Ukwelashwa kwe-Asperger's Syndrome
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Ukwelashwa kwe-Asperger's Syndrome kuhlose ukukhuphula izinga lempilo yengane nomuzwa wokuphila kahle, ngoba ngeseshini nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nabelaphi bezinkulumo kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ikhuthazeke ukuba ihlanganyele futhi ihlangane nabanye abantu. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwelashwa kuqalwe ngemuva nje kokuxilongwa, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthola imiphumela engcono kulo lonke ukwelashwa.
Iziguli ezine-Asperger's Syndrome ngokuvamile zihlakaniphile, kepha zinokucabanga okunengqondo kakhulu futhi okungezona ezingokomzwelo, ngakho-ke zinenkinga enzima kakhulu ephathelene nabanye, kepha lapho ubuhlobo bokwethembana busungulwa nengane, umelaphi angaxoxa futhi aqonde isizathu kokunye ukuziphatha "okungajwayelekile" okusiza ukukhomba isu elifanele kakhulu ecaleni ngalinye. Qonda ukuthi ungayibona kanjani i-Asperger's Syndrome.
1. Ukuqapha kwengqondo
Ukuqapha ngokwengqondo kubalulekile ku-Asperger's Syndrome, njengoba kungaphakathi nezikhathi lapho kubonakala khona izici eziyinhloko ezivezwa yingane futhi, ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukukhomba izimo lezi zici ezifakazelwa ngazo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesikhathi sokwelashwa nodokotela wezengqondo, ingane iyakhuthazwa ukuthi ikhulume futhi ihlale nomunye umuntu ongeyona ingxenye yempilo yabo yansuku zonke.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi abazali nothisha babambe iqhaza kule nqubo futhi basekele ukukhula kwengane. Ngakho-ke, ezinye izibonelo zalokho abazali nothisha abangakwenza ukusiza ingane ene-Asperger's Syndrome yilezi:
- Nikeza ingane imiyalo elula, emfushane futhi ecacile. Isibonelo: "Gcina iphazili ebhokisini ngemuva kokudlala" hhayi: "Gcina amathoyizi akho ngemuva kokudlala";
- Buza ingane ukuthi kungani besebenza ngesikhathi sesenzo;
- Chaza ngokusobala nangokuthula ukuthi isimo "esingajwayelekile", njengokusho igama elibi noma ukuphonsa okuthile komunye umuntu, asimnandi noma asemukeleki kwabanye, ukuze ingane ingaliphindi iphutha;
- Gwema ukwahlulela ingane ngokuziphatha enakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuya ngokuziphatha kwengane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singadlala imidlalo engasiza ukwenza kube nokuhlalisana kahle noma isize ingane ukuthi iqonde ukuthi kungani inesimo esithile sengqondo kanye nomthelela wezenzo zayo, ngokwesibonelo, owake wehluleka ukuqonda okulungile futhi akulungile.
2. Izikhathi zokwelashwa kwenkulumo
Njengakwezinye izimo ingane ingakuthola kunzima ukukhuluma nabanye abantu, izikhathi ezinesazi sokukhuluma zingasiza ukukhuthaza inkulumo nokwakhiwa kwamabinzana, ngaphezu kwalokho izikhathi zingasiza ekulinganiseni ithoni yengane yezwi, ngoba kwezinye amacala angahle amemeze noma akhulume ngokuqinile ezimeni lapho lokhu kungadingekile, noma kunjalo ingane iyaqonda ukuthi kufanelekile.
Ngaphezu kokusiza izingane ukuba zihlale nabanye ngokusebenzisa amandla okukhuluma, umelaphi wezinkulumo angasiza ingane ukuthi iveze imizwa yayo ngokufanele, kubalulekile ukuthi ingane ihambisane nodokotela wengqondo ukuze ikwazi ukubona umuzwa wayo ezimweni ezahlukahlukene.
3. Ukwelashwa kwezidakamizwa
Awukho umuthi othize we-Asperger's Syndrome, kepha lapho ingane ikhombisa izimpawu zokukhathazeka, ukudangala, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile noma ukusilela ekunakekeleni, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo singamdlulisela kudokotela wezifo zengqondo ukuze ancome ukusetshenziswa kwemithi esiza ukulawula izimpawu nezimpawu zalezi zinguquko, ukusiza ukukhuthaza ikhwalithi yempilo yengane.