Izinkinga ezivame kakhulu zobuntu

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• 1. I-Narcissist
• 2. Umngcele
• 3. Ukuphikisana nomphakathi
• 4. IDodge
• 5. Ukucindezela ngokweqile
• 6. Paranoid
• 7. ISchizoid
• 8. I-Schizotypical
• 9. Ezomlando
• 10. Othembele kuye

Izinkinga zobuntu ziqukethe indlela yokuziphatha eqhubekayo, ephambuka kulokho okulindelwe kusiko elithile lapho umuntu efakwa khona.

Izinkinga zobuntu zivame ukuqala lapho usumdala futhi okuvame kakhulu yilezi:

1. I-Narcissist

Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu beNarcissistic kubonakala ngesidingo esikhulu sokunconywa, umuzwa omkhulu ngawe, ukuzikhukhumeza, isidingo sokuqashelwa unomphela, isifiso esingenamkhawulo sempumelelo, amandla, ubuhlakani, ubuhle noma uthando oluhle.

AbakwaNarcissist banenkolelo yokuthi bakhethekile, bahlukile futhi baphakeme kunabanye abantu, banomuzwa wokuthi kufanele banconywe futhi baphathwe ngendlela ekhethekile ngabanye, basebenzise abanye ukufeza izinhloso zabo, ukuntula uzwela nokungaqondi imizwa yabanye abantu kanye nezidingo futhi kaningi zizizwa zinomona noma zikholelwa ukuthi ziyizisulu zomona womunye umuntu. Funda ukuthi ungahlala kanjani ne-narcissist.

2. Umngcele

Ukungezwani kobuntu bomngcele kwenzeka kubantu abanokungazinzi ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu futhi babonakala ngemizwa eqhubekayo yokuba yize, ukuguquka okungazelelwe kwemizwelo nokungafisi okuphawulekayo. Hlola futhi uthole ukuthi unayo yini i-borderline syndrome.

Laba bantu ngokuvamile benza umzamo omkhulu wokugwema ukushiywa, babe nephethini yobudlelwano obungazinzile nobunamandla, obubonakala ngokushintshana kokuqagela ngokweqile nokwehliswa kwamandla, banokuphazamiseka kobunikazi nokuziphatha okungacabangi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwezinye izimo, laba bantu banezindlela zokuzilimaza kanye nezinsongo zokuzibulala.

3. Ukuphikisana nomphakathi

Ukungezwani nobuntu obungahlali nabantu kungavela kusenesikhathi, noma ngabe useyingane, futhi kubonakala ngezimo zokungahloniphi nokwephulwa kwamalungelo abanye abantu, isimilo esiyingozi nesobugebengu nokungakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezinkambiso zomphakathi.

Laba bantu banobuchule obukhulu bokukhohlisa, ukuqamba amanga, ukusebenzisa amagama okungewona noma ukukhohlisa abanye abantu, ukuzizuzela noma ukuzijabulisa. Banamawala futhi banolaka futhi bavame ukusebenzisa ulaka lomzimba nokungabahloniphi abanye, ngaphandle kokuzisola nokukhombisa ukungabi nandaba ngokulimaza noma ukuphatha kabi omunye umuntu. Funda ukuthi ungamhlonza kanjani umuntu ongafuni ukuhlala nabantu.

4. IDodge

Lokhu kuphazamiseka kobuntu kubonakala ngokuvinjelwa okuphawuleka endaweni yezenhlalo, ngemizwa yokungafaneleki nokuzwela okukhulu ekuhloleni okungekuhle kwabanye abantu.

Laba bantu bayakugwema ukwenza imisebenzi yokusebenzisana, ngenxa yokwesaba ukugxekwa nokwenqatshwa noma ukungamukelwa, besaba ukuzibandakanya ebudlelwaneni obuseduze noma ukuhlangana nabantu abasha futhi bazizwe bengelutho komunye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, futhi besaba kakhulu ukuzibeka engcupheni futhi bazibandakanye emisebenzini emisha. Thola ukuthi lesi sifo selashwa kanjani.

5. Ukucindezela ngokweqile

Ukukhathazeka kobuntu okuphoqelela ngokweqile kuphawuleka ngokukhathazeka ngokweqile ngenhlangano, ukuphelela, ukulawula kwengqondo nokusebenzelana nabanye, ukungaguquguquki, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngemininingwane, imithetho, ukuhleleka, inhlangano noma amashejuli. Yazi ukuthi ungabona kanjani uma unalesi sifo.

