Iyiphi Intombazane Ekhuluma Nogogo Wakho Engakufundisa Ngobudlelwane Obunempilo

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Ingabe ufuna ukunonga ingxoxo yesidlo saseholide ngokudla okwenziwe ngesuphamakethe? Kuyavela ukuthi, ezinye zezibonelo ezinhle kakhulu zocansi ogogo nomkhulu bakho (noma noma ngubani oyisizukulwane noma amabili amadala kunawe), kusho uJoan Price, uchwepheshe wezocansi nombhali we Unqunu Eminyakeni Yethu: Ukukhuluma Ngokuphakeme Ngezocansi Eliphakeme.

"Zonke izizukulwane zicabanga ukuthi zingabantu bokuqala ukuya ocansini, lapho lokho kusobala ukuthi akulona iqiniso! Kodwa ukubona ukuthi ucansi luyaqhubeka kuyo yonke impilo yakho, futhi ezimweni eziningi, lungaba ngcono kakhulu ngeminyaka, kungakusiza ukujabulele lokho ' Senginakho manje, "usho kanje.

Kuzwakala kungakhululekile, kodwa kungase kuzifanele izambulo. Lapha, ezinye izizathu ezintathu zokuthi kungani ukhuluma ngocansi-noma, heck, uletha ugogo ukuzobona Ama-50 Shades eGrey-ingaba yinhle kini nobabili. (Ngokuqondene namalungu omndeni angathandeki kangako, thola ukuthi Ungabhekana Kanjani Nezihlobo Ezicasulayo Ngamaholide.)

Kukunika Ukuqonda Okukwenza Umndeni Wakho Uphawule

Asisho ukuthi kufanele ushintshe imininingwane ngezikhundla zakho ozithandayo, kepha ungene kumbhikisho ocacile ngokubuza ukuthi ucansi lwalunjani emuva osukwini lwakhe, noma imicabango yakhe ngodaba olwaluzungeza phakathi kwezintombi zakho. Ungathola ukuthi ugogo wakho ukhuthaza ngokunamandla ukuthi abambe iqhaza, noma ukuthi umama wakho ufisa ukuthi ngabe uchithe isikhathi sokuphola ngaphambi kokuba yena nobaba wakho bahlale phansi. Noma ngabe iyiphi i-Intel, ukuzwa ukuqonda kwabo ebuhlotsheni babo kungakunika i-lens entsha ukuze ubuke eyakho, kusho amanani.

Kukuvumela Ubone Ukuthi Ukusondelana Kuthatha Zonke Izinhlobo

Mhlawumbe ugogo nomkhulu wakho basangana njalo ekuseni, mhlawumbe umama wakho usalokhu eyolala ngasikhathi sinye nobaba wakho-ukubona indlela izizukulwane ezindala ezijwayela ngayo imizimba yabo eguqukayo nezindlela zokuphila kuyisikhumbuzo esinamandla sokuthi ubulili nenjabulo 'kwenzelwa abantu abasha kuphela, kukhumbuza uPrice. "Uma ukhula, uya uzethemba ngokwengeziwe kokukusebenzelayo nokuthi yini okudingeka uyithole futhi ugcine injabulo," esho. Ukwazi ukuthi ugogo nomkhulu wakho bagcina uthando luyinto eza kuqala—kunoma yiluphi uhlobo olubathathayo—kuyisikhumbuzo esinamandla sokwenza okufanayo empilweni yakho. (Uma kwenzeka isikhumbuzo sokuthi wena nothandiweyo wakho ninenhlanhla kangakanani, fundani Ukwenza Ucansi Emzini Wabazali Bakho.)

Kuyisikhumbuzo sokuthi ucansi luba ngcono ngeminyaka

Ubuza ugogo wakho ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye engcono kakhulu yesikebhe sakhe sakamuva nje, futhi yena nomkhulu wakho bashintshana ngokubukeka futhi banamahloni. Melana nesifiso sokukhwabanisa, futhi esikhundleni salokho, ubone lokhu njengesikhumbuzo sokuthi ubulili obumnandi, benyama, obungenakulibaleka kungenzeka noma ngabe uzalwe kanjani. “Ucansi luyashintsha, kodwa luyakwazi ukudala futhi lushube uma ukhula ngoba uyazazi ukuthi ungubani,” kuchaza uPrice.

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