Ukungezwani Komuntu Okungahlali Emphakathini: Izimpawu kanye Nokwelapha

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• Ziyini izimpawu nezimpawu
• Ukuxilongwa kwenziwa kanjani
• Wazi kanjani ukuthi umuntu akathandi umphakathi?
• Yelashwa kanjani
• Izimbangela ezingaba khona

Ukungavumelani nobuntu kungukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, okwaziwa nangokuthi yi-psychopathy, okubonakala ngephethini yokuziphatha yokunganaki nokwephula amalungelo abanye abantu. Ngokuvamile, laba bantu banolaka, abazweli futhi banobunzima obukhulu bokuzivumelanisa nemithetho yomphakathi, bangayihloniphi futhi bayephule.

Izimbangela zingaba ngofuzo, zihlobene nokushiyeka kwezakhi zobuchopho bomuntu noma zithonywe imvelo.

Ziyini izimpawu nezimpawu

I-antisocial noma psychopath umuntu ongenalo uzwela futhi ongenandaba nemizwa yabanye, ephula amalungelo abo futhi engakwazi ukuthobela imithetho ebekwe ngumphakathi, ngoba abakwazi ukubona ukuhlupheka kwabanye, futhi babe nokuziphatha kobugebengu, njengoba laba bantu bengenakuzisola ngezenzo zodlame ezenziwe, okwenza lokhu kuphazamiseka kwengqondo kube yingozi kangaka. Nakhu ukuthi ungabona kanjani i-psychopath.

Laba bantu babonakala bengakuqondi noma bengakhathalele ukuthi umphakathi ukubheka njengokulungile nokungalungile, baziphathe ngendlela engafanele, ngaphandle kokubonisa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzisola ngezenzo zabo. Banobunzima ekulandeleni uhlelo lwempilo, imisebenzi eshintsha njalo futhi bengazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani izindleko zabo.

Izimpawu zokuqala zokungezwani nobuntu obungahlali nabantu zivela ebuntwaneni noma ebusheni bokuqala, lapho izingane ziqala ukukhombisa isimilo esingafanele, sephula amalungelo abanye abantu ayisisekelo kanye nemithetho yezenhlalo efanelekile futhi efanele iminyaka yobudala. Uma lesi sifo siqhubeka nokuba mdala, maningi amathuba okuthi lowo muntu atholakale enenkinga yokungafani nabantu.

Izenzo ezinjengokweba, ukweba, ukucekela phansi impahla, ukungahloniphi abantu, ukuqamba amanga okuphoqelekile, ukuphuthuma, ukuhlukumeza nokuxhaphaza kusesejwayelekile, futhi laba bantu bayakwazi ukwenza noma yini ukuthola abakufunayo.

Ukungezwani nobuntu kuyisifo esingelapheki, kodwa-ke kungenzeka ukubona ukuthuthuka ekuziphatheni kwabanye abantu njengoba bekhula, kepha kujwayelekile ukuthi baboshwe ngaphambi kwalokho, noma besebancane ngenxa yobugebengu obenziwe.

Ukuxilongwa kwenziwa kanjani

Kunenkinga yokutholakala kokuphazamiseka kobuntu emphakathini, ngoba kunenkinga enkulu yokukuhlukanisa nezinye izifo zengqondo nezinye izimpawu ezifanayo, njenge-schizophrenia, i-temporal lobe epilepsy, ukuba khona kwezilonda nezicubu ebuchosheni, noma ukusetshenziswa kwe izinto ezithinta ingqondo, ngakho-ke, zonke lezi zinto kufanele zikhishwe ngaphambi kokuqinisekiswa kokuxilongwa.

Inhlolokhono ivamise ukwenziwa, kubhekwa nawo wonke umlando womuntu, okungenziwa ngosizo lwemibiko evela esigulini nakumalungu omndeni asondele, kanye nokuqoqwa kolwazi ngomlando womndeni ngenxa yezici zofuzo.