Laba bantu bazinikele ngokweqile emsebenzini nasekukhiqizeni, bangayinaki imisebenzi yokuzilibazisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanamandla amakhulu okulahla izinto ezingenamsebenzi, abathandi ukudlulisa imisebenzi noma ukusebenza ngamaqembu, ngaphandle kwalapho abanye abantu belalelwa yimithetho yabo futhi bavinjelwe ngokweqile ezindlekweni zabo nakwabanye abantu.

6. Paranoid

Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu beParanoid kubonakala ngokusola ngokweqile nokusola maqondana nabanye, lapho izinhloso zabo zichazwa njengezinonya yi-paranoid.

Umuntu onenkinga yobuntu obukhathazayo akabethembi futhi asole abanye abantu futhi uvame ukuzwa ukuthi uyaxhashazwa, uphathwa kabi noma ukhohlisiwe, uhlala ebuza ukwethembeka kwabangane nozakwabo, akabathembi abanye futhi uzizwa sengathi izinhloso zakhe zinomuntu olulazayo noma osabisayo .

Ngaphezu kwalokho, babambe igqubu, abaxoleli kalula futhi ngokujwayelekile bathola isimo sengqondo sabanye njengokuhlaselwa, besabela ngokuxhamazela ngentukuthelo nangokulwa. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-paranoid.

7. ISchizoid

Abantu abanenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid bavame ukuziqhelelanisa nabanye abantu futhi bagweme ubudlelwane bezenhlalo noma ubudlelwano obusondelene, njengokuba yingxenye yomndeni, ngokwesibonelo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, bakhetha ukwenza imisebenzi eyedwa, bagweme ukuxhumana okusondelene nomlingani wabo, abanabo abangane abaseduze, abanandaba nokudumisa noma ukugxeka futhi bayabanda ngokomzwelo futhi bahlukanisiwe.

8. I-Schizotypical

Lesi sifo sibonakala ngokungakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obuseduze nokungathembani kanye nokushoda kothando kwabanye abantu.

Abantu abanokuphazamiseka kobuntu be-schizotypal banokuziphatha oku-ome njengeqanda, izinkolelo eziyinqaba, ezingahambisani nezinkambiso zamasiko umuntu afakwa kuzo nokucabanga okuyinqaba nokukhuluma. Thola ukuthi le nkinga yobuntu iphathwa kanjani.

9. Ezomlando

Ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-Histrionic kubonakala ngokuzwela ngokweqile nasekufuneni ukunakwa. Umuntu onalesi sifo uzizwa kabi uma engeyena isikhungo sokunaka nokuxhumana nabanye imvamisa ebonakala ngokuziphatha okungafanele, okuvusa inkanuko yezocansi kanye nezinguquko ezisheshayo ekuvezeni imizwelo.

Imvamisa usebenzisa ukubukeka komzimba ukuze athole ukunakwa futhi asebenzise inkulumo eheha ngokweqile nezinkulumo zemizwa ezihaba. Kodwa-ke, laba bantu bathonywa kalula abanye noma izimo futhi babheka ubudlelwano nabantu njengobusondelene kakhulu kunalokho okuyikho ngempela. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-histrionic.

10. Othembele kuye

Ukungezwani kobuntu obethembele kuye kubonakala ngesidingo eseqile sokunakekelwa, okuholela ekuziphatheni okuzithobayo nasekwesabeni ukwahlukana, ubunzima bokuthatha izinqumo ngaphandle kosizo lwabanye, isidingo sokuthi abanye babhekane nezindawo ezisemqoka empilweni yabo.nobunzima ungavumelani nabanye, ngokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukwesekwa noma ukwamukelwa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, laba bantu bakuthola kunzima ukuqala amaphrojekthi noma ukwenza izinto bebodwa, ngenxa yokungazethembi, amandla noma umdlandla. Futhi banesidingo esedlulele sokuthola uthando nokwesekwa futhi bazizwe bengakhululekile noma bengenakuzisiza lapho bebodwa, ngakho-ke, bafuna ubudlelwano obusha ngokushesha njengomthombo wothando nokwesekwa, lapho obamanje buphela. Thola ukuthi ukwelashwa kwenziwa kanjani.