo mafutha athandekayo zihlakazeka futhi zinyamalale.

Kodwa-ke, yonke iminyaka emithathu yokuqala yokuphila, yonke indlela eya ebusheni, ibhekwa njengenkathi yokukhula okusebenzayo, ngakho-ke gcina lokho engqondweni njengoba ubuka ingane yakho ikhula.

Ukulinganisa ukukhula kwengane yakho

Ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula kanjani kuyimpawu ebalulekile yezempilo nentuthuko yayo. Udokotela wezingane wengane yakho noma umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa uzolinganisa ukuphakama nesisindo sakho kukho konke ukuhlolwa bese ehlela abakutholile eshadini lokukhula.

Ishadi lokukhula libonisa izilinganiso zengane yakho uma ziqhathaniswa nezinye izingane zobudala obufanayo namaphethini wokukhula.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule ngokukhula kwengane yakho ukuthi noma ukukhula kwengane yakho encane kuzolinganiswa eshadini lokukhula, ayikho into efana nephethini yokukhula yosayizi owodwa.

Esikhundleni sokugxila kulokho ukukhula kwengane yakho okuqhathaniswa nezinye izingane, ukuphela kwento wena nodokotela wezingane okufanele nikhathazeke ngayo ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula kanjani uma iqhathaniswa nesilinganiso sayo sokukhula.

Ishadi lokukhula komntwana ngamunye lizohluka, futhi udokotela wakho uzohlola ukuthi ukukhula kwengane yakho kusendleleni ngokususelwa ezinombolweni zabo. Kukhona futhi, yize kunjalo futhi, ishadi ngalinye lizodinga ukuqondaniswa nombono womuntu ngamunye.

Uma ufuna izinombolo ezithile zikakhonkolo ukubheka, ama-CDC futhi ucacisa ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka engu-1 no-1/2 ubudala ezinesisindo esingamakhilogremu ayi-10 zizoba ngamaphesenti acishe abe ngu-50 ngesisindo, okusho ukuthi ngaphezu kwesigamu sezingane zizoba nesisindo esingaphezulu kanti uhhafu wezingane uzoba nesisindo esincane kuleyo minyaka.

Kepha khumbula: Zonke izinombolo eziseshadini lokukhula zimaphakathi nje futhi ngeke zibe “ezijwayelekile” kuwo wonke umntwana omncane. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho encane ikhula ngokufanele ngokuya ngephethini yokukhula ngayinye.

Ukukhula okubambezelekile

Kuthiwani ngokukhula okubambezelekile? Ezinye izingane empeleni zizophuza ukukhula lapho zifinyelela eminyakeni yobudala. Lezi zingane ziyobe sezikhulile ngokujwayelekile njengezingane kepha zizokwehlisa iminyaka yobudala emi-2 ngesinye sezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko.

Abazali abafushane

Uxolo, encane. Uma abazali bakho (noma oyedwa wabo) ubude bufushane, nawe ungaphela. Kuyindlela yemvelo nje - kepha akukho ukukhathazeka ngokwelashwa ngokuba kufushane.

Ukubambezeleka kokukhula komthethosisekelo

Eyaziwa nangokuthi ukubambezeleka kokuthomba, izingane ezinokulibaziseka kokukhula komthethosisekelo zizoba izingane ezilinganiselwe, kepha zizokwehlisa ukukhula phakathi kweminyaka yobudala yezinyanga eziyisithupha neminyaka emi-2.

Bese kuthi ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, ukukhula kwabo kubuyele kokujwayelekile. Bazoqala ukuthomba futhi babe nokukhula okukhulu kobusha babo kamuva, futhi.

Okuncamelayo kokudla

Ingxenye yakho konke lokho kukhula ukushintsha okuhlukile kokuthandwayo kwengane yakho. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ibonakala ifuna ukudla ukudla okufanayo kaninginingi, ungakhathazeki. Ingane yakho encane iba, kahle, encane. Futhi izingane ezisencane azaziwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngezilwanga zazo eziyinkimbinkimbi.

Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zithole ukudla okungathi sína “ukukhahlela” kule minyaka. Kumntwana wami omncane, lokho kudla kungaba isoseji yomndeni wethu oyithandayo yenkukhu yasekuseni. Angayidla ngobuningi obungithusayo ngobuqotho kwesinye isikhathi.

Ukuze ulwe nalokhu kukhahlela, qiniseka ukwethula ukudla okunhlobonhlobo okunempilo ngezikhathi zokudla, noma ngabe ingane yakho encane ingenantshisekelo ngaleyo minikelo. Bazofika lapho ekugcineni!

Ukungaguquguquki kubalulekile futhi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho encane ihlale iphakelwa ngokudla okunempilo nobabili eningazizwa kahle ngakho.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Njengoba uzulazula eminyakeni yokuhamba, ukukhula kwengane yakho kungancipha kancane. Khumbula ukuthi ezinye izizathu zokukhula okubambezelekile zivamile ngokuphelele. Lokho kusho ukuthi, uma unanoma ikuphi ukukhathazeka mayelana nokukhula kwengane yakho, kufanele uhlale ukhuluma nodokotela ukuze aqhubeke nokuhlolwa.