Wazi kanjani ukuthi umuntu akathandi umphakathi?

I-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders ibala izindlela ezilandelayo zokuxilongwa kwalesi sifo:

1. Ukunganakwa nokwephulwa kwamalungelo abanye abantu, okwenzeka kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-15, okukhonjiswe ngabathathu noma ngaphezulu kokulandelayo:

• Kunzima ukuthobela izinkambiso zenhlalo, ukuba nokuziphatha okuyizizathu zokuboshwa;
• Ukuthambekela emangeni, ukusebenzisa amanga aphindaphindiwe, amagama angamanga noma ukuba nokuziphatha okukhohlisayo ukuze uzijabulise;
• Ukuxhamazela noma ukwehluleka ukwenza amasu ngekusasa;
• Ukuthukuthela nolaka, okuholela ekulweni nasekuhlaselweni ngokomzimba;
• Ukungabi nandaba nokuphepha komuntu noma okwabanye;
• Ukungaziphathi kahle kokuhlala ungaguquguquki emsebenzini noma ukuhlonipha izibopho zezezimali;
• Akukho ukuzisola ngokulimaza, ukuphatha kabi noma ukweba abanye abantu.

2. Umuntu okungenani uneminyaka eyi-18;

3. Ubufakazi bokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha okuvele ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-15;

4. Ukuziphatha okungahlali nabantu okungenzeki kuphela ngesikhathi se-schizophrenia noma i-bipolar disorder.

Yelashwa kanjani

Ukuthola umsuka wenkinga kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekuyinqandeni. Esinye isici esinikela ekuthuthukiseni isimilo somuntu onalesi sifo sixhumene nokwakhiwa kwezibopho ezithintekayo, njengomshado.

Ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo kunzima ukukwenza futhi kuya ngobukhulu bezimpawu, ukuzimisela komuntu ukwelashwa nokusebenzisana kwabo ekwelashweni futhi kungenziwa nge-psychotherapy kanye nemithi.

Ayikho imishanguzo ethize yokungahloniphi ubuntu okwamanje, kepha udokotela angakunika izidakamizwa ezisetshenziselwa ukwelapha ukukhathazeka nokudangala, noma ezilawula isimilo esinolaka, kepha-ke, kufanele uqaphele ngoba abanye abantu bangazisebenzisa kabi lezi zidakamizwa.

Izimbangela ezingaba khona

Izimbangela zalesi sifo azikaziwa ngokugcwele, kodwa kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuphazamiseka okungahlali nabantu kungahle kube yifa, kanti nezingane zabantu abanenkinga yokungabi nabuntu zisengozini enkulu yokuba nazo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungahle kube nokushoda ezakhiweni zobuchopho zalaba bantu, futhi imvelo nayo ibamba iqhaza elibalulekile ekubonisweni kwalokhu kuziphatha.

Lesi sifo futhi singaba ngumphumela wezinto ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ezingashintsha ukukhula kwengqondo komntwana, njengokusebenzisa osikilidi, iziphuzo ezidakayo noma izinto ezingekho emthethweni ngowesifazane okhulelwe, ezinomthelela omubi embungwini, kanye nokunganele ukudla izakhamzimba ezinjengamaprotheni, i-iron, i-zinc, i-omega-3. Funda ukuthi ungakhulelwa kanjani okunempilo.

Ngesikhathi sokukhula kwengane, imvelo yomndeni efakwe kuyo ibuye ibe nomthelela ekukhuleni kwayo ngokomzwelo, futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubudlelwano obuhle phakathi kukamama nengane busungulwe kusukela ebuncaneni, kusukela ukwahlukana, ukuphathwa kabi nokunganakwa kulokhu iphuzu empilweni yengane, zingabonakaliswa kamuva lapho sezikhulile, ezingabenza babe nolaka futhi zenyuse namathuba okuba nobuntu obungebona ubuntu.